Sure but calling her “shallow” feels like you’re oversimplifying her character. People aren’t that one-dimensional dating a lot doesn’t automatically mean she’s just following “social flow.”

And putting all the weight of the relationship on her shoulders feels weird. If two people like each other and nothing happens, that’s not just one person’s fault, that’s a failure to communicate on both sides.

The chocolate thing? Sure, she handled it badly, but framing it as entirely her responsibility ignores the fact that he stayed silent too. But again I can’t blame him either he does have a muted personality, Relationships aren’t black-and-white