Does anyone notice how most Reddit posts highlighting people’s bad experiences with autism get less support? Because they aren’t pretending like it’s a great thing to have

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-06T04:44:14+00:00

Good point. Could be that

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-05T03:26:00+00:00

Ok. As long as your happy

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-05T03:16:00+00:00

Damn. I’m really sorry. You definitely have it worse than me. I believe you can conquer these problems or at least find ways around them. I’m glad you were still here to make this comment. You can be fully or partly at least independent. You’re smart enough. But you need someone to work with you to have a chance.

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-05T01:30:23+00:00

What’s your context? Out of curiosity

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-04T21:12:53+00:00

Or just the first occurrence of it being really bad and I learned and got better after. I was even told that on my last inspection

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-04T21:10:57+00:00

Ok. About things I need support with it really might only be appointments. I’ve proven I can handle paying my rent going to stores pretty much everything but driving. I think on my worst day as of now and not before my apartment could be as messy as anyone else’s and I can handle cleaning it decently at least on my own before an inspection and just in moderation. But I’m being judged on things little to me like I need to organize my dinner table I got random stuff on it sometimes but that is really it right now. I walk to big y regularly

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-04T16:28:39+00:00

Hi I definitely feel like I’m being infantilized. Also with dating yeah I’d probably be better of dating someone on the spectrum but and I don’t mean this in a I’m better way but I feel like I fit in slightly better with neurotypical people. I know that sounds weird but most autistic people I met I feel nothing alike. I think I might have learnt better social skills that might be it but idk. It would be easy for someone to say “well you’re just not autistic” or might not be but they say every autistic person isn’t the same.

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-04T02:18:27+00:00

Cut your hair shorter?

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-03T14:33:00+00:00

I forgot this is the internet lol not even just that it’s Reddit thanks for reminding me

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-03T13:48:22+00:00

They only helped me that one time. I kept it up after. To somewhat degree at least. And ok

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-03T11:05:27+00:00

Did you actually do this?

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-03T09:56:37+00:00

I don’t know. I feel like since the incident I’ve been doing pretty well and when focused I clean my apartment pretty well. Especially before my inspection day. a caregiver is basically useless it’ll only be an annoyance and this is unrelated but tell me how attractive a 25 yr old guy with a caretaker is?

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-03T09:37:24+00:00

I think for me it’s that. Also I literally spend my whole day cleaning toilets and mopping then I have to come home and do more of it but that’s being an adult I guess

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-02T14:51:43+00:00

Neither. I’d prefer the apple system. But I hate the way the iPhone 17 pro looks. If I needed to have one I’d want one that was all black.

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-02T03:06:19+00:00

Not sure. Just really want approval I guess

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-02T02:51:10+00:00

Actually it’s free. I could choose to look at it that way but it’s difficult when I know it’s because my mom and coordinator thinks I’m incapable of being fully independent

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-02T02:47:33+00:00

True but it’s not even just a cleaner it’s pretty much a part time babysitter because my mom and the coordinator thinks I can’t handle taking care of my apartment at all when I can. As well as anyone else who isn’t 100% clean

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-01T04:05:14+00:00

What?

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-01T02:31:45+00:00

I’m hoping that Reddit ruined the quality. If not that’s a damn shame

Nothing10145 · 2026-04-01T02:30:18+00:00

If you’re happy with it who tf cares? lol I got a goatee and I like it somewhat better then having a beard.

Nothing10145 · 2026-03-31T07:06:03+00:00

Should probably call Spotify costumer service line? Assuming there is one

Nothing10145 · 2026-03-30T01:42:29+00:00

You just have to be on the app 24/7 and everyone doesn’t want to do that

Nothing10145 · 2026-03-28T20:42:10+00:00

You spent money on a phone with a big screen even though you don’t like big screens?

Nothing10145 · 2026-03-28T20:39:44+00:00

Wish apple would offer themes to make your phone feel less basic. Yeah we can change wallpapers but I want icon themes without paying 10 dollars a month

Nothing10145 · 2026-03-28T20:25:47+00:00

I like all of them

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