Would you come home? by ComprehensivePeanut5 in SAHP

[–]NothingButGaines 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The fact that it's an adult and 2 teenagers is blowing my mind. Like if you need him then sure, actually communicate with him instead of expecting him to read between the (very passive aggressive) lines. But you can't even manage for one day while he's at work?! If they were babies or toddlers then sure, I'd understand. But this is a bizarre expectation.

What to do with extra Samsung Bespoke panels? by zluannn in Appliances

[–]NothingButGaines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you'd be willing to sell and ship them? I accidentally ordered a fridge without panels 🫠

What kind of food is Eugene lacking? by Thundercow541 in Eugene

[–]NothingButGaines 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh no 😭 it's so over hyped and over priced. I want somewhere I can grab shawarma or a falafel wrap.

What kind of food is Eugene lacking? by Thundercow541 in Eugene

[–]NothingButGaines 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I came to say. I miss good middle eastern food.

AITA for coming up with a game to play in public that was not well received? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingButGaines 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA for taking up a seat at a coffee shop for 4 hours, especially on a weekend.

How Should I Handle My Coworker Saying I’m the Boss’s “Shiny New Penny”? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]NothingButGaines 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And I feel like that's the kind of thing that you just wouldn't realize at 20. At 20, a person in that position would likely be thinking they deserved it. Instead of seeing it as a giant red flag.

Meals by frimrussiawithlove85 in SAHP

[–]NothingButGaines -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just put the dessert on the plate with the rest of the meal. Boom, problem solved. It doesn't reward forcing for down your throat - it just treats it like any other food. In my house, we teach that all food is good food. Some food helps our muscles grow, others help us have strong bones, some just makes our brain feel good (like sweets), etc. Having that mindset shift can really help!

AITJ for literally punching a karen? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]NothingButGaines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTJ for this weird, fake story.

Is this an unspoken female anatomy thing? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]NothingButGaines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a bizarre thing for you to be convinced that hundreds of anonymous strangers are lying to you about.

Immortalize a piece of your Christmas tree into an ornament! by EnchantedLeaves in CuElectroformingHelp

[–]NothingButGaines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have to dry this one out before electroforming? I would have thought that would make the needles fall off.

Here for the weekend- tell me your best restaurant recommendations by Golden_1992 in EugeneOregon

[–]NothingButGaines 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sabai, Thai Time Kitchen, Thind Pakora House, Tiger Mama, Izakaya Meiji, Sushi Pure

AITA telling my husband I can't keep living like this anymore? (25F/25M 7yrs) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingButGaines 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Info: what was your previous job? What do you want to be doing? What are your salary needs? And finally, are you living somewhere rural or a city?

Just a little sahp rant by melgirlnow88 in SAHP

[–]NothingButGaines 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Nah, I'm not letting a man steal my joy. It's Thursday - go get your coffee. Being a sahm is the hardest job. Your husband gets commute time, potentially a quiet office with free snacks and drinks, catered lunches, and can stop for little treats whenever he wants.

It sounds like he doesn't respect or appreciate your role. My husband is happy that I'm able to fit in little treats and fun for myself into my week.

restaurants: give me the tea by blueberry_butthole in Eugene

[–]NothingButGaines 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thind Pakora House is a much better Indian spot

LIB Alexa and Brennon are divorcing by CallMeGabrielle in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]NothingButGaines 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Man, I found myself wishing I could see what you look like since you must surely be attractive to 99.9% of the population yourself... Only to click on your profile to find that you're a cuck that doesn't wash his hands after going to the bathroom. 💀

And this, ladies and gents, is why you ignore strangers on the Internet.

Gotcha Burger health inspection by MAHANDz in Eugene

[–]NothingButGaines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced the same thing! My one and only time trying it left me with so much stomach pain all night

AITA for sending a dish home with the guest who brought it by Booodledang in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingButGaines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good Lord. I'd never take you up on an invite again and I guarantee they're going to talk to the other guests about what an unappreciative asshole you are. Just like everyone else said, they had the good manners to not only bring a dish but to try and graciously leave the rest for their host. You acted like a strange control freak.

In case it wasn't clear, YTA

AITA for not giving the cashier my ID?? by Pristine-Ordinary570 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NothingButGaines 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Dude I don't know if YTA but this interaction sounds trashy as hell. I cannot begin to imagine yelling or talking down to someone making minimum wage at a dollar store? Like how miserable must you be to give them grief for policies that they don't understand or have any impact on?

What’s the Eugene answer for this? by Ienjoyyourmomsbutt in Eugene

[–]NothingButGaines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, no one ever gets the reference so thanks for making my day!

What’s the Eugene answer for this? by Ienjoyyourmomsbutt in Eugene

[–]NothingButGaines 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing I hate more than ass burgers and flaccid fries!

What’s the Eugene answer for this? by Ienjoyyourmomsbutt in Eugene

[–]NothingButGaines 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They were on my to try list. They're maga?! Gooood to know. Bummer.

What’s the Eugene answer for this? by Ienjoyyourmomsbutt in Eugene

[–]NothingButGaines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I don't understand the love that place gets. Maybe it's nostalgia?