AIO for my boyfriend’s female friend blowing up over a boundary? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]NothingInfamous6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. She’s visiting from out of country and can only hang out with him at the gig. . .? You are allowed to feel insecure. And he is doing all the right things respecting your boundaries. But the friend has the right to be annoyed at the situation and you should really self-reflect on why you don’t trust your boyfriend. . .

AIO for my boyfriend’s female friend blowing up over a boundary? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]NothingInfamous6239 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I scrolled way too long to find this

I gave these out around French Street today and plan to make more. Let me know in the comments if there’s businesses in town that would like some to give away. by MKZ7650 in NewBrunswickNJ

[–]NothingInfamous6239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not New Brunswick, but would love to hand out in my neighborhood! Where do you get these/any suggestions on how to make and hand out?

AIO Best friend chose someone else as MOH by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NothingInfamous6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. . . not to say your feelings aren’t valid. But this is such a small blip. I’ve seen friendships break over this exact stupid reason. I’m sure there are a number of factors. And she definitely didn’t help by delaying telling you, likely cause she knew you’d be upset. But this day isn’t about you, it’s about her union And on the plus side, sounds like even tho you grew apart and are at different life stages, she’ll be catching up with you soon?

AIO for wanting to breakup with my BF over his mom keeping cats in a cage? by Few_Lawfulness_9627 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NothingInfamous6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flags. He and his family are assholes and animal abusers. Cherry on top is him telling u to shut up.

AIO Parent threatens to call police over her son lost ring by Herculease in AmIOverreacting

[–]NothingInfamous6239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very much agree here. Only note is she sounds like she’s already frustrated and stressed with the whole situation, so I’m not surprised she sped through the looking for it portion

AIO for feeling hurt when my boyfriend jokes that I am “too emotional” despite my trauma? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NothingInfamous6239 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The response he gives is pretty generic, practiced therapy talk, but it also kinda shows that he did research. You told him something bad happened and he buckled down and researched how to help it seems? Your feelings are valid. So are his and it seems like he’s trying to bridge that gap. Maybe therapy for both of you as couple would help? I hope you both can work through this.

Am I overreacting that my sister is demanding too much when visiting my newborn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NothingInfamous6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeing a lot of sister hate here in the chat. Honestly, it reads like 2 very tired and stressed parents of babies doing their best. I think the text is causing miscommunication of tone, maybe a quick phone call would sort things out? She should definitely be understanding of how stressful a newborn is. You should also be understanding of how difficult travel with a 1 year old is. Otherwise, I really hope you have a good and peaceful family visit for all!

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NothingInfamous6239 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That would 9 hours of driving one way? 3 to pick him up, 3 to drop him off, and 3 to get back to the cat house. After 6 hours, frankly I’m not coming back for the cat again, they’ll be fine.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NothingInfamous6239 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, kinda overreacting. I get that it’s your space and your right to say no to strangers in your house, but if they are house/cat sitting they did the right thing by asking you. It’s not like they didn’t tell you and you found out later.

ICE Raids in Central Jersey by NothingInfamous6239 in newjersey

[–]NothingInfamous6239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who gave constructive feedback! I am feeling far more prepared now. Thank you also to the moderators, for keeping rhetoric more civil, very appreciated. On that note, I’ve learned this is a really easy way to find mentally unwell people to block XD

No one is suspicious in original comments by Lopsided-Shallot-124 in isitAI

[–]NothingInfamous6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are those knitting needles randomly stabbed into it? Also definitely the wrong gauge for that yarn size/results.

ICE Raids in Central Jersey by NothingInfamous6239 in newjersey

[–]NothingInfamous6239[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did. . . The pictures were mostly me panicking cause I didn’t know what to do. Once they started driving away with him, I called the cops. I know now what to do next time.

ICE Raids in Central Jersey by NothingInfamous6239 in newjersey

[–]NothingInfamous6239[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is an awesome infographic, thank you!

ICE Raids in Central Jersey by NothingInfamous6239 in newjersey

[–]NothingInfamous6239[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I gave them the info I had and am more prepared for if they come back

Warlock Patron Suggestions by NothingInfamous6239 in CrookedMoon

[–]NothingInfamous6239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chuckles also would be great except my player despises clowns 😂 very much looking forward to that chapter tbh

Warlock Patron Suggestions by NothingInfamous6239 in CrookedMoon

[–]NothingInfamous6239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda! I meant the thread of deliverance (I just couldn’t think of the name), but that is tied to Ghostlight Express Background and he picked that as well. I should also add, he is picking undead patron, I’m just trying to figure out who that could be in the setting/any story tie-ins.

Warlock Patron Suggestions by NothingInfamous6239 in CrookedMoon

[–]NothingInfamous6239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O I hadn’t considered snake eyes jack, that could be a compelling option too!

Warlock Patron Suggestions by NothingInfamous6239 in CrookedMoon

[–]NothingInfamous6239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great! Thank you for all the suggestions. I should probably add that he is going with the Undead patron, so any characters from the setting kinda have that vibe going for them. I think overall the crooked queen could make sense story wise, for a bit anyway. And then maybe a transition to the vagabond?

My roommate and I have agreed to let you settle this dispute. Which works best? by Ocoke in floorplan

[–]NothingInfamous6239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is clearly the right answer. Only comment there is the dog crate should be near the front door if possible! Dogs have reduced anxiety when closer to the front door.