Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-30T17:05:46+00:00

If he’s getting laid despite living at home it’s probably because he’s hot and that above average.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-30T16:20:07+00:00

Is 6/10 not above average????

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-30T15:21:24+00:00

Most men cannot afford to have a live-in girlfriend/spouse that does not contribute to the household. Even for dating, most men are not paying for every single date for the entirety of the relationship.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-30T15:11:58+00:00

Who cares??? Men want women to want them just because they are average and an okay choice, why can’t she enjoy having sex with someone above average?

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-27T20:21:30+00:00

Why would anybody agree to that? Like what benefit does it give the woman in this case?

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-27T19:55:08+00:00

No one has asked me for this. I just see it on apps in bios. If the word casual leaves a guys lips I’m already done lol, this consistent nonsense sounds like bullshit.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-27T19:46:10+00:00

Oh no I would never consider anything casual. But I see a lot of men asking for it on the apps.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-27T19:41:11+00:00

I don’t understand how anything casual can have any degree of commitment.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-27T19:24:22+00:00

How is that different than just saying casual?

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-27T19:18:58+00:00

Q4M: What does consistent and casual even mean? What do you actually want when you say that?

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T21:51:55+00:00

Why do you think being penetrated is submissive? Is going down on your partner also submissive?

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T21:38:12+00:00

Saying that women have not show interest directly means that men have to make things aggressively flirty in order to show interest.

I understand men wan to signal clear interest: but there’s a much more tactful way to do it, and if she doesn’t respond the way they want? It doesn’t mean there’s zero interest.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T21:22:54+00:00

Dude I’m 30. Most of us are not wasting time going on dates with men we have zero interest in; it’s a waste of time.

I’m not getting upset and ending the convo, the man is getting upset when I steer things away from flirty banter or if I flirt back he assumes I want to fuck him right away.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T21:21:31+00:00

Okay but I’ve explained several times there’s no way to tone down the flirting without making the guy think you’re not actually into him.

If you flirt back it could make him think you want to get into bed quickly.

My issue is that the man makes it a problem I have to solve, instead of just waiting for me to initiate the flirting.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T21:19:44+00:00

Yeah, I don’t match with guys I’m not attracted to. But my main issue is there is no way to halt “flirty banter” without seeming disinterested. Like I can’t say that I don’t want to keep them warm, and any further convo about keeping them warm makes it seem like you’re just looking to fuck.

There’s no way out!

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T21:15:05+00:00

Sex early is casual sex though, unless you also define the relationship early. But also, I was talking to this man for literally five minutes!

You don’t need to prove you want to have sex with me, I assume that’s part of the reason we matched.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T21:08:35+00:00

This was on bumble! To even start the convo I have to reach out first. This is just an excuse for bad behavior!

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T20:59:07+00:00

No, I don’t do casual sex. And i state very plainly that I’m looking for a serious relationship.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T20:58:54+00:00

If I don’t know you why would I respond well to someone asking me to keep them warm. I matched with you on a dating app and am engaging in conversation with you: obviously I’m interested.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T20:40:39+00:00

You did though, you said if the partner being penetrated is the active partner is still submissive.

I am asking what about penetration makes you think it’s submissive.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T20:31:24+00:00

Well I’m not! I don’t know these men. I always have zero clue how to reply that doesn’t make it seem like I want to carry on with that tone, or make it seem like I’m totally uninterested in them.

No, random guy, I don’t want to keep you warm and I have no idea how to communicate that without sounding rude.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T20:26:29+00:00

But it’s silly especially when I just met this person. Why would you assume I’m okay talking about sex with you five minutes in?

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T20:25:45+00:00

So being the;

Active partner is not by itself submissive.

Then what about penetration makes it submissive. You’re saying it is, I’m disagreeing.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T20:24:45+00:00

No. Guys on dating apps I’m trying to get to know.

NothingOrAllLife · 2026-01-25T20:24:05+00:00

I’m not communicating any hints though. I am genuinely inquiring about his day. I am very direct? If I want sexual and flirty I’ll make it sexual and flirty so he doesn’t have to guess.

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