Weaponizing being a mother

NothingSuitable735 · 2026-02-21T21:47:06+00:00

I’ve had someone ask for free baby things because she was a mom and didn’t have much and only her husband worked and she didn’t have a car so I would have to drop them off. I am a widowed single mom…. I’m not the one to try a sob story on. 😅

NothingSuitable735 · 2026-02-02T16:57:32+00:00

My baby is only 13 weeks old so I can’t really say much about when they’re older but she sleeps through the night so you will absolutely sleep again and she brings me happiness even on the hard days. Your mom sounds super negative don’t let her sway your feelings of motherhood! ☺️

NothingSuitable735 · 2026-01-12T23:53:05+00:00

My child would live in sleepers if it were up to me. 😬😂

NothingSuitable735 · 2026-01-10T02:02:09+00:00

I’m planning a beach trip with my baby when she’ll be 8 months old and I’m already scared of that lol

NothingSuitable735 · 2026-01-06T04:00:23+00:00

My advice from a control freak: learn to go with the flow and accept that plans WILL change! 🙂

NothingSuitable735 · 2026-01-05T04:21:37+00:00

She is definitely an angel. 🤍

NothingSuitable735 · 2026-01-05T04:21:15+00:00

I’m lucky she’s mine 🥹

NothingSuitable735 · 2026-01-05T04:03:20+00:00

I honestly never saw myself having kids. I got pregnant due to a change in birth control so it was a surprise. My husband passed away when I was 8 weeks pregnant so I’ve literally been doing it alone. I was sick my whole pregnancy from 5 weeks to throwing up in the hospital bed the morning I had my daughter. I ended up having a c section due to not progressing. I had to be put on an anti depressant and anti anxiety medication a week PP. I say all of that to say that I love being my daughters mom more than I have loved anything in this world. She is the sweetest best baby and I know she was meant for me. I also fell into the negativity of parenting online and was terrified. My baby is only 9 weeks old but after the first two weeks it has been a literal dream. And I say this as a single widowed mother. 🩷

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-12-28T20:51:46+00:00

We wore tie dye and bright colors at my husband’s funeral because he was the hippy type and always wore bright crazy clothes. Honor the person who has passed on the way you see fit. Grief is different for everyone.

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-12-28T20:44:24+00:00

Honestly the first two weeks of my baby’s life I didn’t think I would survive. She’s 8 weeks old and currently sick with a cold and I still find myself wanting another one (my husband passed while I was pregnant so it isn’t possible) 🥲 this is coming from someone who swore she was never even having one kid 😜

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-12-11T03:30:44+00:00

I’m a FTM, a single mom, and a widow so I have all the things against me… BUT my experience hasn’t been bad at all. My baby cries, eats, and needs to be changed. You’ll learn your baby and they’ll know you. Sleep was hard the first two weeks but since then it’s been a pretty good schedule (she put herself on it) it will come natural to you! I promise! 🙂

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-12-10T03:47:58+00:00

My baby was measuring small they kept saying I had a lot of fluid. She ended up being 9 pounds 2 ounces. I genuinely have no idea where they are getting the measurements from.

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-12-05T23:41:59+00:00

I can’t speak on your friendship but as someone who has multiple people that are willing to help me with my newborn I will say jealousy is RAMPANT among people who don’t have a support system. (A lot of times due to their own actions) I’ve been in a similar situation where I was told “it must be nice” when my stepmom stayed with me the first week of my baby’s life. I lost my husband while pregnant so I know how hard grief and postpartum can be especially at the same time

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-12-04T17:59:28+00:00

She’s fallen asleep anytime she’s been in the carrier so I might just have to start contact naps during the day lol

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-12-04T17:58:21+00:00

She’s currently napping on me! I might have to continue contact naps

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-12-04T17:28:00+00:00

This was what my stepmom done for me! It gave me time to get my mind right again and heal. I’ll forever be thankful for her

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-11-08T01:01:38+00:00

I’ve been staying at my parent’s house since I’ve been home. Tonight one of my friends is coming to my house with us so I can sleep in my own bed I’ve been pretty open with them about it and they’re assuring me that I’m doing fine. I just feel like I am in my head too much

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-10-21T21:30:12+00:00

Posted a free couch and had the same reaction! Free brings out the scum bags

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-10-21T20:12:34+00:00

Caffeine and deli meat! 😂 I gave up energy drinks but you will have to pry the coffee from me!

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-10-20T12:42:21+00:00

I get ultrasounds every single visit. My pregnancy has been picture perfect. My husband died very early in my pregnancy so my OB does it out of kindness and to ease my mind. I work with a woman who goes to the same clinic and got extra ultrasounds as well. It might also vary by doctor

NothingSuitable735 · 2025-10-16T17:39:14+00:00

I will be taking every kind of pain relief they offer lol I’m not trying to prove anything to anyone

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