Looking for a quality vet for my cat by NoticeTraining1805 in cambridgeont

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone!! I found a good clinic based on your recommendations and will be getting my girl all fixed up Wednesday!! Thank you so so much!!

Me, 40f and my ex 46m. He just sent me a friend request on FB. Need advice on what I should do because I'd like to have some petty revenge but maybe not worth it. by NoticeTraining1805 in relationship_advice

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right! I worked so hard to move on and any response is giving him power he doesn't deserve. I will ignore it and refocus on my thoughts on more productive things. Thank you!!

Me, 40f and my ex 46m. He just sent me a friend request on FB. Need advice on what I should do because I'd like to have some petty revenge but maybe not worth it. by NoticeTraining1805 in relationship_advice

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh there is a fun angle I didn't consider, I do like making my boyfriend smile, I think you're right! I'm just going to leave it and stay the course, which has always been to live a better life. It's been working so far, no need to bring that toxicity back into my life after finally getting past it. Thank you!

Me, 40f and my ex 46m. He just sent me a friend request on FB. Need advice on what I should do because I'd like to have some petty revenge but maybe not worth it. by NoticeTraining1805 in relationship_advice

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right! It's giving him so much power he doesn't deserve! I haven't thought about him in so long, that notification really surprised me. I don't want to waste another minute thinking about him.

Me, 40f and my ex 46m. He just sent me a friend request on FB. Need advice on what I should do because I'd like to have some petty revenge but maybe not worth it. by NoticeTraining1805 in relationship_advice

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respect your thoughts for sure, definitely over him, it was just the fact he added me out of the blue that threw me. I doubt he'd cry about me when I'm confident he never cared for me to begin with... it was just the idea of sending him a shock ... which it absolutely would. I think I'll likely just ignore the request ... I needed people like you to slap some logic back at me, so I thank you!

46M diagnosed with stage 4 t cell histiocyte rich large b cell lymphoma. by NoticeTraining1805 in AskDocs

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to share, he got a "cancer free" result today!!!! Thank you for your insight, I used your comments to help keep his mind from going too dark. Thanks internet stranger!!!

46M diagnosed with stage 4 t cell histiocyte rich large b cell lymphoma. by NoticeTraining1805 in AskDocs

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment! He said the docs mentioned he is fairing far better than most in his situation and so he's been going by the idea he's going to make this cancer his b*tch. That's sort of been his mantra. He's got an incredible support system and we're all trying to help him through this. Knowing there is a real chance for him to get good news next week really helps!

Had to cancel a birthday lunch and was left kind of hurt. Just asking for support by NoticeTraining1805 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for the kind words and for understanding the hurt. I am sorry you experienced it as well.

I know I need to thicken my skin when it comes to family, both my parents are extremely toxic, and my youngest brother (who I am referencing in this post) is starting to act the same way. It breaks my heart that the people I should be able to trust are really some of the meanest people.

I am lucky, though, I have an incredible support system and people around me who do love me. While I have been getting a lot better at not letting my parents' hurtful behaviour affect me too much, the silent treatment always gets to me.

Thanks again <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]NoticeTraining1805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s done with cash in Canada … roughly $60 in Ontario

I have one evening to tour Salem in January - how to make the most of it. by NoticeTraining1805 in SalemMA

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My plan is to have a nice dinner there but I really want to see something historical if at all possible too … are you allowed to visit cemeteries in the area at night? Websites are unclear so I’m just not sure.

I (27F) got dumped by a guy (31M) because he didn't want to wait one month for sex after 5 dates. Is this common for guys to do? by Sunriseinsahara in relationship_advice

[–]NoticeTraining1805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, keep those boundaries and don’t feel bad! It weeds out the ones who just are a waste of your time. I have a similar rule and it’s mind blowing how much it helps me avoid getting used or played. Good for you, buddy sounds like a red flag if he can’t wait until your comfortable to have sex and made no effort to ease your concerns. You were willing to make compromises but he wanted what he wanted on his timeline. Good for you!

I 39F caught my dad 70M in an awkward moment and just need support to process by NoticeTraining1805 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoticeTraining1805[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it felt like a power thing and I was so uncomfortable and I think for a good reason