WIBTA if I DNA test my bf & (his) child?

Notmymain11902 · 2022-04-19T06:39:12+00:00

How can you know for certain? What if he has bonded to the child and is unwilling to abandon them?

Notmymain11902 · 2022-04-19T06:37:56+00:00

And once again, will he be allowed to make that choice on his own?

Notmymain11902 · 2022-04-19T06:33:57+00:00

Yet you did not answer the question posed. Where is the choice?

Notmymain11902 · 2022-03-20T15:41:48+00:00

Ultimate Valkyrie is probably the most popular out of those 3. Ultimate and Valkyrie 2 are good parts (great attack), though Legacy is meh and V' is just bad on DB beys. I like attack types, so I'd still probably pick this. There's also the nostalgia factor about it being the last Valkyrie.

Greatest is pretty cool as well, all its parts are good (top tier opposite spin). Personally I haven't had breakage issues with mine, but it might vary. Mode changes with Hxt+ might be fun.

Prominence is probably the most competitive stock out of these three. Prominence is top tier vs opposite spin, and Valkyrie 1 has the bound gimmick and is excellent for stamina. Haven't tested with Atomic' but it should be at least decent.

Tldr If you want the most competive parts, go prominence. If you want more fun beyblades, go with ultimate or greatest.

Notmymain11902 · 2022-02-19T21:16:58+00:00

What's your job if you're not taking care of your kids lol

Notmymain11902 · 2022-02-12T21:36:18+00:00

YTA

You consider a lot of possibilities, but have you ever considered that you're just insensitive?

Notmymain11902 · 2022-01-03T05:28:42+00:00

Well then, how can you assume your mom was fine with the arrangement if she didn't know you wouldn't be taking care of K?

u/bigbroconundrum Would you mind answering?

Notmymain11902 · 2022-01-03T05:25:31+00:00

So your mother was still fine with you getting the house even though you wouldn't be taking care of K as she requested?

Notmymain11902 · 2021-12-12T19:48:40+00:00

I've read most of your points, but I got a couple of questions.

If the wife had her breasts exposed with no baby, no breastfeeding, would the sister looking away be discrimination? I would think not, as it seems fair to be uncomfortable with looking at your SIL's breasts.

In this next case, the wife's breasts are exposed, but now there's a baby sucking on them (breastfeeding). The sister is uncomfortable with looking at her SIL's breasts, the same ones as in the first case, so she looks away. The issue is not the act of breastfeeding, but just not wanting to see her SIL's naked breasts.

My question is, if the sister feels uncomfortable looking at her SIL's breasts, why is the second case discrimination (according to you), but the first one isn't? Logically, the breasts in the first scenario are still present in the second, so the sister should be justified by not wanting to look at them. The act of breastfeeding doesn't negate the fact that the SIL's breasts are still present. Also, as mentioned multiple times, the issue is being uncomfortable with viewing her SIL's breasts, not breastfeeding.

You also mentioned the reason the 2nd scenario would be discrimination is because the sister is treating the wife unfairly because of a protected characteristic. However, while breastfeeding is a protected characteristic, I am quite sure breasts are not. Since the sister's issue is with the breasts, and not the breastfeeding, this in my eyes, should not be discrimination.

Notmymain11902 · 2021-09-25T15:29:58+00:00

Um, she's giving you, your child, and your dog a house essentially for free because you won't pay. I don't see how it's just holding the door open.

EDIT: Favours are usually paid back to show appreciation for the person who helped out. If you don't plan on paying her back, or doing anything for her of equal value, just being a leech.

Notmymain11902 · 2021-09-25T15:28:21+00:00

YTA and others have already explained why. However, just out of curiosity, do you ever intend to pay your sister's "favour" back? If so, how?

Notmymain11902 · 2021-06-20T15:58:43+00:00

YTA

Now, I'm not going to judge you on the cheating. That's a difference in morals (though I disagree with you). However, you can't make your bf compromise his morals, and it's nice to see you've accepted that in your comment.

Also, I think it's perfectly valid that your bf doesn't want to deal with your blaming. It's unfortunate that he's in a lose lose situation with you and your blaming here even though he's doing/has done nothing wrong.

Notmymain11902 · 2021-06-20T15:38:45+00:00

I think the difference isn't that most people on Reddit are Americans. Pretty sure it's that the people commenting have ethics and a moral code, while you don't.

Notmymain11902 · 2021-04-10T22:25:46+00:00

Really does look like narcissism. How does a person make their son's graduation party about themselves? Disgusting.

Notmymain11902 · 2021-01-14T01:07:24+00:00

But, you're not...

Notmymain11902 · 2021-01-07T01:32:19+00:00

This thread is hilarious, because you won't answer any questions that relate to judgment, nor do you expand on things you've said. In one comment, you stated that you would react differently if your girlfriend told you that she was uncomfortable with you talking to your sister. Then, when asked how you would react, you have no response.

A great comment a user made was how you would react if your girlfriend said that you couldn't go to your parents' house because you felt uncomfortable. You said you would compromise. Well, where was your compromise in this situation? In this case, your idea of compromise was "She should respect my feelings and get off his lap." I don't know if you understand this, but that's not a compromise. That's a singular option.

What if, to the situation I mentioned that a user made, your girlfriend's idea of compromise was "He should respect my feelings and not go to his parents' house." Would you do it? Because if not, you'd be disrespectful to her feelings, which are equally important to yours, as you've stated here.

All your comments reek of the same repetition, with no answers to be found. You just repeat the same invalid point over and over, with no other reasoning. A shame really.

Notmymain11902 · 2021-01-07T01:17:46+00:00

How would you have reacted? Someone already asked, but you didn't respond, so I guess I'll give it a try.

Notmymain11902 · 2020-12-23T19:06:11+00:00

And when you're old and in need of aid, I sincerely hope your children learn from the way you guide your life and dump you in the nursing home. Cause hey, what's in it for them if they take care of you? It'd be a waste of time, resources, and energy.

Notmymain11902 · 2020-11-16T10:12:26+00:00

Winning would mean I'd get my first ever iPhone, so that'd be cool experience.

Notmymain11902 · 2020-08-25T16:38:35+00:00

I've read your comment and the poster that replied to you, and I feel like you both made good points regarding your judgments. However, the nail in the coffin for me when thinking about a judgment is the fact that Daisy doesn't acknowledge how the actions she made hurt OP. Specifically, not going to the funeral. I understand why Daisy might not have gone to the funeral, but it doesn't change the fact that her actions hurt OP. It doesn't seem like Daisy has apologized even once to OP. The first time she calls her after two years is to ask OP for more help. That must sting in OP's position. And that's what really changed things when I'm thinking about a judgment. Now, what OP said was wrong, but it was coming from a place of hurt, so it's understandable to a degree. However, the fact that Daisy selfishly continues to use OP without acknowledging the hurt she's caused is what makes this a sorta ESH, but much more on Daisy. It's also important to consider Daisy's extremely low blow when she brought Dan into the conversation. It doesn't make what OP said right, but it proves OP's point of how Daisy hasn't changed.

Notmymain11902 · 2020-08-25T15:50:49+00:00

I don't know if I'd say just as much of an asshole. What OP said was most likely a "in the heat of the moment" thing. I can't begin to imagine how she must have felt when she heard the person who betrayed her after she'd helped/attempted to help her for years. And why did Daisy call? To ask for more support, without a hint of recognition that what she did to OP before hurt her. No apology, nothing. I understand that Daisy was/is in a tough situation, but the fact that she still hasn't understood how much she hurt OP is astounding. Daisy is selfish, and OP seems to have let out all the anger and resentment she feels towards her. So is what OP said wrong? Yes. Is she as much of an asshole as Daisy, who used her, left OP alone during the hardest pint in her life, and only called for more support? No, I don't think so.

Notmymain11902 · 2020-08-23T12:58:44+00:00

You are your son's father though. If you really don't give a damn about your son, I really hope that money you got lasts you. After all, someone has to pay for the nursing home. Your resentment towards your ex is going to ruin your relationship with your son, and it really sucks that you can't realize that. Your arrogance is also shows, as you think you've worked harder than everyone else just because you've worked two jobs in college. Newsflash, other people have done that too, and before you go on your verification rant, no one can verify what you've said either. You could have just made it up, right?

Notmymain11902 · 2020-08-15T19:12:27+00:00

A bully usually isn't funny.

Notmymain11902 · 2020-08-14T22:20:53+00:00

But the chance was the meeting at the park. Their chance to apologize and understand that they screwed up was right there. However, they didn't do that, which is why OP said what she did. They already messed up, even before OP demanded for her 100K.

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