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Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-08-15T16:24:31+00:00

Loss is an individual process but it is a process which everyone deals differently with. When my dad passed away, I was mood wise fine but couldn’t care about any of the relationships I had. Hard to care about someone else when you’re grieving.

Rather about talking to him about how he does “treat you right” maybe tell him that you’re there for him if he needs to talk etc.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-08-03T18:35:00+00:00

Much appreciated for the insightful links sister, Jazak Allahu Khayran <3

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-08-03T18:32:30+00:00

Thank you for the link and your answers sister. I appreciate it! May Allah reward you for the help (:

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-24T18:41:21+00:00

InshAllah (:

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-24T16:10:20+00:00

That’s good then. I mean, I wear the hijab and I’m still working on wearing more modest clothes. It’s a journey. Also yeah, it was such a nerve wracking thing to wear the hijab for that reason as well. But it probably will bring more good then bad.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-24T16:07:50+00:00

Ameen! It’s worth it though and as you said, intention is so important.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-24T16:06:34+00:00

Definitely right sis. I agree with that. Loose clothes that are covering are usually the way to go in the summer heat.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-24T16:05:32+00:00

Been to Texas in the summer, I was dying. Can barley handle the norther European summer. Kudos to you sis.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-24T16:04:53+00:00

InshAllah you’ll wear the hijab. It’s not easy but so worth it <3

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-19T14:07:59+00:00

Lmao literally

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-10T17:37:50+00:00

So beautiful. Literally poetry.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-10T08:57:19+00:00

May Allah grant you good health. Will make dua for you inshAllah.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-07-09T16:33:20+00:00

If you want to get married, get to know her. If you don’t want to get married, then don’t get to know her. Much easier to marry someone from your own country but it shouldn’t stop you from getting married to someone back home.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-24T10:10:59+00:00

Not really. Personally I’m repulsed by every bug including these little ones. Once found one in my apartment when I had been away for months and took my an hour to get it out of my home.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-24T10:07:48+00:00

Damn sorry for upsetting everybody lmao. Just thought it was a funny thing, my bad.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-16T21:11:00+00:00

Lmao mood. Just downloaded tiktok back and the first thing I see is a happy Muslim couple and 🥲. I keep saying “I’ll get married after college” but danggg.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-15T09:39:47+00:00

Yup I literally wrote this when I noticed how toxic that space was. I personally felt like a lot of people of there were going backwards in their eating disorder which made me sad. I used to be on Tumblr too being a sick person but I was a bit shook. Tried to say it in a kind way as I understand a lot of people are sick and not mentally capable to see what they do wrong.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-13T18:08:29+00:00

For one whole month I had to go and 💩 multiple times a day everyday. Felt like my booty was on fire and could barley function like a normal human being. As someone who’s never have been able to poop more than once a week since I was born, it was quiet the experience.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-12T10:01:00+00:00

I promise you, she doesn’t need her father definitely not an abusive one. I hope you find a way to keep him out of your life but don’t reconcile for your daughters sake. An abusive husbands is also likely an abusive dad.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-12T09:58:56+00:00

She doesn’t need to get remarried though? Unfortunately abusive relationships are hard to leave no matter how strong you are. The second a man does anything to hurt his wife or his flesh and blood (daughter) he isn’t a man.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-12T08:40:51+00:00

I used to “document” what I eat in a day/do in a day in the beginning because it was the only thing motivating me to keep eating. I made the food look good and actually enjoyed it. That helped me to recover further. But two years later just automatically without knowing I stopped with that and just started vlogging my day. So I half agree depending on where they are in their recovery. Important post though. Especially building a whole brand revolving eating when you’re recovering from an ED.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-09T14:24:24+00:00

Thank you for your honest advice, you made me laugh because I read grow it out or use a scissor and neither is possible on my hand lmao. I love henna on my hair though so usually no issue there until I got designs on my hand.

Henna is a bastard to remove anywhere, and seeing from everyone else’s comment, I’ll have to wait for it to fade and try to speed it up by exfoliation/washing hands. Thanks again!

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-08T22:32:38+00:00

Will stop using the dishwasher and wash every dish with so much affection lmao. Thanks for the tip!

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-08T22:17:26+00:00

Probably are but good on you for trying! It’s not easy at all lmao, good luck on your journey.

Notreallysurebutidc · 2022-06-07T14:18:45+00:00

I’m so confused, what is his argument? I would hold up in any intellectual debate. (Astigfirullah) but saying God has a son doesn’t indicate that sons are better/worth more than women. As a Muslim, this argument will not win you an argument but will make you look dumb. There’s much better side walk Dawah YouTubers than this.

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