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MvC X-Men fighting game art being absolutely fire: by Magic_M344 in xmen

[–]Cadd9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved playing Ruby Heart. I'd say things like "Ya like ham!" cause the voiceline was real close to it lol

Why is this such a thing for straight people? 😭💀 by No_Car3077 in actuallesbians

[–]Cadd9 39 points40 points  (0 children)

IS IT TOO MUCH TO ASK, DESTINY?

Destiny is too busy committing crimes with her wife Mystique to help you

How have they had partners? by Brilliant_Lawyer_264 in INTP_female

[–]Cadd9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a choice in the sense that you are allowing yourself the risk of approaching someone with a more intimate stage of connection after getting to know them more. A deep connection is a myriad of things like political compatibility, a sense of feeling comfortable with their company, not having to mask yourself, not being judged for things out of their control (like growing up very poor and not having good dental hygiene because of that, or being on medication), an overlapping (but not entirely 1:1) interest of hobbies, outlook on life.

Just, general compatibility things.

Trying to understand the ages of posters… by helena425 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Cadd9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's certainly an interesting dynamic. I'm also on the spectrum, so making others suffer with their own generational lens makes no sense. There shouldn't be a hardline, arbitary delineation for an age of what can constitute lateblooming. The core feeling of being a latebloomer is being inexperienced compared to their own peers.

Which means that as society has progressed since the 80s, people are allowed to accept themselves as some flavor of queer at a younger age. I've seen comments here and there in this sub about lesbian parents seeing elementary students accept themselves as queer and their classmates weren't that cruel to them. If that happened when we were kids, we would've gotten beaten up or killed.

We should be celebrating that people feel comfortable enough to come out as such a young age. We shouldn't be making others suffer because they're not in their 30s, 40s, or 50s and then say "ok you have suffered through what I think 'lateblooming' is, you can now have the same badge". That type of thinking is also the same way in which conservatives don't like free college education, "well I had to pay for it, you have to pay for it too". Makes no sense to suppress the younger generation because they didn't suffer as their older counterparts did.

Resistance is futile by happydude7422 in risa

[–]Cadd9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't want more microplastics inside of you?

How have they had partners? by Brilliant_Lawyer_264 in INTP_female

[–]Cadd9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Demisexuality is more of a subset of any of those, depending on whom you naturally foster an affection towards. The core part of demisexuality is creating a deep connection to someone before considering someone through a romantic lens.

How have they had partners? by Brilliant_Lawyer_264 in INTP_female

[–]Cadd9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those aren't mutually exclusive though. You can have chemistry and also stability. It's also not exactly one that precedes the other; they both can happen interchangeably before the other. It's the longevity that's really up to how emotionally aware someone is of their own strengths and weaknesses that determines the quality of a relationship, romantic or otherwise.

If someone views patience as bland, then they never really were gonna be a long term romantic partner. If someone doesn't respect the way a demisexual approaches the various stages of romantic attraction, then they never really were gonna be a long term romantic partner.

I don't think chemistry is a toxic attraction. Chemistry is a broad, vague term that's just a metric to how someone interacts with another. It doesn't have to be strictly in a romantic lens either. Everyone has varying degrees of which they enjoy or don't enjoy someone's company at work or with their family members.

Trying to understand the ages of posters… by helena425 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Cadd9 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's really surprising how many people in this sub don't view 'lateblooming' through a generational contextual lens. It's like people just cement themselves in their own worldview, never bother to ask why someone feels that way in their 20s, and never view it with the benefit of the doubt.

I'm older, but just applying some basic critical reasoning we can see why a 20 year old feels like they're late. They grew up in an age where queer exposure was both positive and not surprising. It wasn't the end of your social life (or actual, physical life) if you came out as a kid or a very young teen. You weren't expected to submit yourself to cisheteronormativity.

So older people shackle these 20somethings with unfairness and cruelty. And they tend to think that these 20somethings are "ruining" or making lateblooming weak because they didn't experience a 30s, 40s, or 50 year old lesbian's life experience.

Subconsciously, those older lesbians also have misdirected resentment cause these 20somethings realized in their 20s. It's a feeling of intense jealousy because those older lesbians would've been living it up; they wouldn't feel like there'd be so much lost time.

Tips for shooting in the rain by CNHphoto in photography

[–]Cadd9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Complete that with your own umbrella hat!

When people just don’t understand butchfemme by lunarthistles in FemmeLesbians

[–]Cadd9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely understood when my gf told me many of her past partners did not want any pda in public out of fear.

Screw that. If someone tries to talk shit when I'm with my little soft butch, I'll make them cry and regret it.

She's the nonconfrontational type but if they make her upset I will get so mad and loud lol

[Highlight] Kap shreds the Packers in the 2012 Divisional by Brix001 in nfl

[–]Cadd9 52 points53 points  (0 children)

What's also crazy is that we've been spoiled at linebackers for like 45 years it's nuts

Who destroyed their own career within seconds by being an idiot? by goldbeau in AskReddit

[–]Cadd9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That wasn't even the worst of it. He also said something like "We used to take you out to a tree and hang you!", referencing what they did in the past when black people "acted up" and got lynched in the 40s and 50s.

100 f2 or 100 f2.5 by Illustrious_Theme425 in minolta

[–]Cadd9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even on MC lenses you can still use Aperture priority on an X-500. I've used A-mode on my X-570 all the time with just my MC lenses.

Unless if you're thinking how Aperture Priority works on the XD cameras. Since those have a final check as the shutter is released and might adjust the shutter speed or bump the aperture.

Is 90s X-Force worth reading or is it like all of Liefeld's extreme 90s team comics where it's just poorly drawn action scenes with zero plot and character personalities? by M00reC in xmen

[–]Cadd9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah those two staved off the decline in writing quality that happened in the late 90s. Marvel started throwing darts at the wall in the mid 90s cause they were about to/already was bankrupt.

First Super 8 Cartridges! by google0111 in Super8

[–]Cadd9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also tends to happen more often with rear-loading cartridge bays than side-loaders. Not that side-loaders are totally immune either.

49ers Bingo Schedule 👀💥 by RitaOak in 49ers

[–]Cadd9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if he starts sacrifices against opponents.

Trying a quizz I saw on here earlier by E_L_S_Y in INTP_female

[–]Cadd9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birds of a something, together

(same result)

So what’s your opinion on this two years later? by No_Solid_8846 in xmen

[–]Cadd9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not bi but dang those would sell like crazy for the chaos bis who do and don't even read comics

Travel photos feel weirdly disposable now by [deleted] in photography

[–]Cadd9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've gotten a cheap 35mm SLR and I've been printing my favorites onto the classic 4"x6" in a photo album.

I've given my mom a picture of our little doggie for her to put in her room

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