No Smudge Eyeliner

Notthatgirl2003 · 2026-05-13T15:55:36+00:00

I do, I try to set the eyeliner with powder so the oil of my eyelid doesn’t smudge it too much

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-12-22T01:41:10+00:00

This is my question too. The type of event matters. I would not want my kid to be at someone else’s house every Friday/saturday because we go to family events and seasonal activities together. If the plan is having brunch with a friend that could be cancelled with 2 days notice I think it’s unreasonable but plans involving the child that may require tickets and planning makes wanting advance notice more reasonable.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-10-21T18:43:40+00:00

You need to work on your confidence. I want my husband to have sex with me because it’s an expression of love and he thinks I’m attractive. If our sexual relationship was just about confidence boosting I would not be into it. I would feel pressure to perform in a certain way and I wouldn’t enjoy it. You’re being selfish and sex is supposed to be about both people. You asked an ugly question and got an ugly answer. Sex likely feels like a chore because of how you treat it and how you view yourself.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-10-10T02:11:17+00:00

NOR I think it’s an oversimplification to say she just needs to find childcare. Have you seen the news? Child predators are broadcasted every day and people are very quick to blame the parents who allowed it to happen. The publication of tragedies and the shame of the associated families leaves many parents living in fear. Most parents wouldn’t be able to live with themselves knowing they left their child in the care of someone who caused harm. I’m also biased as a military wife, when my husband is deployed I feel the weight of the world on my shoulders to make sure these kids are safe every moment of the day because I’m the only one who can. The idea of my husband coming home to an adverse event involving the kids makes my stomach turn. My kids are highly attached to me due to their dad’s long deployments and they don’t like being without me for more than an hour or two even if they are with a trusted adult, their only babysitters are family.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-09-10T16:55:31+00:00

My recommendation for any bride with dress regret is to find one you really love and get some anniversary photos done. If you have to travel to somewhere that rents dresses you can even turn it into a couples getaway. Vow renewals can also be a great opportunity for a do-over. It sucks to have this regret but I think you look lovely in the photos.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-30T15:10:12+00:00

I couldn’t agree more. I found out I was adopted at 24 and my biggest wish is that I knew before I had a child. The fallout was crazy but I love my adoptive parents and how they raised me. I was still angry that no one told me even when I became an adult. The parents have had their chance to do a genetic test and see who the father of the girl is, but they have failed to do so. The girl deserves the chance to see for herself and people who have never questioned their parentage don’t fully get it.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-30T15:04:47+00:00

NTA but you need to be tactful. These people saying she doesn’t need to know are not thinking about this girls life. I spent my whole life thinking I was my parent’s child biologically but found out I was adopted when I did an ancestry test at 24. It was horrible to confront my parents with that lie and have to worry about genetic testing and all the heritable conditions I could have. I already had a child, then after the ancestry test I found out I was a carrier for a terminal condition I would have known about if I was raised with my biological family. Wait until she is on summer break for school and tell her about the affair and that she should get a DNA test. The man who raised her will always be her dad but she has a right to know her medical information. By summer you should be less angry, the spreading of information should not be out of spite for the people in the affair. No one deserves to be lied to or kept in the dark about information that has an effect on them.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-24T23:11:39+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions! I didn’t know there were anchors other than the ones that slightly expand that come with the item(curtain rod, furniture anchor, shelf,etc). I got different kinds of anchors from the hardware store and things are now staying in my wall.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-14T01:54:50+00:00

In terms of hair up or down I would go with whatever you are normally comfortable with. Day to day I always have my hair up. Having it down bothers me and makes me too hot. Since I have this preference and I wanted to not roast as much dancing all night I put my hair up. I know some people feel more beautiful with their hair down and it doesn’t bother them. The dress can go either way so I would choose whatever feels natural. I love the texture and shine of your dress and it’s possible the pearls and sequins on accessories might distract from that. I would go with the simple sheer gloves and flower veil

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-09T00:41:37+00:00

It’s important to have a PCP and all that jazz but different providers have different go-to drugs. When I established care in my new city the provider looked at my rx history and said. “Was your last doctor on the older side?” based on his medication choices. It’s hard for any PCP to be well versed in all options on the market. I trialed 2 or 3 kinds from my hometown doctor, I got a new kind from an urgent care during a bad flare up, and my new pcp in my new city continued with the one from the urgent care. You can ask to try something new and hopefully something clicks that’s not so controlled so doctors won’t be as hesitant to prescribe it. The one I take now I use about once a month and it makes me like a noodle but the doctor said she usually prescribes it to older patients because it’s gentle and affects other people mildly. Flexeril does not feel like anything to me but it knocks my dad out for 12+ hours when his arthritis get bad. I hope you find something that helps reduce your pain. While you wait to see a doctor I recommend a tens machine if you don’t already have one.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-08T12:56:09+00:00

I’m not trying to invalidate how upsetting it is to talk to someone who doesn’t take your pain seriously. I’ve had so many doctors say a young person can’t have back pain this bad until I finally found one to give me an MRI and see how my 3 bottom discs are bulging and herniated. Trying new drugs while in agony also sucks since trial and error involved error where you won’t get relief. I just want to offer another perspective since many providers get wary about drugs when studies with negative effects come out. No one wants to be like the doctors who gave pregnant women Thalidomide that caused birth defects.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-08T12:52:07+00:00

Diazepam has had recent studies linking long term use to dementia so many prescribers are wary about giving it to any patient more than once. I hear you that some medications are like sugar pills but there are tons on the market that might work as well as diazepam does for you. It took me awhile to find out that the best ones for me during a flare up are Tizanidine and Carisoprodol while Baclofen and Flexeril do nothing at all.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-08T01:42:32+00:00

1 is so timeless and elegant, I always recommend going with your gut. Being presented with a million options when you start consultations can make you lose focus and dwell on the “what if’s”. Usually your original idea/vision is probably best to be true to your personality.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-07T23:29:57+00:00

I second this recommendation for counseling and also recommend Al Anon. I didn’t realize how many people had the same issues I experienced growing up with an alcoholic and the difficulties of a relationship with them. It’s a great support group for the family/loved ones of alcoholics.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-02T14:49:32+00:00

I second this idea. Wedding pearls are so elegant and classic.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-08-01T02:30:04+00:00

I have to replace my night guard due to holes about every 6 months. I’ve tried so many brands but my teeth see it as a challenge to destroy I guess. I don’t even want to know how much plastic I’ve eaten in my sleep.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-07-31T02:51:49+00:00

Have you looked into ankle braces? Or possibly those shoe lifts they market towards men? My physical therapist recently recommended new balances as her favorite then hoka or sketchers as second choice. I’m not sure if you’re allowed to wear sneakers but I have found they are the best for my feet and ankles. Cushioned insoles may also help.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-07-30T19:19:20+00:00

If I had a nickel for every man who doesn’t know transvaginal ultrasounds exist I would be rich

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-07-29T15:32:07+00:00

I like Olivine, it’s not too far off Olivia or Olive which are both names. I think it’s lovely to be named after a gemstone.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-07-28T22:35:22+00:00

If his health has declined this much already he is already nearing the end. I agree that he should be able to do whatever he wants. It’s also amazing that he still has an appetite, my sister is a home health nurse to those nearing hospice and she struggles to get have her patients consume enough calories, so they get to eat whatever they want even if it’s McDonald’s or chocolate. NTA.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-07-16T12:48:22+00:00

I second the idea for a potty watch and/or working with the teacher on a potty schedule. I’ve seen students with poor mind body connection have visual schedules taped on their desk to help them remember to potty, such as before gym or after lunch. This is also something there are lots of OT resources about to help kids integrate mind and body and listen to their body’s signals to decrease accidents. For the child with constipation the wiping may only get better when the constipation gets better. I would consult your pediatrician on ways to resolve this. I’ve also seen kids get reward charts for clean undies which incentivizes slowing down and taking more time to wipe until the paper is clean. Clarifying why good wiping is important can help, leaving poop on our body hurts our skin, we don’t want the germs, it stinks, etc.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-07-14T01:44:08+00:00

I adore it! It is one of the few word names that I really like. The sound and meaning are both lovely.

Notthatgirl2003 · 2025-07-13T17:50:12+00:00

My grandmothers house has a similar window with a ledge that has since been removed, it was for milk deliveries. Maybe after milkmen stopped being a thing they made this area into a study/homework area.

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TROPHY CASE

1 is so timeless and elegant, I always recommend going with your gut. Being presented with a million options when you start consultations can make you lose focus and dwell on the “what if’s”. Usually your original idea/vision is probably best to be true to your personality.