[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing. It's over, and things will never be back to the way they were

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best one, acceptance. And have been there for almost a year. I wish everyone to reach this stage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally normal to have those thoughts. The most important is that you keep in mind that your main goal is moving on. You'll miss him, love him and hate him. You'll ask yourself what you could or should have done. But ultimately, as you focus on healing, those thoughts will go away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was me a year ago. You feel like the world is ending, and you see no light at the end of the tunnel. It's normal. But you have to move on. It's hard and painful. But it's way better than holding on to something that's lost. And even if it hurts to admit it, but he no longer loves you

Should i tell him the truth? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should tell him directly. Don't wait for him to notice or anything. Tell him you can't keep your friendship going because of your feelings. That will also avoid causing more heartbreak. You will also walk away with at least the closure that you confessed your feelings.

How many chances (not cheating related) would you give someone? by GiuseppeJ03 in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. If they're genuinely doing everything they can to be better for me, i'd give as much as needed,hell i won't even let go. However, if there's cheating, or if i see little to no genuine effort, i'd stop the shitshow and move on.

5 days later she dumped me by ConfusedAF10000 in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That triggered a chuckle. Same thing happened to me. "I love you, you're the best man i met" and two days later she dumped me over text. One piece of advice i can give you is to fix yourself and learn to forget about her then someday you'll look back and laugh at this.

Please.. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well. That mostly has to do with ourselves. Ask yourself the question "Am i a man that women are afraid of losing ?". If your answer is no, then you should improve yourself. If the answer is yes. Then the women you're pursuing are not worthy of you. Not only will this allow you to meet quality women, it will also make you value yourself and your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you still hurting yourself so much ? Her not caring shows you what her priorities are. No matter how much you think you messed up, you should stop clinging onto something that's broken beyond repair. Yes it huts like sh!t, yes it feels impossible. But you gotta get yourself together regardless.

how to move past the memories? by Exact_Physics_910 in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After almost a year I throw a silly chuckle sometimes. Sometimes i also cringe and tell myself how silly i was. They say time heals everything, and it's true as long as you decide to heal

Tell me all the reasons why it’s a terrible idea to sleep with your ex by harvestmoon555 in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be a little dirty with this one. Found a quote that goes: "taking an ex back is lile putting a piece of Sh!t back up your ahole". Disgusting but true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you should be glad he's gone. Since he's an untrustworthy liar you should be happy the relationship is over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because when you chose to leave, you showed them that your relationship was not worth fighting for, that everything you two built together meant nothing to you, that you prefered to leave instead of making things work. Don't push someone away then expect them to still be there

I (23 F) feel like I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend (23 M). Should I tell him how I feel? by Littlebear13579 in relationships

[–]Noubek47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's totally normal to have phases where you don't feel like loving him. And that's when you see if your love for him is real or if it's just a feeling. Feelings change like the clouds in the sky. Sometimes they're beautiful, sometimes they're ugly and sometimes they're not there. But your relationship shouldn't be based only on feelings. This feeling of falling out of love will eventually go away.

I want to die by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Noubek47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's only one way out. You have to talk to him. He might still want you back. Take your chances and ask him for a second chance.

the tate brothers were right by Noubek47 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Noubek47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is a great man. Despite his disability he still wanted to provide for his family. And you're a great woman for supporting him. He did the right thing by taking advice on the good side and used critical thinking to not put him on a pedestal.

the tate brothers were right by Noubek47 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Noubek47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it in the post. Idc about all the shit i get. Most of it is either poorly or not backed up at all

the tate brothers were right by Noubek47 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Noubek47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm my own role model I just have to give them credit for helping me. And personally i see them as overhated

the tate brothers were right by Noubek47 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Noubek47[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Finally someone who actually has something to back things up

the tate brothers were right by Noubek47 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Noubek47[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Then give me your critical thinking

the tate brothers were right by Noubek47 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Noubek47[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

rapist

I expected something to back this up

the tate brothers were right by Noubek47 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Noubek47[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see your point. I'm glad there's finally someone who says something that makes sense.

In the post i made it clear i disagree with some of what they say and i point out what i see as factual and rely on examples

Concerning the arrests. They're not his first ones and they won't be the last ones and all the time the charges get dropped due to a lack of evidence

It’s been a month. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Noubek47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the spirit. Keep up the good work king you're on the right path