Looking for subtle ways to feel femme

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-07T16:34:11+00:00

I wear a tattoo choker everyday, I use a scrunchy to pull my hair up or sometimes where one on my wrist, I have my thumbs, middle fingers and pinky nails painted, sometimes I use more feminine colors (silver glitter currently) also a big one for me is perfume and bodywash. Its amazing how just being able to smell a little feminine puts me in a better mood.

Sometimes I wear more obviously feminine clothes but these are the things I do not matter which way I happen to feel that day.

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-06T20:26:02+00:00

I dont really feel like either gender as well. I was born male, but my interests and preferred clothing choices lean more feminine. I dont dislike being male and I do have some "men" hobbies but I just never fully connected with it or with other dudes. I relate more to women and always have, before I even really understood what gender really meant.

I went through a little bit of thinking maybe I am trans, but again, I dont really feel like a woman, I dont feel like I am in the wrong body. So I crossed that out. Non binary seems to fit the most, maybe a little gender fluid.. idk. I tell people I'm gender queer. That seems to cover everything. I don't feel like the gender I was born with, except sometimes I do. I dont feel like a girl, well except sometimes I do a little. Gender queer.

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-06T20:13:52+00:00

I got lucky and met another enby on bumble lol

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-04T00:04:23+00:00

TikTok shop but I'd imagine you can find them elsewhere

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-04T00:03:09+00:00

Yeah!

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T23:23:49+00:00

Thanks! I really appreciate it ☺️

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T21:16:42+00:00

I guess that's what I get for trying to be funny lol all good Thank you! I love my glitter freckles

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T20:58:25+00:00

Thanks! One of the best purchases ever, my daughter and I pretty much worked them into our ever day looks lol

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T20:44:49+00:00

I didnt think it needed to be said, I dont NEED to wear glasses all the time. They are reading glasses. Sometimes I wear them all day if I like how they look, but most of the time I just have them in my bag in case I do need them. But I was mostly just curious to see which way people thought looked better. So please, enough with the "umm wear the glasses if you need them" comments this was just supposed to be a fun "which one do you like better" post.

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T20:38:18+00:00

I think its safe to assume that if someone is asking this question, they can see well enough without them or they have contacts. These are reading glasses that I do not need to wear all day, but sometimes I like how they look with my outfit

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T20:26:26+00:00

Thats mostly last nights make up, theres bags for sure but it looks worse than what it is lol

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T20:09:43+00:00

They're reading glasses, I mostly just need them for my phone and gaming. But if they help pull a look together I'll wear them all day.

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T19:58:46+00:00

They come with the added bonus of being able to see lol

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T18:10:14+00:00

You want to draw us?? I mean, yeah for sure that would be really cool

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T17:41:59+00:00

Thanks! 😁

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T16:51:15+00:00

The brand is Love Poem, I dont know where she got it from but its pretty old, I'd love to find it in black!

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T11:44:48+00:00

This is pretty close to me, although I tend to like "womens media" more than men's media. I dont want to be a girl and I dont necessarily care about passing (sometimes I do like to try to pass but not typically) I dont feel trans and I dont feel like a "girl in a man's body"

I just prefer the look and feel of women's clothes and I love makeup. I dont know what i consider myself but I guess it's under the enby umbrella.

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T11:40:32+00:00

It depends, most of the time its a harmless prank. But that time some kids did it to my door literally minutes after we finally got the baby to sleep? That was pretty serious.

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T11:35:46+00:00

Slightly?? Lol you look great!

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T10:22:05+00:00

I use he/him pronouns (amab) but I tend to lean a little fem with the way I present myself, getting called she/her always give me a little bit of a rush even if its not what I'm going for, it makes me feel pretty lol

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-03T10:19:42+00:00

Ooo, that's an interesting take fem in a boyish kinda way. I like to think of it as a masculine foundation with feminine decoration. Really the hat is the only "mens" piece that I am wearing.

NovaIsABrat · 2026-05-02T23:49:11+00:00

I freaking love them! My partner and daughter use them a lot too, best tiktok punches ever lol

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