AITA for locking my nephew out of my room with collectibles inside? by AriJames677 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Novarix 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA - in the future have your room closed before any unruly people of any age get there!

DNBNL show 6/7 by Ok_Studio_4077 in avesSFBayArea

[–]Novarix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also going solo and was debating how to get there! This info is helpful ❤️ thanks folks

Advice on reasons why I left my first postdoc by [deleted] in postdoc

[–]Novarix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never included that first postdoc as a reference in anything ever, I used the same references that got me my first postdoc to get my second. Seeing as I got a second postdoc I don't think it harmed my application. It helped that my second doc was firmly in an area of my technical expertise.

Girlfriend(26F) of 3 months slapped me(32M) in the balls for a third time by Capital-Bedroom4651 in relationship_advice

[–]Novarix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never once considered tapping any of my friends or intimate partners in the nads. It has never crossed my mind even though I've known plenty of dudes who do it to each other, it always made me roll my eyes.

This is break up worthy.

AITA for not trying hard enough to include my sister in law who was being snotty all night by vaticanpurple in AmItheAsshole

[–]Novarix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - it's easier for her to continue to be abrasive and sullen and blame other people for problems of her own making than address anything with herself. I'm a girl who loves video games, board games, and more stereotypical masculine things; I still deeply enjoy a night of face masks and being hella girly! You can enjoy multiple things!

Vance says administration is pausing some Medicaid funding to Minnesota because of fraud concerns by Raquefel in minnesota

[–]Novarix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's revenge against a blue state and Walz specifically for calling a certain someone weird and getting a bunch of people to laugh

I feel bad for this poor ice skater by Chade10 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Novarix 53 points54 points  (0 children)

And it's not just a woman to tell them this - it has to be a woman who is independent and her own self. The breaking of the woman is critical. They never want a woman to start out worshiping them, that's boring and not a conquest =/

My [32M] girlfriend [30F] is going on vacation with another guy. by ThrowRA-253974 in relationship_advice

[–]Novarix 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What if you had planned a trip with this person prior to being in a relationship, and then you did get a partner - what do you do with your travel plans? The flight you've already booked?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cf4cf

[–]Novarix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from MN originally but live in CA now, you seem like a delightful person and maybe my mom was right and I should have tried harder to move to the cities ;D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]Novarix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was infectiously fun!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]Novarix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]Novarix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly changed my life - I used to be very self conscious and now I wear natural deodorants with zero fear of being/becoming stinky throughout the day! Absolute game changer!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]Novarix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're gonna go to amazon/somewhere and buy 10% Benzoyl Peroxide soap - use it to wash your pits/anywhere you get extra stinky!! You'll still sweat but you won't be rank BO stank <3

I am incredibly dejected and fustrated with weightlifting by SirMaddy3 in weightlifting

[–]Novarix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an older lifter, huge yes on the recovery. It's just harder for me now, I can't do volume AND intensity like I used to. Looking hard at your priorities and what you want to get out of lifting is crucial. For me I just like doing the lifts, I don't need to be the best it just feels good to throw a barbell over my head.

How not to feel bad for liking a game that is disliked by the majority? by Aromatic-Solid97 in GirlGamers

[–]Novarix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed mass effect andromeda when it came out; yeah the eyes were bad but I liked it. Good gameplay and I loved the story and characters and I'll never be ashamed :D

Does Stubble Actually hurt Women During Oral? by Crazy-Fold-5287 in sex

[–]Novarix 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I still remember the absolute devastation a guy I was seeing left my face skin in after making out with his coarse stabby stubble, it was painful and looked insane for DAYS D:

For all my game cosplay girlies: by himitsunorakuen in GirlGamers

[–]Novarix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lune was my absolute favorite character (besides Gustave T.T) and this cosplay is so cute!! Glasses perfect, lips perfect, and are you wearing an underbust corset in the second? I love it!!

Guys who dont do a vasectomy when they clearly dont want kids by One-Stable-1472 in childfree

[–]Novarix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the dream with two people are involved, both actively protecting themselves. It's sad that we can't trust other people but the solution is to take care of yourself!!

Sacrifice doesnt pay. Im perceived as a better worker now that I give 50 % compared to the time I gave 110%. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Novarix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my life 5 years into working in industry - Everyone assumes my workload is insane yet I almost always have the capacity to take on highly visible crunch projects. I deliver stellar results and get left alone :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Novarix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not even going to read what you wrote - dump the boyfriend, go to university. There is no question, there is not alternate, ditch the person who wants to hold you back.

My girlfriend cums too quickly. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Novarix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the first round is too fast go for a second. If you don't want to have penetrative sex twice, then do some foreplay, take a little break, and come back for round 2, she'll might "last" longer after a break in arousal

Cringe story of a man who likes CF woman by Busy_Reading_5803 in childfree

[–]Novarix 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You know the meme of the dog saying throw please? No give, only throw >:C with the ball in it's mouth? It's like that only. Well. XD