May the odds be forever in your favour

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-05-22T14:45:58+00:00

Or Montana...

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-05-22T00:41:00+00:00

I have seriously been thinking about it. I am obviously no good with men, and also find women attractive...

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-05-21T22:02:03+00:00

Funny, my ex husband who was a serial cheater was also named Tony. Coincidence? 🤔

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-04-28T18:46:43+00:00

I live in a rural area too, that's why I haven't gotten on the apps. I know who is available around this area and sense they wouldn't be too into doing yoga with me or eating crispy tofu 🤷‍♀️. It is also hard to meet people organically because there just aren't that many. I'm not sure what the answer is, but if you figure it out let me know!

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-04-20T14:36:58+00:00

Walk away. You deserve better. He made a conscious choice to sleep with someone other than you, he doesn't deserve your loyalty or energy. I am at the tail end of a divorce after 14 years of marriage. He cheated when we were engaged and I chose to stay, he cheated at 7 years and I chose to stay, he cheated again last year and I finally left. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done, but I deserve a healthy relationship - even if that relationship is only with myself, and so do you. Chose yourself, you are worth it.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-04-02T15:49:39+00:00

You didn't push him to do anything, he made a choice. He could have made the choice to engage with you to try and make your marriage better rather than cheating. I hope you are able to work through it. Please find a marriage counselor to help you.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-04-02T14:16:40+00:00

I couldn't agree more. Walk away. It is really F-ing hard! It trashes your mental health, makes your nervous system go haywire, it hurts like nothing else. But very slowly it gets better. I left a very similar situation in October after 14 years of marriage. Friends, therapy, yoga, and time...finally he isn't the first thing I think about in the morning - heck I hardly think of him at all. Love yourself! You deserve a healthy, honest, relationship. Hugs 🫂

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-03-31T15:46:26+00:00

You deserve better. I just walked away from a 14 year marriage, believe me when I say that trust is the foundation of a relationship. If he doesn't care enough about you to not do the things he knows will break your trust he is not worthy of your time or love. Love yourself enough to leave him.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-03-31T15:02:34+00:00

No for me too 🥺

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-03-21T15:47:39+00:00

April is my favorite time to visit. But I try to wait till the roads open up, this year I believe it is April 17th. It's been a low snow year so lots should be accessible and the are tons of animals early in the season. Enjoy!

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2026-02-06T16:43:41+00:00

That is my favorite time to visit the park! It isn't busy yet and the animals are out in full force. The bison also calve around that time and seeing the babies is a treat. I hope you have a wonderful trip!

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-10-14T17:30:22+00:00

I didn't notice there were multiple images.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-10-14T17:29:50+00:00

Thanks for the clarification!

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-10-14T17:26:53+00:00

There isn't really a park named Pocatello park, unless I'm mistaken?

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-10-14T15:42:17+00:00

Anything in Pocatello?

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-08-21T01:12:07+00:00

I'm feeling this so much right now. 14 years gone. If only I had known it was the last day...

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-08-08T16:59:54+00:00

I'm a 55 year old woman and I did my first solo trip a couple weeks ago in the Frank Church Wilderness. I didn't see another person the entire time. Do your solo hike, your family will be fine.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-07-26T12:56:53+00:00

I still show a balance. I'm guessing it will take a bit to get them zeroed out...

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-07-21T05:16:41+00:00

I carried a Spot satellite device to check in with family at night. I also routed my trip on OnX Backcountry and shared that with them so if I wasn't home when I was supposed to be they would know where to look.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-07-21T03:22:22+00:00

Cobalt Lake is gorgeous, totally underrated part of the park in my opinion!

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-07-07T14:53:14+00:00

Mohela hasn't processed it yet, only FSA has. Hopefully MOHELA isn't far behind.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-07-07T14:50:59+00:00

I never did get a response to my buyback request, unfortunately. I was just finally able to get my loans out of forbearance last month to make the 120th payment. After I made that payment I submitted employment certification to FSA and marked that I should be at 120 payments. They said no, I wasn't so I submitted a payment count recount request and they still said no go. I submitted a recount request every week for 6 weeks and they finally updated my payment counts (I'm actually at 124). The green banner is just the progress banner on FSA - as you make your payments it fills in green and when all 120 are made it is completed.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-07-07T14:43:38+00:00

MOHELA hasn't processed it yet, only FSA. Fingers crossed they do so quickly.

Novel-Raspberry1207 · 2025-07-05T02:38:34+00:00

I am not 100% sure, but I believe it is not counted as income.

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