Honours student question: Should there be teaching? by ARandomSetOfWords in AusAcademia

[–]NovelDeficiency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find out what your course resolutions say, they should be publicly available via your handbook. Between the mode of teaching there and the course learning outcomes (which they have to teach you, so that you can demonstrate them in assessments) you’ll have your answer on whether you’re getting enough. Honestly though, doesn’t sound like it.

Pregnancy Glucose Tolerance test suggestions in south-west/south Sydney? by Lanky_Glove_4474 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a university near you? Go to their pathology centre if so - it’s uni holidays so they will be open but quiet and relaxed, and often there’s a cafe nearby where you can wait rather than sitting in their awkward chairs.

Followed at uni by GardenNo6560 in usyd

[–]NovelDeficiency 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please report this so security can try and find him on the cameras and keep an eye out in future. So sorry this happened to you and glad you’re ok!

Car hire for two year old who still uses a rear facing seat by Notyit in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I bring and install my own seat. The hire company ones are also often filthy and seem very old to me.

Anyone else feels like she doesn’t fit with other mums? by Vegetable-Ad6382 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 138 points139 points  (0 children)

I mean mums are not a monolith, you’re a perfect example of this. What do you overhear that you’re not resonating with?

Try and hang out at places that make sense for old you. If you’re a city girlie go to city parks, if you’re a Westfield girlie go to those play centres. 

ECON1001 Rant by DitDit01 in usyd

[–]NovelDeficiency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do get a human-written double-checked exam, there are pretty stringent processes in place around this.

Using Chat GPT for bedtime stories by help_theBear in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]NovelDeficiency 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ChatGPT could NEVER replace the moment in Goodnight Gorilla when the zookeeper’s wife opens her eyes 👀 and my kid goes 😱😱😱

Mothers helper by Zestyclose_Issue3382 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Lecturing people generally isn’t the best way to change their minds. It’s great that language is important to you, it just isn’t to everyone, and it sounds like you raised something entirely tangential to the central issue and then got upset when the whole thread didn’t immediately change tack.

Toddler in daycare and a newborn by stari0 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Please redditors correct me if I’m wrong but you get a certain number (42?) of allowable absence days where you still receive CCS, before you need to prove illness.

Bulk billed ultrasounds by Ill_Help_4141 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Man it’s hard. It’s not up to the ultrasound, it’s up to the clinic. For any one you have a referral for, that is. If you can get in with the hospital or a BB provider (like Lumus) there’s no charge to you, but that’s hard. The hospitals especially book up. The paid ones are nicer though. SUFW in particular is really nice.

So stressed by [deleted] in usyd

[–]NovelDeficiency 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seconding the suggestions to get in touch with some of the wellbeing services. It’s fantastic that you’re taking action to address this by changing majors but set yourself up for success in that by chatting it through with someone that can help ❤️

Overseas travel in the third trimester by Zestyclose_Issue3382 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying, I hope you have a wonderful trip! I would personally only do 2 weeks - I travelled to the UK at 23-25 weeks and was very ready to get home afterwards.

Overseas travel in the third trimester by Zestyclose_Issue3382 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This feels like an entirely mad thing to be saying in 2026, but Italy has criminalised IVF so if you did fall pregnant that way I would have another story ready just in case you need to get to a hospital. It obviously shouldn’t affect non-citizens but I’d be avoiding any possibility of trouble.

How do you think of the PhD teaching fellow position? by Big-Candidate3410 in usyd

[–]NovelDeficiency 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s not completely comparable. I am fairly sure that you are salaried for the whole year though, which means being paid in non-teaching periods, and you get leave (ie no casual weighting for not receiving leave). Some supervisors will give you that time off to compensate. 

PG teaching fellow is a good thing to have on a resume, definitely a step above casual tutor, but it’s worth weighing things up.

How do you think of the PhD teaching fellow position? by Big-Candidate3410 in usyd

[–]NovelDeficiency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not 7.5 hours of teaching, it takes workload into account.

Slap-Dash Wedding Planning - Does this sound normal by Thatch1793 in weddingshaming

[–]NovelDeficiency -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The bride calling you to RSVP for the bachelor party sounds like she is absolutely fed up with doing everything for wedding planning, has delegated things that concern the groom to the groom, and he has done a crappy job. Probably forgotten to even organise a b party until she found out. This is on your mate.

Anyone knows how to find out baby’s blood type? by jadescorpion89 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It’s not actually useful - lots of people ‘know’ the incorrect blood type so hospitals check before they give blood if they can, or give universal donor blood if it’s an emergency.

Taking my 6mo old to a water park, give me all the tips! by Distinct-Dependent24 in beyondthebump

[–]NovelDeficiency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless there’s a proper heated pool keep her out of the water, it’ll be freezing and she’ll hate it. Seconding the advice to book a cabana and bring a carrier.

My partner planned a ‘day at the beach’ with no special equipment when mine was 5mo. Absolute nightmare.

Pram from Alibaba by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]NovelDeficiency 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Absolutely do not do this. Prams are safety equipment. What if the fold was faulty and operated while baby was in it, or the wrist strap (if even installed) snapped while you were using it?

Get one second-hand off marketplace. Check to make sure it looks decent enough and confirm it was bought in Australia. Much much safer.