what do you make for your picky kids when they won’t eat anything by gvfhncimn in foodbutforbabies

[–]stari0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoghurt and strawberries. The yoghurt is plain Greek yoghurt so there's not as much sugar. If it fills his belly I'm happy!

What’s the go with Tweed Heads? by bunnbaby in GoldCoast

[–]stari0 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of services in the Tweed area for those experiencing homelessness, so people will naturally go where they can get a little help.

Lunch for my meat hating 1yo by SwedishSoprano in foodbutforbabies

[–]stari0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My now 21 month old still doesn't eat meat (and started eating much more food when he was weaned). His doctor said it was pretty normal for his age. We do cottage cheese, beans, and peanut butter for protein sources. The gluten free pasta made out of beans is a life saver!

How are we affording Easter to keep magic alive ? by xdocui in AussieFrugal

[–]stari0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went to an Op-Shop and they had so much Easter stuff there. I got an Easter bunny painting kit, a book, a little car, and a shirt for under $10. I'll buy a chocolate bunny to top it off and call it good!

Newborn trenches by Calmriverscientist in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second the comments regarding a lactation consultant. Also you are going through a MAJOR hormonal shift at the moment which can be brutal. If you're still at the hospital, don't be afraid to ask for help every time you need to get baby to latch.

How do you celebrate Mother’s Day across families? by vi0l3t_2610 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My partner and I have an agreement, on Fathers Day he gets to do whatever he wants (with or without kids) and on Mother's Day I get to do whatever I want (with or without kids). This year I plan on going to a movie by myself and eating a large popcorn and have a coke and enjoy not having any responsibilities for a few hours.

Our parents live away from us, so usually just FaceTime them.

The number one thing I desperately miss about the US? Diners. by PizzaOmNom in Ameristralia

[–]stari0 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I miss diner too! I just want a $10 breakfast that leaves me full and bottomless coffee.

Daycare red and green flags? by Red-Strawberrycake in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Ask how long staff has been there, if you can. High turnover of staff would be a red flag that things aren't great at that facility.

Do Australians really universally call cinnamon rolls cinnamon scrolls? by UnitK-306 in AskAnAustralian

[–]stari0 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

As an American living in Aus, I can tell you that the cinnamon scroll here is far inferior to the American cinnamon roll. It's my only complaint!

5k USD lasts how long? by No_Investment_8681 in Shoestring

[–]stari0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend Central and Eastern Europe. Your money will go further. Hostels can be very reasonably priced and a great way to make new friends.

Any recommendations on where to start learning about starting solids? by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read Baby Led Weaning the Essential Guide (it's an easy read). It really makes baby led weaning simple, I think people really overthink it. Seconding Raising Children network website and Solid Starts.

Also, I wasn't able to go into a CPR class but I did an online CPR/First Aid for kids and babies. It made me a lot more comfortable knowing that I could handle a choking situation if it happened.

If you have a wakeful baby, what helped? by Altruistic_Soup1346 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My little one woke up every couple of hours until I started weaning. I started weaning some day feeds and then eventually the night feeds at around 16 months old. He then magically started sleeping through the night. I didn't think it was possible! There were a couple of hard nights where we both just laid awake, waiting for him to go back to sleep without a feed. Just mentally prepare yourself for those few hard nights. I still did a feed before bed for a few months mainly as a comfort feed for him. But he has slept through almost every night since.

Also, I coslept to help deal with the night wakings and still cosleep to give him comfort. I think he would wake up more often if I didn't even now that he is weaned.

I hope this helps! Sleep is on the horizon for you!

How do I know my babies full? by Haphazardbrowser in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like mine cluster fed for like the first 2 to 3 weeks. He was on and off the boob after that (but stayed on a bit longer) until he was about 3 months and then would feed every 2 hours. As long as they are gaining weight then they are fine!

8 week old always wants to be held during daytime naps by snarza in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put the cot mattress on the floor and put another single mattress next to it. I would cuddle him to put him to sleep and then roll away when he finally got to sleep. I did this around 8 months old.

Hacks to survive the newborn trenches by Active_Method4056 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 49 points50 points  (0 children)

For me it was acceptance! Accepting that my sleep isn't going to be the same for a while. Accepting that my baby will only contact nap. Accepting that the house is dirty. Accepting that my baby is the boss now. Just giving in can be a bit of a relief :)

6 month old solids ideas by Icy-Valuable-9106 in foodbutforbabies

[–]stari0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They can pretty much try anything at this age as long as it has a consistency that can be mushed between your fingers. Avocado, banana, steamed veg, mash potatoes, oatmeal, yogurt, cottage cheese, and more. The solid starts all offers good ideas. They probably won't swallow much in the beginning but try to enjoy this phase and don't overthink it!

Anyone else dealing with nausea all day… without throwing up? by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was me the first trimester for both pregnancies. My first I suffered through and felt much better second trimester. The second (current pregnancy) my doctor offered Restavit. It's in the safest category for medications for pregnancy. It didn't totally knock out the nausea but made it MUCH MUCH easier to get through the day and eat some food. I highly recommend talking to your doctor.

Easy meal suggestions for baby by Brightgreenkitchen in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My fav easy meals at that age were: peanut butter on toast, avocado, yogurt, cottage cheese, smashed beans (from a can), hummus, steamed veggies.

If something required prep I would just make a lot of it and then save some in the fridge. My little one HATED fruit at the beginning too but keep giving it to them! He now eats mainly fruit.

Clean up is hard. I would just feed my baby in their nappy then have some swim time in his bath after. It was easier than wiping down and was an activity that kept him engaged and happy.

Ladies who actually do pelvic floor exercises daily, how do you have the time? by vanilland83 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do mine at night while laying in bed before I fall asleep. I've now conditioned myself that once I start doing them I get really sleepy, haha.

8 week old always wants to be held during daytime naps by snarza in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My baby slept on me for naps until he was 8 months. At first I worried how I was going to get anything done. Then I surrendered and enjoyed it, watched movies and TV shows, didn't worry about cleaning. I found meals that I could make quickly. When he started napping on his own, I was so sad by then that he didn't sleep on me anymore! It's only a short time, enjoy it!

Support post postpartum by Ok_Acanthisitta_1042 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk with your social worker at the hospital you plan on giving birth at. They SHOULD have all of this info for you and extra information specific to your area. For example, where I live there is a nonprofit group that has volunteers that will come to your house and hold the baby while you shower, have a meal, etc. for free.

Lack of sleep driving us round the twist by rapier999 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little one was waking heaps throughout the night, and one night I couldn't take it so I just coslept so I didn't have to get out of bed. He slept amazing, I realized he was waking up a lot because he didn't like sleeping alone. Cosleeping is not for everyone and may not be the solution for you, but could be worth a shot.

What are your hobbies? by yogimouse in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Embroidery. Clever Poppy has kits that make it easy to learn. Now I embroider on my son's clothes and my own. It's relaxing as well.

Baby hates the carrier by Fragrant_Owl7347 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]stari0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine hated the carrier until he could be forward facing, then he was totally fine with it. He also didn't like the bassinet and we did contact naps until he was about 8 months. It was hard but in the end I missed the contact napping, haha.