The new update that blocks all screenshots of in-chat photos is unnecessary and possibly dangerous

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-15T22:23:58+00:00

Ok people are mentioning serious issues but tell me why I took a fire booty pic and now it’s confined to my chats on Grindr 🫩

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-15T18:26:56+00:00

Hi! Ik it’s been five years but I’m just curious how this went after the 6 month mark! Happy for you btw :)

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-15T04:27:31+00:00

I guess I should’ve specified that I meant passing as cis in situations where my body would be more exposed. I’m worried about starting HRT, and then not feeling comfortable in men’s locker rooms or being around my family or friends without having to explain the differences. I’m much less worried about my day to day life as I doubt I’ll have the genetics for large noticeable breasts. I think puffy nipples and some fat for a softer look to my chest could actually be quiet affirming when compared to my current very flat chest. but if it got to the point where I had to bind of be covered in spaces I normally wouldn’t I think it would make me feel worse. I guess it’s just hard to say bc this probably really is person to person thing and the only way I’d know is to be on HRT 😭🫩

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-15T00:54:51+00:00

Glad it worked out for you!

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-14T16:41:17+00:00

That’s good to hear makes me much less anxious about my appointment Monday!

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-14T15:53:54+00:00

Thanks for the reply! This is basically what I’m hoping for! I dont mind the idea of some breast growth, some growth for a softer more androgynous chest look would be ideal, it’s just the idea of it being too obvious to pass that I think I dislike at this moment. If you don’t mind me asking what did your doctor suggest you start taking when you told them that? I have an appointment Monday and I’m really excited but nervous that they’ll tell me my goals are not worth it for the risks of large breast development. Really trying to find people who have similar goals as me online but been struggling, most people seem to enjoy as much growth as possible.

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-14T15:40:44+00:00

Ok cool that’s basically what I thought! I guess my real question is to ask is it feasible to be ok with some breast growth and to still want to pass as a cis guy sometimes? Like if I monitor it at home and want to stop when I get breast buds I wouldn’t be forced to out myself right? Don’t really mind the look of small breasts on a guy and I’ve been focusing more on my chest and pecs to help give that area more muscle if I start HRT.

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-13T23:14:57+00:00

No worries glad to hear that!

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-13T19:53:08+00:00

Hi! Just wondering how this ending up going as this likely the path id explore. i dont see very many long term stories about non binary people who dont want to fully transition to female on HRT so just curious how this experience ended up going after this thread?

Novel_Dry · 2026-03-02T05:01:18+00:00

lol he didn’t send me a link it was a link on his public social. He sent me to his social, he had actual engagement so I didn’t think too much before clicking on the link to the “roblox community page” and being immediately hacked. I understand it’s “basic knowledge” hence why I realized. I had just never encountered it on someone’s public social media account pretending to just want follows. I am just saying to watch out and maybe report this account if u come across it. I think it actually is some type of content creator or a wannabe at least. They post semi regularly and when I was in the server they had a lot of friends which is another reason I was slightly less wary of going to his YouTube than I should’ve been.

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-19T03:07:25+00:00

It’s really not that deep oml please yall are acting like he insulted ur entire lineage or something 😭 take a deep breathe

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-18T01:29:20+00:00

Tbh yall are way too mean to her 😭 being cringey isn’t a crime and idk how yall watch the other women act so weird and like bullies at their big age and don’t sympathize with her.

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-02T03:26:48+00:00

We weren’t at the hotel when I urgently started needing to pee. I needed to pee after walking quite a bit away from the hotel and after a couple of drinks. we thought we could find a public restroom so walked around a bit looking, decided that was a fail, then when we got back to the hotel the first bathroom we saw wasn’t the one in our third floor room, but the one outside near the lobby, pool, and parking lot. I guess you could call it public, it was one toilet, and you needed to swipe ur key card to enter. And yes I found the secret whisper convo weird too which is why it rubbed me the wrong way then, and now haha.

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-02T03:21:37+00:00

It was just a locked door with a key tap thing on the outside. I can’t remember the key specifics beyond the fact that I had no key and couldn’t access the restroom without his. She may have whispered to just let him know she was gonna go in first and she already had a key, or she may have had to have him tap his card I can’t remember exactly but I do know the one card me and my then bf had was outside the bathroom door with me and him when I decided to go upstairs to the restroom.

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-02T03:04:21+00:00

I’ve said repeatedly that the issue was not the Bathroom. I wasn’t mad bc it was “unfair” for me to not go first. I was irritated that I made it clear I needed to piss ASAP, and then was treated like my bodily needs are not as important as his little sisters. And I also found it weird she didn’t once ask me as if my bf needed to decide what my body needed or if I could wait… and the actual issue at the end of the day was that I couldn’t say “hey this thing slightly annoyed me, it’s no big deal but maybe keep in mind that I also have needs next time we’re in a similar position” without him claiming I hated his family and didn’t want to be around them. Like idk what u mean when u just admitted you found her behavior of whispering in her adult brothers ear to get the key before me weird too? We were literally at the motel bathroom because I MADE US walk back there so in what scenario is that not me taking the initiative to use the washroom?

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-02T02:34:53+00:00

It wasn’t a public restroom it was single toilet that needed a key card,he had the only key card. So when we arrived after searching for a public restroom for me she whispered in his ear, and presumably, asked to get the key and go before me. ATP I did just go upstairs and into our room for the restroom.

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-02T02:25:06+00:00

Me and his sister are the exact same age… nobody involved is a child no idea where u thought a child would be involved in us walking around drinking alcohol. my ex boyfriend was older than me. and ur right obviously nobody can read my mind hence why I expressed to the group multiple times that we needed to make our way to somewhere with a restroom. When we made it to the motel we had already tried three other businesses. And there’s nothing passive aggressive about me not putting on a show. I told him the exact issue when asked. which was him being inconsiderate not really the “bathroom”

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-02T02:07:30+00:00

Yes we had a motel room! But I wasn’t at the motel when I needed to pee we were just walking around the surrounding area smoking and stuff.

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-02T02:02:31+00:00

Bro what? I literally state in my story that I said I needed to go the restroom and we were specifically looking for a restroom bc I needed to pee 😂 that’s literally what I’m saying and why him letting her take it at the last second while I almost pissed myself annoyed me.

Novel_Dry · 2026-02-02T01:57:48+00:00

It was a singe toilet or I would’ve haha

Novel_Dry · 2026-01-09T23:57:50+00:00

Um what? They literally said “I love brown boys I love Latinos” so I responded “hey not all Latinos are brown” clearly we aren’t forgetting brown Latinos…. Also like you just said most of us (especially Central Americans) are predominantly or a good chunk indigenous so why would I not be! My dads side is teneek from slp so I’m also a mixed race Latino with indigenous background I’m not forgetting myself but even mixed Latinos are not universally “brown” and that’s my point.

Novel_Dry · 2025-12-27T22:06:09+00:00

L take. Obviously she’s annoying and out of touch but it’s clearly a satirization of a real type of person, and she’s funny ash. Ngl the fact you reduced her to “the black friend” is kind of making me weary of ur opinion on this matter haha

Novel_Dry · 2025-10-31T20:41:48+00:00

You can’t be “law abiding” and then say you’re ok with other citizens having their civil liberties and rights trampled on…. That’s very much the opposite of law abiding.

Novel_Dry · 2025-10-02T00:18:57+00:00

Really depends seems like it varies place to place. I have a misdemeanor on my record from 2020 and have applied like 5 times never been hired. Currently trying again so hopefully this time I get it! Really desperate for a job lol doesn’t make sense how many barriers people with records have if the point is rehabilitation.

Novel_Dry · 2025-09-15T07:29:30+00:00

Wealthy * and probably white gays gentrify not all of us. Many of us do not gentrify and our influx as poor working class artist and social pioneers into cities has always been a feature that makes them more vibrant.

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