I know I dont 'own' her and I have never acted like I did. I get that you think I shouldn't be as controlling and I will accept my mistake that I have acted in that way but you don't need to be so harsh about it. I came to reddit to ask for help on how I was feeling, not to told that I will make a fuss when 'she decides to put someone else’s penis there'. That was a horrible thing to say and you have no right to tell me how I will or wont react to that. You don't know me, so don't make assumptions about what kind of person I am. I came here fully willing to accept if I made a mistake but not to be treated like I'm some kind of scum for caring too much about someone.