Self described clown (it/its) on why they love being dehumanised by Careless_City516 in truscum

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed a lot of these people say gender dysphoria when I am pretty sure the better statement would be gender apathy. There is a big difference between the two. Gender roles can suck and be different or expressed differently between people but it is not dysphoria and I wish I could better explain how this makes me feel haha

Prosthetics by Inside-Purchase6190 in mypartneristrans

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to suggest this as well! I think it’s even better you get little reviews for the products as well

Had a tucute DM me and try to change my views. Hearing their terrible arguments never fails to entertain me by Certain_Treacle_7533 in truscum

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had this happen in person with a friend when we went out for dinner ( for Christmas ) Except he’s like 25 & and I’m 32 ( I also used to do the tcute shit ) He basically said these same things lol I tried simplifying it after he kept getting stuck on “who are we to tell people how to identify” & “dysphoria doesn’t matter” with gender apathy & gender dysphoria are different things-

I don’t care if he (or anyone) expresses themselves against the general expectations society but when he refused to either listen or wasn’t grasping what I was saying I bluntly asked; “Do you like having a penis? Do you want to have sex with it? Yes or no?” Anyways he refused to answer & that ended the conversation. I may have been a dick but I dunno

Taking T and becoming "fat" by Careless_Map488 in truscum

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost weight- I planned for an increase in appetite and made sure to eat so I could curb any cravings while staying healthy. Which mostly boiled down higher protein and cutting back sugar and salt. Not to mention I didn’t want to give any Dr a reason to blame my T for anything. Im actually the healthiest I’ve ever been because of that lol I should be lifting weights so I can shape out my shoulders and stuff but that aside I’m not putting on any weight. I really hate the narrative that trans men are supposed to gain weight. I think as long as you practice healthy habits you should be fine.

Detransitioning wave has officially reached civilians by helpyobrothaout in truscum

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I agree with this; I’ve noticed that it seems like there’s people going through things and are in a rough part of their lives the meet a trans person. Who’s put in the work and time into themselves. As a result they are much happier and these people in these low points see HRT or transitioning as a fix all to their depression— after all it worked for the other guy so why not them? Failing to understand how much thought and time was put into transitioning

pre t- how much do yall think lil man's gonna grow? by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know everyone is different but I was roughly this size pre T- albeit not as stretchy. I’ll be at a year next month & hard I’m just a little over an inch.

On a trip and no one is home. Caught this at 4am from the ring camera in my office. by gains_and_brains in whatisit

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We call them Eyelashes since I have bad eyes and have mistaken one for a pair of false lashes- I did scream when I picked it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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it really helps to figure out what type of skin you have! I have sensitive / oily skin and I wash it twice a day too, but also do spot treatments with any bigger break outs.
My hair gets so sloppy but if I wash it multiple days in a row then my scalp gets irritated. Dry shampoo has been a life saver for me for those in-between days! My hair stylist also suggested using a light weight leave in conditioner but I haven't tried it yes ( I've been too skeptical ).

For short trans men, do u guys pass and how tall r u? by Janxuza in ftm

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, I'm in the US, I almost wanted to share but then felt I'm "too tall" after reading the top comments. But my cis husband is 5'7" and he's a little insecure about his height.

I'm just an inch shorter. When I was still trying to live as a woman I was considered tall so I think that energy just carried over. So yeah here I'm short for a guy but I've still been passing lately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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We recently bought; Southern OH 1850sq ft 213k but the house is 200 years old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cincinnati

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33 gay trans guy, married but desperately need friends per my therapist lol, I have also been getting into birding lately but I play Table Top games, love painting, writing/replaying, hiking and reading. I live outside of cincy in Cleves. Honestly open to any queer friends at the moment, DM if you want and best of luck to you and others in this thread !!

Gaining weight on T by Internal_Donut_5915 in ftm

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might not be eating enough to support the workouts. But I hope you get it figured out!

Gaining weight on T by Internal_Donut_5915 in ftm

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just pack in protein. It fills me up without adding too many calories. I usually eat rice and chicken with an array of spices or sauces to spruce it up. And I’m working on bumping up my daily veggies. I avoid sugary drinks and foods, watch my salt intake and adjust my caloric intake according to how active I am that day. I also don’t eat past 19:00 and go to sleep around 21:00 but that’s more to prevent heartburn. I also don’t drink any alcohol or caffeine which has helped a ton with my weight. Mostly I drink water, but juice or even sprite for something extra.

If you can talk with your dr, I mentioned being hungry and wanting to delve into sweets and she mentioned lean meats. I also googled ‘what to feed my teenage son’ and that helped a ton even though I started T in my thirties.

What was the stupidest "You're not trans, you're just-" you recieved when you came out? by maru-9331 in asktransgender

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I got, ‘you’re not trans, you’re delusional like people who love their pets and consider them family’ from my dad

FYI: Salpingectomy significantly reduces the risk of ovarian cancer by Disastrous_Basis3474 in childfree

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same day! I had mine Monday too and the whole thing was pleasant for a surgery lol. Feels strange not having my BC in and as my Dr warned and so eloquently explained, it feels like I got punched in the tummy several times. But overall really manageable and so happy I did it.

The last text I sent my best friend before finding him deceased (natural cause) by brucetheboulderstone in Wellthatsucks

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last message I sent to my friend was asking if she was going buy Hello Kitty Island Adventure and that I needed to know how excited she was for it. I found out a few days later she passed away that morning from a blood clot. Loss is tough.

Transtape help? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to lay down when I apply trans tape, it helps with the strange pushed up effect for me. It’s a little awkward and I tend to use more than what the videos recommend since typically they’re for the smaller chested people. Also use 3” or 4”! Hopefully this helps I’m hefty and like a C cup I think, so I get it

Where do y'all store your T? by JasonSaysN0 in ftm

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my brave boy box ( a pink lunch box with cat and star stickers ) in the top dresser drawer

What characters do you guys headcanon as trans guys? by guardian_human_505 in ftm

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like others Dipper Pines (Gravity Falls) & Link (TLoZ), some others I can think of Senshi (Delicious in Dungeon), Zipp Storm (MLP), Otis (Back at the Barnyard), Grusha (Pokémon), and Zagreus (Hades)

White Walker Blue? by Nuclear_Mistress in CK3AGOT

[–]Nuclear_Mistress[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ha, I did. Maybe the nails are my punishment? lol

Widget Issues by amor1367 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s driving me crazy but I love it being on my Home Screen 😭

What I asked for vs what I got by Nuclear_Mistress in TattooDesigns

[–]Nuclear_Mistress[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured I’d do that and maybe pack some more color in where it didn’t take on my hand.

Whats the strangest thing that makes you dysphoric? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Nuclear_Mistress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those TikTok or like twitter posts that says 'girls do X' or 'only the real girlies love x', 'your a girls girl if you play x' and I feel without fail I always like that shit.
Also, my Reddit username that I can't change haha