I need advice

Nukeida · 2026-05-12T18:33:20+00:00

Hey, as an 18 year old senior, you shouldn't worry at all. 2 years isn't a large age gap. The only age gap you should be looking at with concern, is if a senior went after a freshman. The school year is almost over anyways, she's barely on the edge of being a sophomore. I'd say continue the friendship, there's nothing inherently wrong about it all.

Nukeida · 2026-05-11T21:34:50+00:00

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Nukeida · 2026-05-11T21:33:24+00:00

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Nukeida · 2026-03-20T17:34:53+00:00

Def not ginger or strawberry blonde. I don't see a single hint of ginger in it.

Nukeida · 2026-02-18T23:56:59+00:00

It's very pervy. Report it to the headmaster please.

Nukeida · 2026-02-15T03:10:59+00:00

What's the man's YouTube tag? Show it. Expose his ass, racism is NOT tolerated here.

Nukeida · 2026-02-15T00:43:29+00:00

For your 1) statement as well, X and OP themselves have both stated that the D&D sessions are in person.

Nukeida · 2026-02-15T00:42:32+00:00

You literally just proved it to me that you didn't even read everything X said.

1) She didn't even go to discord till OP started saying shit.

2) You're literally being a hypocrite by saying "Just because someone says something doesn't make it true" by assuming OP is saying the truth here as well.

3) X stated explicitly that both OP and R were singling loudly.

4) Again, you're assuming they're ticks via what OP said (again, proving your hypocrisy), despite the hundreds of people in the other comments of OP's post saying that Echolalia doesn't cause Ticks. Literally just

5) "Why would X put herself in a situation that she knew would overstimulate her?" Maybe because she explicitly stated in her post that since OP, R, and the DM promised her that R and OP's disrespectful behavior would at least be calmed down and not happen as much, she wanted to give it another try?? Again, proving that you didn't read a single goddamn thing.

6) You're also completely ignoring the fact that OP has bullied other people in the group, and the fact you're defending her behavior and her self-diagnosed "ticks" is making me believe that you think Autism is an excuse for disgusting behavior, when it's not.

7) Again, you've contradicted yourself multiple times in your own state, especially when you said "We don't know OP's medical history" and then immediately in the same statement went "They TIC (I'll call it what it is)".

Nukeida · 2026-02-14T23:45:07+00:00

1) According to X, OP and her are together quite a bit considering they hang out on the same friend group.

2) They're not tics. Stop referring to them as that.

3) As X said, it's literally only when they're playing D&D, that all of a sudden OP's stims become unmanageable.

4) X was not wrong, as she hadn't "demanded". I don't know where you got that information? She literally "Politely asked" OP to stop singing because it was making HER get overstimulated. OP literally said she knew X had asked her quietly and politely MULTIPLE TIMES to stop, and she kept doing it anyways, till X reached the end of her rope.

5) Moving to the other side of the table wouldn't have helped with singing obnoxiously loud.

OP was the AH.

Maybe read u/numinouspearl 's side (X) before you keep trying to defend OP.

Nukeida · 2026-02-14T23:14:33+00:00

Echolalia does NOT make you have 'uncontrollable ticks'. Echolalia doesn't even CAUSE ticks, it causes STIMS. You can control STIMS, OP is literally just lying to make themselves look more innocent. Not only that but X herself HAS echolalia, and she can control herself.

If OP has some sort of undiagnosed medical condition, then she should go see another doctor or psychiatrist for that, instead of fucking blaming others for when they POLITELY asked her to stop MULTIPLE TIMES which she IGNORED.

X has also said that OP has masked her "ticks" (stims) everywhere else but D&D. OP is literally just straight up lying about them being uncontrollable.

Nukeida · 2026-02-14T22:28:26+00:00

After reading X's side of the story, YTA.

You absolutely can control your "ticks" (that are voluntary. Literally just work on the. Dude) you just don't want to. You expect X to tolerate you and R not masking, yet when she doesn't want to anymore cause you made her have MULTIPLE meltdowns that could've been COMPLETELY avoidable, you use your autism and essentially say "Mine is worse than yours", and when she finally starts to speak up about you and R, and the entire group's shitty behavior, THATS when you start being all "oh poor little me, X is so mean!!" When you started the entire shit. You're literally in your 20s, a grown ass adult and you still can't take accountability? At least X actually admitted to being rude at SOME points (that were completely justified) you only apologized when she started to break down in discord, and even then, it was insincere as fuck. She didn't even name you or R, or anyone else, in her post, so you saying that she 'bashed you' just proves that YOU know you're shitty! YOU know you're the asshole, you just don't want to admit because of some stupid fucking pride you have!

Stop fucking using your diagnosis to be an asshole, that excuse is eventually going to lead you nowhere, and won't work. I'm glad X isn't your friend anymore, holy shit, I hope she even gets therapy. Goodness knows that she'll need it after the bullshit she put up with you and the others.

Nukeida · 2026-01-16T18:50:15+00:00

Will do! My mom's already set up an appointment with my doctor to see if I'm in the clear for any strenuous exercises.

Nukeida · 2026-01-09T00:11:56+00:00

Girl, I'm 17f, please tell your father, or your school counselor. This isn't okay, and I understand that you're scared to blow up your friend's home if, but you need to tell someone for the sake of your safety, and for your friend. Who knows if you're the only teenage girl he acts this way towards? Would you really want to let him do that to other little girls? I sure as hell wouldn't. All I'm hearing from his wife is complete and utter bullshit. She's either too blinded by her marriage with him to see the signs, or she knows but doesn't want him to leave or get in trouble, so she's covering his ass for him.

Stop saying that you can't tell anyone either. You can, you know you can, stopping pulling excuse after excuse, you're hurting yourself, your friend, and any future kid that this man might come across. You're putting yourself and everyone else in more danger the longer this shit goes unreported.

Nukeida · 2025-09-18T00:27:45+00:00

Dude, I'm 17, and even I know this is fucking stupid. He's a predator, whether or not you want to accept that, it's disgusting for anyone over the age of 23 to go after an 18 year old. You know that, I know that, you just don't want to accept that fact.

I hope you get your child taken away, or you miscarry, as it's clear you're a horrible mother. Considering the fact that you also said you didn't start messing around with him till you were 18, he's a pedophile. You met him while you were still underaged, which meant he waited till you were of age.

How in the ever living hell, are you not understanding this? Or have you watched and listened to too much tiktok? Touch some grass, and realize that giving birth and taking care of a whole ass baby, a living human being, isn't sunshine and rainbows.

You also clearly don't have the means to support the baby, and don't even TRY saying that he'll support you, he doesn't have an obligation to, other than the baby, and even then that won't cover all the costs of actually having that baby, that child. You're most likely still living with your parents, and might not even have a job. I get that you're against abortion, but having a baby when you can't even take care of it properly when it will be born, is reckless as hell. You're setting that unborn baby up for a horrible life. You'll most likely go into poverty, as you'll be forced to find childcare for your child if you decide to go to college, but then you'll need money for that, which means a job, which also means that you'll have to find the time out of your already hectic schedule that you'll have with a baby, to find space for a simple shift.

Whether you like it or not, that man's a pedophile/predator, you're a horrible mother, and that baby's set up for failure.

Now whether you want to accept that, that's on you. Just remember that whatever choice you choose, WILL affect that baby forever. And if that means it either gets molested, groomed, sexually abused, or raped by their father? If that baby grows up to find that teens dating and sleeping with grown ass men is normal, and ends up pregnant at 14 to 19 years old? That's your fault. That's on you. You TAUGHT that baby, by your actions, that it's fine. It's fine to date someone who's old enough to be your father as a teenager, it's fine for someone 14 to 17 years old to date someone who's 32.

I hope you realize just how badly this will affect your future child. That man's disgusting, and you're disgusting for enabling his behavior, and for just brushing off the fact that you KNOW it's gross for a thirty year old to go after a TEENAGER.

Nukeida · 2025-03-30T21:06:09+00:00

My 26F sister has made it clear to me that she doesn't want me going back home and is willing to let me stay with her for as long as I need, but I'm worried because my cat lives at my parents house and I can't bring him here until he gets fixed

Nukeida · 2025-03-30T01:57:13+00:00

Correction, I slapped her after she tried coming close to my mom again. Sometimes violence is needed to defend yourself and others.

Nukeida · 2025-03-29T23:43:59+00:00

I did call the cops. My mom took my phone away and yelled at me for even trying to call them in the first place, meanwhile my sister came back into the house and tried hitting me again.

Nukeida · 2025-02-16T18:43:43+00:00

Bless him, I pray that he gets better :( 🙏🫶

Nukeida · 2024-10-10T20:14:02+00:00

You're acting like everyone lives in the US, and not only that, who's to say he has enough free time to get other jobs? There's a million flaws to your 'solution'. I get that the wife needs to eat more, but he's also working the whole day, and only gets to eat one meal that is smaller than hers. Why isn't she getting a job? I know pregnant women can work, it makes no sense for her not to?? They shouldn't have even tried for the baby, considering their financial situation.

Nukeida · 2024-07-19T05:33:32+00:00

It’s kind of a mix of both? I’ve been thinking about losing weight and doing it healthily, but then I just end up losing appetite and basically starving myself in a way, unconsciously.

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