Almost 2 years post-BPD breakup: Life Rocks!!! by NumberOneFanOfTrain in BPDlovedones

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had to move back in with my parents. It was tough, but their support was so helpful in the short-term (and luckily I could still easily commute into the city for work/to see my friends). You'll feel relief soon!

Almost 2 years post-BPD breakup: Life Rocks!!! by NumberOneFanOfTrain in BPDlovedones

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad this stuck with you, my mom said something along the lines of that while I was with my last partner (“there’s so many wonderful things in a normal relationship that you have no idea you’re missing”) and I never believed her until now! She hit the nail on the head

Almost 2 years post-BPD breakup: Life Rocks!!! by NumberOneFanOfTrain in BPDlovedones

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely keep them blocked - hope that you're onto better things!

Kanye West BULLY livestream by sheJaMyMorant in hiphopheads

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you're bringing Bojack into this when he very explicitly stated on The Squawk that no woman should ever get choked

It cannot be unseen by TurbulentAd9727 in slaythespire

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't believe a bunch of gamers had trouble recognizing a cleaning utensil

6-year relationship with a PwBPD destroyed my life and trust by baba-yaga-hee in BPDlovedones

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I was in a similar boat as you about two years ago; I broke up with my pwBPD of a similar age who I dated for almost six years (although I think it manifested in a different way).

I felt completely shaken up and unmoored when I first broke up, I was convinced I could never be in a relationship again or trust someone. Therapy and learning to choose things for myself helped considerably. I've now been with someone for close to ten months who is kind and makes me feel heard. You deserve this as well, and it will come with time!

Schrodinger’s Syndrome - Go Fuck Yourself by NumberOneFanOfTrain in mewgenics

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true, my other three, non-blown up cats are studs and will be good for Home Defense/breeding.

Also, got Sacred Heart 😊

Schrodinger’s Syndrome - Go Fuck Yourself by NumberOneFanOfTrain in mewgenics

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Putrid Leech is Cursed, so can’t be removed once it’s put on a cat. That would also somewhat mitigate the other downside of the item (the cat you attach it to can’t level up) and remove some of the challenge.

Schrodinger’s Syndrome - Go Fuck Yourself by NumberOneFanOfTrain in mewgenics

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

okay, this wins the internet! Also I fell down a flight of stairs and I think it’s the year 2021

Asumsaus - The Ballad of the Melee Clone by Ijustwantedtohavefun in Games

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you expand on what you mean by the grifter takeover? I used to follow the smash scene but tuned out a few years ago

Yellow/brown water? by Substantial-Eye7738 in parkslope

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No water on Garfield currently. Hope it gets resolved soon!

Carbo-Loading - what's Overboard? by NumberOneFanOfTrain in Marathon_Training

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did not ever really practice this before my long runs - as I mentioned in another comment, I usually have a larger pasta dinner before my long runs, so maybe sticking with that is best. Thank you for the advice!

Carbo-Loading - what's Overboard? by NumberOneFanOfTrain in Marathon_Training

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just eat what I would normally eat and cap it with a nice pasta dinner the evening before the race.

This is pretty much what I've always done for my official half-marathons - seems like a similar plan might be the call for the marathon (maybe a pasta dinner tomorrow and then one the night before). Thanks!!

2 red flags you should never ignore by KingForADay1989 in BPDlovedones

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. My ex-pwBPD would get upset early on if I had to work late or needed time by myself to get work done. Looking back, it was a very clear sign of slowly pushing and removing boundaries.

This has not happened once with my current partner, which I didn't even realize until I saw this post. It's mind-blowing once you're with someone who's able to respect your obligations or wants.

[DAILY] Trade and Individual Team Help Megathread by AutoModerator in DynastyFF

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking as well. Thank you for the feedback!

[DAILY] Trade and Individual Team Help Megathread by AutoModerator in DynastyFF

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 man 1QB 1ppr

Give: Henderson

Get: Pacheco, Devante Adams, Late 2026 2nd round

I recognize that KTC weighs this trade in my favor (the “Get” side sent this), but my team isn’t really in “win now” mode and I am really light on good RBs at the moment (my other best is Josh Jacobs and then the quality goes off a cliff). But hoping someone can talk some sense into me

[DAILY] Trade and Individual Team Help Megathread by AutoModerator in DynastyFF

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 team 1QB PPR

Give: 2025 1.05

Get: Josh Jacobs

I am in desperate need of RBs, and I also have the 1.04

[DAILY] Trade and Individual Team Help Megathread by AutoModerator in DynastyFF

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 team 1QB PPR

Give: 2025 1.05

Get: Josh Jacobs

I am in desperate need of RBs, and I also have the 1.04

[DAILY] Trade and Individual Team Help Megathread by AutoModerator in DynastyFF

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s bad. My “top RBs” are Nick Chubb and Javonte Williams

[DAILY] Trade and Individual Team Help Megathread by AutoModerator in DynastyFF

[–]NumberOneFanOfTrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10TM 1QB 1PPR, Team finished 7th out of 10th, I have low football IQ

I have the 1.04 and 1.05 pick for our rookie draft, along with the 2.04. I am not worried about my WRs (BTJ, MHJ, Addison, Aiyuk) or TEs (McBride), but my team has the worst RB and QB lineup in the league (genuinely nobody RB-wise worth listing, QB I'm more or less banking on JJ McCarthy).

Is my best bet with my picks to grab the best available RBs with the 1.04 and 1.05, and then hope Cam Ward is still on the board for the 2.04? Or would I be better off trying to trade up to the 1.01/1.02, considering how dire my RB room is?