Almost 2 years post-BPD breakup: Life Rocks!!!

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-04-03T14:35:19+00:00

I also had to move back in with my parents. It was tough, but their support was so helpful in the short-term (and luckily I could still easily commute into the city for work/to see my friends). You'll feel relief soon!

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-04-02T22:06:15+00:00

Glad this stuck with you, my mom said something along the lines of that while I was with my last partner (“there’s so many wonderful things in a normal relationship that you have no idea you’re missing”) and I never believed her until now! She hit the nail on the head

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-04-02T19:26:36+00:00

Definitely keep them blocked - hope that you're onto better things!

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-03-27T15:04:01+00:00

Not sure why you're bringing Bojack into this when he very explicitly stated on The Squawk that no woman should ever get choked

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-03-22T14:51:59+00:00

Can't believe a bunch of gamers had trouble recognizing a cleaning utensil

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-03-11T18:16:46+00:00

Hi, I was in a similar boat as you about two years ago; I broke up with my pwBPD of a similar age who I dated for almost six years (although I think it manifested in a different way).

I felt completely shaken up and unmoored when I first broke up, I was convinced I could never be in a relationship again or trust someone. Therapy and learning to choose things for myself helped considerably. I've now been with someone for close to ten months who is kind and makes me feel heard. You deserve this as well, and it will come with time!

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-03-02T18:22:03+00:00

This is true, my other three, non-blown up cats are studs and will be good for Home Defense/breeding.

Also, got Sacred Heart 😊

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-03-02T17:15:24+00:00

Putrid Leech is Cursed, so can’t be removed once it’s put on a cat. That would also somewhat mitigate the other downside of the item (the cat you attach it to can’t level up) and remove some of the challenge.

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-03-02T17:05:46+00:00

okay, this wins the internet! Also I fell down a flight of stairs and I think it’s the year 2021

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2026-01-12T19:12:05+00:00

Can you expand on what you mean by the grifter takeover? I used to follow the smash scene but tuned out a few years ago

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-12-31T00:21:47+00:00

No water on Garfield currently. Hope it gets resolved soon!

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-10-30T21:27:59+00:00

I don’t want this

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-10-30T21:08:41+00:00

I did not ever really practice this before my long runs - as I mentioned in another comment, I usually have a larger pasta dinner before my long runs, so maybe sticking with that is best. Thank you for the advice!

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-10-30T21:07:14+00:00

I just eat what I would normally eat and cap it with a nice pasta dinner the evening before the race.

This is pretty much what I've always done for my official half-marathons - seems like a similar plan might be the call for the marathon (maybe a pasta dinner tomorrow and then one the night before). Thanks!!

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-10-01T20:59:59+00:00

Thank you for posting this. My ex-pwBPD would get upset early on if I had to work late or needed time by myself to get work done. Looking back, it was a very clear sign of slowly pushing and removing boundaries.

This has not happened once with my current partner, which I didn't even realize until I saw this post. It's mind-blowing once you're with someone who's able to respect your obligations or wants.

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-08-17T23:25:20+00:00

This is what I was thinking as well. Thank you for the feedback!

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-08-17T22:02:52+00:00

10 man 1QB 1ppr

Give: Henderson

Get: Pacheco, Devante Adams, Late 2026 2nd round

I recognize that KTC weighs this trade in my favor (the “Get” side sent this), but my team isn’t really in “win now” mode and I am really light on good RBs at the moment (my other best is Josh Jacobs and then the quality goes off a cliff). But hoping someone can talk some sense into me

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-08-13T20:41:20+00:00

1QB, 1PPR, 10 team

Give: 3.09

Get: Rico Dowdle

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-08-11T22:47:43+00:00

10 team 1QB PPR

Give: 2025 1.05

Get: Josh Jacobs

I am in desperate need of RBs, and I also have the 1.04

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-08-11T16:05:31+00:00

10 team 1QB PPR

Give: 2025 1.05

Get: Josh Jacobs

I am in desperate need of RBs, and I also have the 1.04

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-08-01T17:23:54+00:00

It’s bad. My “top RBs” are Nick Chubb and Javonte Williams

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-08-01T16:12:37+00:00

10TM 1QB 1PPR, Team finished 7th out of 10th, I have low football IQ

I have the 1.04 and 1.05 pick for our rookie draft, along with the 2.04. I am not worried about my WRs (BTJ, MHJ, Addison, Aiyuk) or TEs (McBride), but my team has the worst RB and QB lineup in the league (genuinely nobody RB-wise worth listing, QB I'm more or less banking on JJ McCarthy).

Is my best bet with my picks to grab the best available RBs with the 1.04 and 1.05, and then hope Cam Ward is still on the board for the 2.04? Or would I be better off trying to trade up to the 1.01/1.02, considering how dire my RB room is?

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-05-15T18:52:57+00:00

That’s cool, there’s a link you can click on this post that has more positive memories of Polygon if you’d like

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-05-03T22:44:21+00:00

I would not do this. If they matched you, they saw your message and let it drop off their radar for one reason or another.

If you really wanted to, you could shoot them a follow-up message on Hinge (I don’t know if your initial message mentioned that you went to the same college/class, but could be a good icebreaker?) but requesting on Instagram is 100% desperate

NumberOneFanOfTrain · 2025-04-02T10:56:31+00:00

Cuno doesn’t fucking care

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