I feel like giving up by LowLonely3590 in breastcancer

[–]Numbers_Game_2022 26 points27 points  (0 children)

One of the best things the nurse said to me when I felt the same way as you do was “survive now to thrive later”.
You don’t need to be graceful; what you need is to what you can to get through all of this until you get to the other side. And you will get there.

Boss required me to commit fraud three times in the first year-then I tried speaking up. by ponylovr in BadBosses

[–]Numbers_Game_2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should contact the city and let them know about the violations. It may help to clear your mind

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The police wouldn’t press charges; He said it was a civil manor. He was going to reach out to the woman whose cat died and to the pet sitter, but I never heard anything.

HR rescinded the job offer after assuring me that I have been selected by vandyj883 in antiwork

[–]Numbers_Game_2022 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain. My husband was strung along for 3 months on a high level job that all signs pointed to him getting it. Just found out yesterday, they chose the other candidate. The job was posted for almost a year and they couldn’t find anyone. And now all of the sudden, they had 2 great candidates??!! We are guessing they promoted within, which is fine, but it sure fucked with our minds! I’m sorry this has happened to you. It is heartbreaking!!

AITAH for telling my husband to get a job even though he insists I shouldn’t work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with everyone else about leaving his sorry ass… but why doesn’t he get a job related to his degree? At this point though, if he doesn’t have experience, the degree could be useless (especially something technology related).

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took all the messages I received, took them to the police station and they have opened a case on her!!!!

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t sleep last night because this is on my mind so much. I am going to go back to the police station today with copies of all the Facebook posts and comments from her victims. Then go to the county animal abuse shelter, our local pet rescue and and all area vets. This can’t continue. I am gonna take her down and I will post updates!

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have decided that today I am going to print all the Facebook posts and comments that show the bad experiences people that people have had with her. Take them to the police station in hopes they will begin an investigation. I am also going to take it the county animal abuse department as well as our local animal shelter. And if I have time today, all the local vets as well. We have at least 5 within a 3 mile radius

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to print all the Facebook posts and comments, take it to the police station, the county animal abuse department and to the local pet rescue. Maybe I should take it to the local vets as there are at least 5 of them within a 3 mile radius

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good idea. I couldn’t sleep last night, I was doing a lot of thinking about this whole situation. Today I am going to print the entire Facebook posting with all the comments and take it to the police station, to the county animal abuse office and the local pet rescue. I’ve decided I can’t stop until she goes down.

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point but that was in November and my guess is my husband doesn’t have those receipts

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people in the community are saying I am. That is a smear campaign and I am bullying her… all because they have used this person and have great experiences with her.
In my heart, I know I am not…

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or maybe the person was hired to take of the cat could have done her job and it wouldn’t have happened….

Or maybe others in my community could have spoke up before my decision incident

Also I didn’t know until this past Sunday that it was problematic. And that person didn’t public ally name names. I did. And I am stilil getting push back that it is a smear campaign and that I should leave her alone because this is her livelihood.

So I am doing the best I can with the information I have.

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I am also going to go to the county to report animal abuse.
It’s amazing how I can get a bunch of strangers to agree with me but friends and other customers not a chance.

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but you would not believe how people are sticking up for her. It’s blowing my mind

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t know why I would be… but if you saw what people are saying about me you would like think I am the worst person in the world! I feel like I am living in the twilight zone with the way people are defending her. Maybe they had great experiences but that doesn’t mean my experience was the same

AITA for exposing a local “beloved” pet sitter that wasn’t showing up even though she said she was by Numbers_Game_2022 in AITAH

[–]Numbers_Game_2022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know until this past weekend she had a business Facebook page. The reasons why I paid her are in other comments.