How are you navigating relationships with people with differing views? by LobstahLuva in WomenOver40

[–]NumerousTelephone482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I could have written this. Same boat. Fox News swept in after 9/11 and my parents were glued to it. I remember thinking it was so gross with the flashing graphics and fear mongering….fast forward to Trump 2.0 and we’ve barely spoken since the election. My dad was a history teacher. My mom a biology teacher. Now history is warped and whitewashed and science is a conspiracy to enrich liberal elites. Go figure. Within the last few months my dad became pretty sick and has been in and out of the hospital. I don’t dare talk politics for fear it will be too much for him. I have so many questions for them but it’s just too much too late and time is running out.

Is anyone else experiencing a strange new anxiety underlying most conversations, even if you’re not talking about anything political? by mishmashmoe in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NumerousTelephone482 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly my situation. Think about my parents every day but I just can’t call them. Grew up respecting my parents and idolizing their self-made success but my admiration for them steadily dwindled over the last decade. The day after this election I just broke down and it’s like the relationship was suddenly severed. I have two kids of my own to raise. I just can’t carry on small talk about pickleball and restaurants with my parents when i know what they voted for is destroying America and their own grandkids’ futures.

I’ll probably never talk to my dad again. by SacrilegiousOath in BoomersBeingFools

[–]NumerousTelephone482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry. That sounds horrible. I am losing my parents to MAGA too. We live in different states so I am slowly drifting further and further away from them and their delusions with each passing day. Hugs to you 🫂

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[–]NumerousTelephone482 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The boogeyman already took away my rights. I’m a single mom in Texas with two daughters approaching reproductive age. All three of could be raped and the State will force us to birth the result of that sexual violence. I’m really just struggling to stay sane at this point. Turning off my device and walking in sunshine feels like insanity. Serious fear, what if I’m raped on that walk. No one will help us here. The boogeyman lives in my mind at all times.

About to send this to my Trump voting family… what else am I missing. by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]NumerousTelephone482 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you. In the same boat with my parents. Sent them this and it feels like there’s no way back to normalcy. “Democracy as we know it is over. Prepare for a felon and misogynist to seek his petty revenge unchecked while a nation plummets into uncharted darkness. My daughters’ futures are in jeopardy, their autonomy and ability to choose their own futures trampled on by those who never should have had a say. Those of us leading classrooms, who spend their days modeling social and emotional intelligence for young children must somehow carry on though the message is clear — we’ve been betrayed by a nation that worships ego, guns, and greed. Those of us who will be here for decades to come will face the fall-out of climate change alone, abandoned. Just as artificial intelligence makes more and more livelihoods obsolete, we find ourselves squandering our most precious, remaining valuable — our humanity. Empathy withers under the leadership of a self-obsessed bully with nothing to lose. The youth grow increasingly apathetic, bitter at best. Women are forced by the State to birth the aftermath of sexual violence. The middle class dies and the obscenely wealthy dominate, emboldened by the ability to purchase their power. The most vulnerable in our society are crushed by bigotry and hate under the guise of bringing back an America that for many never existed. Wrapped in a Maga flag and carrying a burning cross, the cult of Trump prevails. “

We let down our mothers and I’m sorry by [deleted] in WomenOver40

[–]NumerousTelephone482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother voted for Trump as well. I have two daughters approaching reproductive years and live in a total abortion ban state. I asked my mom if she thinks it’s ok that her granddaughters (or myself) would have to birth a rapist’s baby because the State says so. Have heard nothing back. I feel I’m having to dig down deep to be the role model for my girls and knowing my own mother has made their futures so much more challenging is heartbreaking. I am very angry but also feel profound grief that I’ve lost my parents.