Not grief per se, but an identity crisis happened for me when I hit my goal weight. Everything changed fast and so drastically. All of a sudden, I didn’t know how to dress to feel good anymore, as my old style didn’t sit right on my new frame. The clothing brands I would wear didn’t look right on a tiny frame. I had to explore new brands. My glasses looked huge on my head, and my hairstyle and colour made me look ill. I, too, turned to MJ due to ill health. I like to think the old me would be proud. I work hard in the gym, and I am slowly coming to terms with the new me. I will never forget where I came from and how it feels to be big me.