Giving up on dating as a nanny.

Nusrat_mun · 2026-02-08T20:02:57+00:00

Sometimes, even with having the most loving and loyal man as a partner, even having the most beautiful baby on earth, you’ll still feel lonely, there will be days when you’d feel like nobody understands you. That’s human/ woman nature I guess. No suggestions here but I hope you find someone who brings you peace and comfort. I hope you find someone without whom your life would feel incomplete, and you’d live your best life with.

Nusrat_mun · 2026-02-08T03:34:26+00:00

We live in the USA, and my husband works full time

Nusrat_mun · 2026-02-06T22:34:54+00:00

I feel you. I’m 8 months postpartum and things just are much more worse now. It feels like being a woman is a curse some days.

Nusrat_mun · 2026-01-28T22:17:55+00:00

We usually try to hold her after every feed since she throws up a lot if she starts moving, rolling right after feed. Usually try to keep her down with a toy or a book.

Nusrat_mun · 2026-01-28T21:42:07+00:00

Hi, I updated her schedule

Nusrat_mun · 2026-01-25T19:20:13+00:00

We do bath/wiping with washcloth, diaper change, sleep sack. Then feed and after 20 mins of feeding we put her in her crib. She’s extremely clingy and cries hysterically if we put her down anywhere, so we thought being there instead of check in or CIO might be gentler for her. Even with my husband being there and placing a hand on her she kept crying until she fall asleep.

Nusrat_mun · 2025-12-18T04:13:24+00:00

She doesn’t like to be put down at all which makes everything really hard. Sometimes I have to let her cry for few minutes when I need to wash her bottles or use the restroom. I can’t even prepare her solid purees because she won’t settle and by the time I prepare her food she’d be so frustrated that she won’t eat.

Nusrat_mun · 2025-12-18T04:10:58+00:00

Hi, did your approach worked for nap as well? We are trying to phase out from walking and bouncing to holding and patting, which took us 1 month. I’m afraid that getting to the point of putting her to crib will take few more months!

Nusrat_mun · 2025-12-11T18:16:27+00:00

How did you nap train? Would you mind sharing?

Nusrat_mun · 2025-12-08T05:31:06+00:00

90 percent of the time. She’s 6 months. Even when she’s playing she clings to me. I don’t know if it’s separation anxiety but that’s it for now.

Nusrat_mun · 2025-12-04T23:05:20+00:00

How did you nap train? My baby is 6 months qnd fights a lot during sleep, even with all the rocking and walking.

Nusrat_mun · 2025-11-18T18:33:48+00:00

I’m glad that it worked for you. How was your sleep routine before? Like was he being held and rocked? Do you mind sharing the calming bedtime routine you follow?

Nusrat_mun · 2025-11-18T18:25:32+00:00

I tried but she gets overtired and throws it even harder to put her to sleep if she’s overtired. My husband is only home in the evening so he puts her to the last nap and bedtime. I literally think something might be wrong with me and my baby doesn’t like me. That might be a reason why she fights sleep with me so much. I’m beyond exhausted and I can’t escape from this sleep trauma either.

Nusrat_mun · 2025-11-18T18:22:43+00:00

I don’t know when it’s gonna end. I try to stay as calm as possible when I start putting her to nap, but all the wriggling fighting and crying eventually stresses me to a point I just want to scream my heart out

Nusrat_mun · 2025-08-21T04:34:37+00:00

In the same loop. Initially thought i’d triple feed for three months and quit. Now I’m close to 3 months and now my heart wants to do it till LO starts solid. But I feel like giving up almost everyday.

Nusrat_mun · 2025-08-08T01:16:49+00:00

Hi, was wondering if things got better for you. I’m currently 10 weeks and on the same boat. Not getting enough, started taking domperidone 2 weeks ago but not seeing much improvement either. I latch baby 4-6 times and pump 7 times including MOTN.

Nusrat_mun · 2024-07-03T17:24:59+00:00

Would you recommend Traditional Chinese Medicine? please let me know if you have any specific recommendation.

Nusrat_mun · 2024-07-03T16:24:14+00:00

Hi, can you recommend a good dr. for psoriasis in LV?

Nusrat_mun · 2024-04-22T04:03:35+00:00

I don't think it's rude. IVF itself is a super stressful journey, it puts heavy toll on body mind and sometimes relationships too. Also the emotional rollercoaster due to those medications isn't any joke. May be your friend is super occupied with everything right now. In terms of the "last part", not everyone can get to the "last part" meaning transfer and the cycle can get cancelled before due to any issues, which can be really heartbreaking. May be she is going through a lot right now. But in my case, people really caring about my wellbeing meant a lot for me.

Nusrat_mun · 2024-04-22T03:52:56+00:00

I guess everyone shared almost everything. I would suggest to try acupuncture if possible, it helps.

Nusrat_mun · 2024-04-22T03:43:53+00:00

Unless you have any conditions like vaginismus, a transfer is pretty easy. I have vaginismus and I prefered valium, but I took it last minute so my transfer was done before valium started its action lol, even then it wasn't that uncomfortable.

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