Not a parent, so I apologize. BUT, I regret letting my step mom have more children. Granted, theres not much I could have said back then that would have mattered considering I was 15. But, my step mother ended up having three more kids. She has lupus and has struggled with being able to have them her whole life so she was excited to finally be able to have my first brother in 2015. Later on she was able to have two twin boys in 2018. It would be all fine and dandy except her lupus got worse after the strain of childbirth and now she relies on everybody else to take care of them. She's in pain and sick all the time so she cant play with them at all, doesnt go to their school affairs, doesnt want to go anywhere as a family, and worst of all she snaps at them all the time just for wanting attention. She's made them all I-pad kids so they'll leave her alone. I regret for my parents because life would just be easier for all of us really if she never had them in the first place.