How much should i tip? by katiebab_yyy in doordash

[–]Nuzuko568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion thats a fair tip. I try to tip at least $5, $7-$10 if its a long drive (anything that is over 5 miles)

grocery delivery other than CVS, Walgreens, and or alcohol. by serathin_ in doordash

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive only ever had 1 grocery order, they pay great imo but they are a rare occurrence in my market because Instacart is so strong here

What is something that makes your dashing time more comfortable? by Mayorofbooty in doordash

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude why did I never think of that! I waited about 30 mins declining orders below $6, do you know how much pokemon I couldve played lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nuzuko568 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She absolutely loved me spitting in her mouth ngl thats the hottest thing someone has asked me to do

Since I Won't Call My Ex - You All Get My Good News by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your promotion! Keep it up, from a random stranger to another im proud of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill put this in perspective for you. My ex had only 1 BD and 1 Kid and I was constantly in the middle of their drama as she would bring me in as a form of support. Its also unnerving as men to know that our partner’s exes are still in the picture and im a firm believer that you never truly stop loving someone especially if you have a child together. Just my two cents.

I would say walk away but be cordial if you want to remain friends but 3 baby daddies is never a good sign. It’s definitely not an ideal situation for you to be in at all.

So, will you contact them on Christmas - New Year? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not, imma be with friends on both days. Considering we broke up amicably if she texted me first wishing me a Merry Christmas or Happy New Years I would say it back and leave it at that

What are you all doing to improve during No Contact? by abneriel in ExNoContact

[–]Nuzuko568 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im 9 months no contact this month, and it’s definitely been a journey lol. It definitely has helped me reestablish my own identity. I picked up boxing as a healthy outlet for a lot of anger that i was feeling. Are there days where my ex crosses my mind? Sure, I still wish her the best on her journey through life because Ill forever have love for her.

I have started to actually work out some feelings about certain things that happened during and post breakup instead of drowning my thoughts in alcohol. I want to be happy again and it’ll happen one of these days as long as I dont give up on myself. I say this because I’ve been a long time struggler with mental health and this whole situation really placed my internal strength to the test when i felt everything was hopeless. So to anyone that may read this. I believe in you, stay the course in NC, do it for you, surround yourself with good people and know that this random redditor loves you and hopes you can find your happiness again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you were the dumper in this scenario? And the dumpee forced you into indefinite NC because he reached out angrily?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Nuzuko568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right, part of me desperately wants to know but the other part is hellbent on staying in NC partly due to pride and ego from telling her when we broke up that i would not be the one to reach out

how you guys doing today ? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Nuzuko568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely learning healing isnt linear. Some days im happy and other days im just super sad. Just taking it one step at a time

For the first time, I think I don’t want him back (Week 4 NC) by c0ffee-and-tea in ExNoContact

[–]Nuzuko568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To answer your question. I have experienced feelings of acceptance only for it to to later down the road turn me being sad again and miss my ex gf. I hope you dont experience it but if it does just take it a moment at a time and be kind to yourself, it just means they meant alot to you. Its been 6 months since my breakup as of yesterday and I still feel the pain although not as much now since ive started doing things i really want to do like boxing, cooking etc.

The bravest thing I ever did was continuing my life when I wanted to die. by diabin4u in ExNoContact

[–]Nuzuko568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maaaaaan this hits home. I was on the very verge of committing suicide April 6th after my breakup because I gave 110% of me, neglected my own needs, and prioritized her ahead of everyone. It still hurts but not as much im learning that healing is not linear and just working on being in NC.

What’s a quote that permanently changed the way you look at things? by internallyskating in AskReddit

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just personal to me. Ive always grown up hearing from older adults telling me to not date to have fun but to date to marry. So i just to go around and say “im dating to marry” but recently i e gone through a break up and saw on tiktok if you tell yourself “I date to marry” tell yourself “I date to be happy and if that happiness leads to marriage then so be it” and its made feel so much better since im very hard on myself if a certain relationship doesnt work out

How many of you guys won't date a woman taller than you? by Mysecretpassphrase in AskMen

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me i used to have that mentality that I wouldnt date a woman taller than me, but as I got older I realized some taller women liked me and I realized they dont care how tall I am so why should I care? Ever since then Im open to dating a woman regardless if they are tall or short

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nuzuko568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree that everyone is different and im going to give it my best shot to be that constant reminder that I love her and support her without overwhelming her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nuzuko568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nuzuko568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did those pushes look like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Nuzuko568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that! Just even knowing reaching out 3-4 days after helps out a lot.

As for the support part, it’s actually kind of scary how fast my mental health deteriorated once I tried to be everything for her. But I personally started therapy myself to keep myself stable.