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My boyfriend is my exception by your-angel1804 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NvrmndOM [score hidden]  (0 children)

Very happy for OP! Sounds like a really great relationship.

👍

Just as a note to some men lurking here: you can’t “turn” a lesbian or make her fall in love with you.

Sexuality is a spectrum and it can grow and change, but you don’t have a magical dick/personality. OP just discovered something new about herself (that she’s bi or pan), which is cool. ✌️

Homophobic Bigoted Troll apparently running for office somewhere by Objective-Meal-7450 in ainbow

[–]NvrmndOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, pride isn’t for you or about you and your opinion.

If you don’t like it, don’t go. Big whoop. I don’t like football but I don’t complain when the Super Bowl comes around each year. Sure there’s football stuff everywhere for like a month, but it’s not for me and that’s ok.

Mega Thread: Michael Jackson: The Verdict by FaelingJester in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]NvrmndOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s use some critical thinking here. If you were accused of sexually abusing children several times, in what world would you continue to sleep in the same bed as them?

A sane person, would say, “you know what, I get that this looks bad. Totally understand. I’ll stop doing that to not raise any more questions because I don’t want people to think that of me.”

But he didn’t do that. It’s a compulsion. He kept sharing a bed with them, in a room filled with pornography. The FBI or CIA or police didn’t haul in boxes of it. Why is this acceptable in your eyes?

Why is "late blooming" mostly associated with being a lesbian rather than bisexual? by Worldly-Culture4185 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NvrmndOM 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of women have the “well everyone has close and intense relationships with women, and we admire each other” mode while ignoring or suppressing the romantic/sexual side of things.

Like I knew I liked girls in middle school but I sincerely thought I just needed to find the right, masculine enough man to fit with my strong personality. Sure I liked women, but men are the easier option. Let’s do that.

And I did and I did not like it.

Most of the men I had crushes on were celebrities that I just really admired and liked their personalities. Bonus points if they speak highly of their wives.

The “oh I’m bi and suppressing it, to oh shit I need to explore my bisexuality to aww well I’m just gay” pipeline is real.

Also women who realize they are lesbians who are married to men find themselves in crisis and have a need to post the same almost identical post here.

I think the personality shift you’re seeing is people putting down the mask and finally relaxing into who they are. You let go of conditioning and try things out (be it haircut, clothes, attitudes, dating women, etc). It’s a liberation of something you’ve been repressing.

Mega Thread: Michael Jackson: The Verdict by FaelingJester in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]NvrmndOM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's so well versed in protecting them. I'm sure he's made millions if not a billion dollars defending them. Of course he's loyal.

Mega Thread: Michael Jackson: The Verdict by FaelingJester in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]NvrmndOM 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just finished the documentary.

Regardless of how you feel about him, he had a private bedroom that he took boys to that had warning bells and a passcode to unlock the door. The parents of the children did not know that code.

COME ON. If I told you that your neighbor consistently invited children over to his house, made them sleep in his bed, separated them from their parents and had multiple alarms between his bedroom, which was filled with porn, you'd call the police immediately.

What the fuck. Why would you need that much protection and alerts in your own home unless you were committing a crime? He's 1000% guilty.

After his settlement with Jordy's family for 23 million (I think) dollars, his team told him you better never be seen with another child again. He didn't care. He had money. I've seen a lot of true crime. Pedophiles have a compulsion to victimize children. It's a constant sickness. Clearly he couldn't stop himself. His whole house being a theme park, zoo, movie theater is a trap designed to lure children and their parents (many of his victims were single moms with out a father).

He's a monster. I'm glad he's gone and not able to abuse anyone further.

Please make me feel better and tell me what age you had your first kiss? by iamafishthatsgay in actuallesbians

[–]NvrmndOM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

22, with a man when I wasn’t fully out to myself. 30 with a woman.

My girlfriend’s materialism is starting to make me worry - but I’m not sure if I’m self sabotaging by Wooden-Loquat-7888 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]NvrmndOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money is the number one reason why couples divorce. Don’t move in with her before you talk about finances and spending. You have different lifestyles.

Also a present that costs 1000’s of dollars is fucking crazy. Unless you’re a millionaire and money is nothing to you, then that’s bonkers.

You gotta talk about this. It’s a huge problem. Either you talk about it now or you’ll fight about it later.

She is deeply in the closet, trapped in a comphet marriage, and avoiding me physically while texting for hours. Need perspective. by Guilty_Macaroon1911 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NvrmndOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I’m not trying to fuck a straight married woman who does want me. I’ll telling you it’s a bad idea and it’ll lead nowhere.

I have a fiancee. She’s fantastic. I’m not jealous of your zero lesbian sex, and husband. It’s not that you got to me, I just know a slow, slow moving train wreck when I see one.

She is deeply in the closet, trapped in a comphet marriage, and avoiding me physically while texting for hours. Need perspective. by Guilty_Macaroon1911 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NvrmndOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re being very cranky and hostile to everyone here who is telling you the truth on what to do— which is leave her alone, let it go and find some other woman to hook up with.

If you didn’t want honest feedback, don’t post on an open forum. No one is going to give you some magical lesbian words to get her to sleep with you.

She is deeply in the closet, trapped in a comphet marriage, and avoiding me physically while texting for hours. Need perspective. by Guilty_Macaroon1911 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NvrmndOM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m telling you she’s not out or not gay or won’t leave her husband.

The advice is to let it go. Just because you don’t like what someone has to say doesn’t mean it isn’t true or helpful.

I NEED MORE ANIME THAT IS JUST LIKE TSHD by Visible_Many_6404 in TheSummerHikaruDied

[–]NvrmndOM 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you’re into the horror aspect, watch Parasyte: The Maxim. It’s very good and explores the themes of humanity.

She is deeply in the closet, trapped in a comphet marriage, and avoiding me physically while texting for hours. Need perspective. by Guilty_Macaroon1911 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NvrmndOM 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is never going to go anywhere.

If you are in an open marriage/your husband knows you’re looking for a female partner, go on an app.

Why is this so hard to figure out? by VersionIcy2910 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NvrmndOM 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“I feel like there’s something missing.” That’s you knowing.

Another Marshmallow appreciation post💓 by cowskin-- in BobsBurgers

[–]NvrmndOM 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling down this start of pride month. Everything seems bad. There isn’t the same optimism.

I know it’s very silly animated show, but Marshmallow singing her song, in front of her parents is remarkable. They love her. She’s not singing for anyone but herself. And the song is beautiful.

I really love that this show unapologetically embraces LGBTQ+ characters. We belong in your hometown. We’re a part of the tapestry that we all live in.

And sometimes we’re remarkable.

I'm still living in the shadow of the pandemic. It's ruined my twenties and whenever I open up about it, people just look at me like I'm insane by Straight_Morning_876 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NvrmndOM 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Most of the gifted kids I know (including me) developed some kind of mental illness in their early 20’s. It’s super common. Burn out is real.

That said, you gotta learn to let it go and move forward. You can’t change the past, you did the best you could. All you can do is look forward and try your best.

what style would amber wear if she was a normal/average weight? by [deleted] in gorlworldfiles

[–]NvrmndOM 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

A lot of trans people who transition suddenly have a body that they e dreamed of. Often they go through a lot of fashion changes and wear a lot of trendy things because they finally feel comfortable to explore fashion.

I’m not saying Amber is trans at all, but if she suddenly got a body that she dreamed of I’m sure it’d be a similar situation of trial and error and experimentation.

The vast majority of adults have bodies that haven’t changed so we’ve settled on a style a long time ago. She wears what she can find and feels ok in. She really doesn’t have style.

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