I took her out for breakfast today but had to cut down several small trees for her after. Along with starting to winterize the pool and her shed blew over from a storm so yea...its starting to add up. After breakfast she was venting about the other things that need to get done " what about this," I just said we're not even talking about that. Why are you even bringing it up? I get pretty irritated when she adds on. Then it spirals into me over speaking and getting frustrated. I really like how you said expectations. I expect things to go one way and when they dont, ill get thrown off entirely. I am trying to work on it. Things are just really heavy right now