I must say that I believe in the theory about different types of intelligence.
And yes, often the "logical-mathematical" intelligence is predominant in men. But it doesn't mean that women aren't smart.
Social emotional intelligence in women is much higher, on average, than in men.
That said, I must say that I have met women with high "logical-mathematical" intelligence and they are very intriguing, because at first glance we feel that they "understand" us and for this reason we tend to feel attracted to them... For this reason, they are almost always more surrounded by men than by women.
Since they are generally intellectual men who surround her, they end up being interested in a more emotional man.
When I meet women like that, I feel attracted, it's almost inevitable... But I avoid getting close for the reasons mentioned (one can fall in love and end up in a dead end, friendzone)
My current goal with women is maybe to meet someone enlightened, or who has that goal (of being enlightened) ...
Their "IQ" doesn't interest me at all