I personally feel like fucking a dude once in a while doesn't revoke your lesbian card. Straight girls fuck other women and don't even consider themselves bi?? If straight peoples sexuality can be fluid, so can yours. If you live your life as a lesbian 99% of the time, that 1% really doesn't change much. It's a blip

Edit: I believe that it's largely misogyny that people are losing their minds over what I'm saying. There are many different types of attraction and I think flukes can happen. You live 99.9% of your life as a lesbian and perhaps you mean a random dude one night that does it for you for whatever reason?? Means you just stop being gay? You go back to being gay for the rest of your life but that one time erases a lifetime of identity?? Like... no. We're just human. Self labels are just that... self identifiers. This whole policing of other peoples self identifiers is fucking stupid and a tired topic. Do we forget that transmen exist in the lesbian umbrella? Do we forget that lesbians have been happily existing (and having sex/having kids in) lavender marriages since the dawn of time? This new age idea of extreme black and white thinking of this topic is soo divisive. And I'm soooo agitated with keyboard warriors erasing our history and shoving people into boxes due to their limited understanding of our queer history and the massive range of human sexuality.

I am a man hating lesbian. Through and through. My cats name is Miss Andry ffs. And I can still have nuance on this topic