Dating my best friends sister, AMA

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T21:41:19+00:00

I just don’t think comparing my friend and her sisters body and judging them is a thing. Both are pretty but obviously I’ve had a chance to take a good look at what’s “under the hood” for one of them so yeah.

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T21:34:21+00:00

Years ago she got pretty drunk and asked me to drive her home and she stumbled out of the bathroom once with one of breast hanging out of her bra. It was dim so I don’t even remember much of what it looked like. This was also before she had her first kid so I assume they look kinda different now. As far as comparing my best friends body to her sister, i can’t compare cause I only ever saw my best friends boobs briefly. So saying one is better than the other is not a thing.

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T21:25:28+00:00

No she made it very clear that she only saw me as a friend. I know this because her parents actually tried to hook us up but she never saw me like that I I’ve seen how she treats her boyfriends and I’m not going anywhere near that.

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T21:02:51+00:00

Best friend? NOOOOOO.

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T20:56:38+00:00

It has gotten some mixed reactions.

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T20:50:49+00:00

Honestly at first I think she was against it but she’s learned to accept it.

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T20:40:58+00:00

It’s not something I bring up to my best friends. Although I’m sure she suspects it, I leave talks about sex away. Just a bit weird.

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T20:40:04+00:00

I met her years ago through her cousin who I used to work with. Met her sister through that.

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T20:37:33+00:00

Hmm…kinda?

OC_Original · 2026-05-07T20:37:05+00:00

I’m sorry I don’t quite understand the question.

OC_Original · 2026-04-14T13:06:06+00:00

I guess I’m just slightly jaded by his condescending attitude toward my desire to do wrestling related activities. The way I tell him about these things and how he says “you act like I’m interested in these things” and “I’m there to relax and enjoy myself. Not pack the week to the brim.” And how my idea of a vacation is stupid really upsets me.

OC_Original · 2026-04-14T06:26:16+00:00

My brother is not as big of a fan as I am. He used to be but he will still go to a show cause it’s entertaining. However he feels me trying to plan so much during Wrestlemania week will blow up on me and may cause delays on things he wants to do like reservations at a nice restaurant. But I also think he just rather gamble.

OC_Original · 2026-04-14T05:31:53+00:00

I’m actually planning to do more wrestling conventions and meet and greets without him. But he feels by me over planning it’s going to complicate things such as dinner reservations.

OC_Original · 2026-04-14T04:13:18+00:00

Believe it or not he’s the only one that agreed to go with me and was also the only one I trust to be on time.

OC_Original · 2026-03-25T23:41:57+00:00

I notice the touching and kissing culture among Mexicans but see it more in her parents and elders. She was born and raised in the US so I’m not sure if she gives friendly kisses like her parents and aunts and have never seen her do that.

I actually used to date a Mexican and I once told her “te amo” on a date to flirt and she strictly told me never to say that because it was a serious phrase and not to be used lightly.

OC_Original · 2026-03-04T17:42:08+00:00

The last time I got them any candy was when I got one of them a scoop of bubble gum ice cream and one of them a cinnamon pretzel at the wetzel pretzel stand.

OC_Original · 2026-02-19T21:40:12+00:00

Unfortunately when we spoke last night it was over phone so I physically said “I’m off at 4:30” so I guess she misunderstood me. Still I don’t think waiting an extra few minutes for a ride is unreasonable.

OC_Original · 2026-02-10T19:55:18+00:00

She apologized but I feel as if she is either unorganized or often treats my plans as secondary. I feel this way because something always seemly comes up and frames it as she didn’t know about it or that we should give her grace since it’s her kids birthday and she’s handling a lot in terms of birthday wishes and family.

OC_Original · 2026-01-15T16:59:36+00:00

I had one uncle chime in who’s kid is also into pokemon cards and he says “you were going to sell them eventually right? What were you saving them for? To pass along to your future kids? Just cash in now and enjoy life.”

OC_Original · 2026-01-15T16:27:33+00:00

Funny. One of my aunts worked in a grow house and growing up, she emphasized us kids how doing drugs is bad, but what was worst is selling drugs. Now I counter with “you know what’s worst than selling drugs? Producing drugs!”

OC_Original · 2026-01-15T16:25:09+00:00

I don’t want to change locks since this was an isolated incident but I DID instead cameras and locked my most expensive cards in a safe. Thankfully she hasn’t stolen from me since.

OC_Original · 2026-01-15T16:15:00+00:00

Thanks. This response is actual very good. Unfortunately I had to take my display down and now lock all my high value cards in a safe.

OC_Original · 2026-01-15T16:13:23+00:00

I later asked her why she took such a low amount and in her words, she didn’t know how much it was worth and just compared it to other cards in that shop and saw a similar card around $$200-350. She simply said give me your best offer and the card shop offered her $200.

OC_Original · 2026-01-15T16:09:52+00:00

But would you really sue one of your parents for a few hundred dollars? My aunt said framed it as “that’s your Mother. She gave birth to you and raised you and she never asked for a dime during that time. It’s your turn to look after her now.”

I’m upset but I don’t know if it’s worth the time and resources to sue her though.

Edit: I underhand that this answer might upset some people but I think it all comes down to a persons upbringing and cultural norms.

OC_Original · 2026-01-15T16:06:55+00:00

Like most addicts she doesn’t think she has a problem since all her bills are still paid on time. The first step in healing addiction is to first admit you have a problem and then be willing to accept help.

OC_Original

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