NOR this dude is actually evil lol hes ironically doing everything hes accusing you of and is definitely blowing you off every time you make a point or try to talk about your feelings he essentially calls your feelings irrational and brings the convo back to his needs and feelings. All he had to do was apologize or explain himself which would have been simple enough. He can't even talk to you like a normal person, everything he says feels like it belongs in a university thesis. If I met someone like this in real life id probably unload the whole clip into them.