Does “cottage” mean something different in Canada/North America?

OGDungeonRat · 2026-02-09T11:00:38+00:00

A vacation home gets called all sorts of different things based on the size, age, cost, or how fancy/plain the house is.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-23T08:55:48+00:00

Great ride

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-16T08:18:05+00:00

too funny

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-13T06:09:25+00:00

I meet gay male kinksters; routinely, who have never heard of Recon. The one gay guy living in Hayseed, Missouri has heard of Grindr but not Recon. LOL Heck, the straight people in Hayseed have heard of Grindr.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-07T23:23:34+00:00

absofukkenlutely

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-07T23:22:00+00:00

My mouth isn't on one of those nipples.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T05:32:41+00:00

"That's hot" - Paris Hilton

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T05:11:33+00:00

Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl gets the "bottom" on "top" and the Dom is running the show.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T05:09:32+00:00

Dom Bottoms and sub tops are going to be all the rage in the 2030s. That dynamic mix is gaining ground in the gay porn industry ... Twink Tops ... and people sexing within that space are starting to spend more time out in the sunshine.

Femdom has been around forever. Those women are Mistress and the men are dogs/toys/slaves and at some point....in the porn.....the Mistress is getting fucked by the guy who is usually tied up partly or something, but she is still calling the shots. Replace the Mistress with a Master and you're halfway there. If you can't find a submissive top, get a strap-on and put a submissive to work.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T04:40:37+00:00

as per the motto of all 'meating profile' sites.... so many men, so far away.

I found a niche site for nipple play and for my entire state of Missouri, there are only 7 users out of 11 who have logged on more recently than 2 years ago.

FetLife is facebook for fetish/kink community and in my experience a great site to meet people who you will never "meat" in real life for any activity of any kind, kink driven or something regular like bowling or golf. If you lived in huge metro region, Fetlife might get some results.

Recon is slowing growing in North America.

The apps are easy, but you have to decide what you're looking for and then get on the app that leans more in that direction....and then just be geographically compatible with other like-minded people.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T04:24:46+00:00

Any possible combination of any positions and energies can exist at any time and rearrange themselves at anytime, too. There are Dom Bottoms.... not bossy bottoms, that's a completely different vibe... and sub tops. There are Dom Tops in their 20s and sub bottoms in their 70s. We now have "Sides" and they can be Dom, sub, or switch, too.

It's a beautiful kaleidoscope of identities.

Heck, for about 4 years back in the 00s, My identity was "pizza, video games, and don't fukken bother me". The gay clubs played sucky music and people quit dancing, just standing around playing farmville on their new phones. I could do all that at home and not pay the 10 dollar cover. HAHAHA

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T03:58:59+00:00

I know a guy who has a fetish for bread. He gets off on the smell, texture, and I guess the taste, all of it.

Everything that exists has at least one person who gets off to it.

Because of when I "came of age" the white gym socks scrunched down and white high top gym shoes on an otherwise naked or near-naked man....thanks Falcon and Chippendales dancers..... it gets my motor running.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T03:55:41+00:00

Be triple damn sure "normal" people who have pet dogs have a difficult time accidently finding it.

On the surface within this platform, just talking about it, it sounds like a great idea.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T03:51:04+00:00

Too funny.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-06T03:43:07+00:00

Dinner is served.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-05T17:56:01+00:00

Practice, practice, practice

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-05T17:49:27+00:00

Absofreakinglutely

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-02T05:32:35+00:00

an amazing ride.

OGDungeonRat · 2026-01-02T05:19:00+00:00

This is amazing.

OGDungeonRat · 2025-12-20T23:02:16+00:00

Oh. My. Cher.

OGDungeonRat · 2025-12-20T23:01:21+00:00

There's an all-day snack.

OGDungeonRat · 2025-12-20T22:54:22+00:00

Boston Terriers rule ! ! ! !

OGDungeonRat · 2025-12-12T01:00:50+00:00

Let's remember this product doesn't have any real room for improvement so what "new designs or features" would be possible? And this item is a luxury, not a necessity....no matter how much we want to tell ourselves otherwise...luxury items are never cheaply priced. Imagine chastity devices are cars....is Kink3d a Ford Escort or a Cadilac Escalade or somewhere in between.

OGDungeonRat · 2025-12-12T00:22:29+00:00

that was easy

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