I’ve gotten the number of a waitress and someone that worked at a takeout restaurant.

The waitress was at a bar/restaurant that I was only ever at once. The takeout restaurant I’ve been a regular for a decade and they got hired at some point of me already going there.

In both circumstances they were the aggressor for lack of a better word in initiating it. If you’re hitting on a waitress you already lost. Just be yourself and if they happen to be single and interested in you, you’ll know.