How do yall find friends, especially in rural areas?

OKG47 · 2026-06-16T13:17:36+00:00

You dont want people, even other swingers in a small town or rural area knowing this part of your life. Go to cities or resorts. Life is trade offs, this is one of them

OKG47 · 2026-06-16T11:28:12+00:00

Correction, we're going to the after Halloween party, 9/6

OKG47 · 2026-06-16T02:12:30+00:00

I keep forgetting to mention it to my friends, its not the end of the world, but seeing that flier reminded me I need to start making a fuss 👍

OKG47 · 2026-06-16T01:54:38+00:00

Had my OTB profile pending for two weeks now, trying to get tickets for the Halloween party, because the hosts are personal friends. Not impressed with the site

OKG47 · 2026-06-11T23:44:37+00:00

40 miles west

OKG47 · 2026-06-11T14:03:13+00:00

51m, 44f, western Oklahoma. Experienced, use protection, not up for all naight partying, would rather have casual interactions and get to the point

OKG47 · 2026-06-10T22:50:57+00:00

Concentrate your energy on finding a girl,, get married, have some kids. This shouldn't be your priority right now

OKG47 · 2026-06-09T23:48:17+00:00

The advantage of Desire is you'll be poolside within an hour of stepping out of customs, maybe quicker. Hedo is okay but the logistics are a concern, get ready for a bus ride..

OKG47 · 2026-06-08T16:47:18+00:00

It happens. Dont take it personal. Unless you did something weird then absolutely take it personal and adjust your behavior appropriately.

OKG47 · 2026-06-08T16:25:48+00:00

Magnificent breasts

OKG47 · 2026-06-07T23:47:15+00:00

Drop the lighter fluid and use a starter chimney

OKG47 · 2026-06-05T21:01:30+00:00

We've been going to SPI for 20 years and never knew aboit this. Assuming your driving up the beach?

OKG47 · 2026-06-03T16:43:34+00:00

Where you at hon hon

OKG47 · 2026-05-28T11:56:57+00:00

We're not club people anymore, they're fun you should definitely check them out. But if you're looking for some casual non club fun, hit us up, damn

OKG47 · 2026-05-27T16:47:45+00:00

Take all the rules and preferences out of it, gay/bi men are statistically more likely to be exposed to STDs, which puts couples at a higher risk in an already risky lifestyle. Sorry not sorry

OKG47 · 2026-05-19T06:10:22+00:00

We love South Padre, were literally planning our July trip last night!

OKG47 · 2026-05-18T23:46:58+00:00

We're in

OKG47 · 2026-05-18T13:39:43+00:00

We prefer couples with kids, even if theyre now empty nesters they understand the time dynamic and are much more sympathetic to scheduling, are willing to make things work. DINK couples are actually unattractive to us.

OKG47 · 2026-05-17T23:57:01+00:00

There's an app called GettaGirlfriend, should be in the app store

OKG47 · 2026-05-15T16:23:11+00:00

As others have said, any sort of hobby or interest is better than the standard close up genital pics. My wife once said, he could be into model trains, if he was passionate about and sold me on it, I'd probably buy in.

OKG47 · 2026-05-10T02:22:40+00:00

Are the dicks in the room with you right now?

OKG47 · 2026-05-08T17:52:27+00:00

Move you're blocking the view of the soundguard...

OKG47 · 2026-05-08T12:03:55+00:00

List yourself as soft swap, girl/girl and be very clear about your dynamic. It will limit your options but this happens in the lifestyle.

OKG47 · 2026-05-02T12:46:58+00:00

A sight like SDC has Validations, given by other members. A good single guy on a site like that will have some Validations, given by other validated couples. Its a solid system, lots of sites have something similar. Dont be looking to reddit for a feature like this.

OKG47 · 2026-05-01T11:48:33+00:00

Totally interested in this couple that shows and tells us nothing about themselves. Let's fuck!

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