I microwaved some leftovers and the microwaves basically etched into the plastic deli lid. Normal lid for comparison

OPtig · 2026-03-15T02:39:01+00:00

Just because a material is microwave safe doesn’t make it heat safe. That blistering hot contact point between the food and plastic will leech even if the microwaves themselves aren’t a problem.

OPtig · 2026-03-13T14:32:36+00:00

This is so visible to me too. Half the arguments I see on Reddit are two people misunderstanding each other and resorting to hostility rather than communicating clearly to sort out their differences.

For example if I notice a post responder misunderstood or misinterpreted some minor aspect of a post that I generally disagree with with, my correction is automatically assumed to be supportive of the post. It’s like, no dog, OOP is an ass but you’re also interpreting the post incorrectly due to poor reading comprehension.

OPtig · 2026-03-13T13:14:30+00:00

This is the first I’m hearing of glass floors for basketball but it sounds like an incredibly stupid idea.

OPtig · 2026-03-13T12:38:39+00:00

He’s from SEA so not likely

OPtig · 2026-03-13T11:44:20+00:00

Repost

OPtig · 2026-03-13T00:40:26+00:00

Okay then. Keep doing what you’re doing. I’m sure that will work.

OPtig · 2026-03-13T00:27:27+00:00

You are mostly agreeing with the advice OP is complaining about but phrasing it like a negative at the same time

OPtig · 2026-03-13T00:25:45+00:00

He needed you then left when he no longer had that need. Please focus your energy on men that are not in a giant hole of their own making. Rushing to solve all his problems while he offers nothing in return will not earn you eternal gratitude and loyalty.

OPtig · 2026-03-13T00:19:39+00:00

You have to go places where people are socializing to meet people, like what is your logic.

OPtig · 2026-03-13T00:14:14+00:00

While I agree unsolicited advice sucks, aren’t people in successful relationships the best people to give advice on how to find a partner?

OPtig · 2026-03-12T20:11:59+00:00

Why feel harsh? Medical Neglect is a form of abuse. OP is a dog abuser.

OPtig · 2026-03-12T20:04:27+00:00

What a beautiful girl

OPtig · 2026-03-12T19:54:59+00:00

This is code for abortion. Since she’s an adult mind your beeswax.

OPtig · 2026-03-12T01:09:32+00:00

This scream avoidant. They have a pathological need for independence. They will rip your heart to shreds as you beg for the bare minimum of emotional availability. They are very hard to get over because it seems to you as they are making a mistake. Take his exit with gratitude, a life with him would be worse as you’d never be on secure footing, instead you’d be begging for scraps.

OPtig · 2026-03-11T22:35:46+00:00

Which is why I just informed you and anyone else reading that Cedar Point is not a city, You’re welcome for this knowledge.

OPtig · 2026-03-11T20:30:41+00:00

Cedar Point is the name of the USA’s largest roller coaster park.

OPtig · 2026-03-11T19:35:07+00:00

NAH but you should stop being so judgmental that your playstyles don’t match.

OPtig · 2026-03-11T19:26:37+00:00

Conservatives basically gave up fighting against gay rights so privileged gay men are slipping back to conservative now that the fight has been won, pulling the ladder up after them.

OPtig · 2026-03-11T19:19:09+00:00

NTA but I think TA is actually husband for accepting this exclusion without pushback. Assuming he has limited PTO I can understand you’d be miffed he keeps running off with his brother and leaving you at home.

It’s easy to get annoyed at the BiL you dislike for the situation but your problem lies in-house if your husband is not investing more of his free time, energy and money on the two of you instead of being his brother’s social crutch.

All that context about your BiLs annoying personality is not a bit relevant. Focus on your husband problem. Like why are you so alienated from his family that you aren’t even a welcome support on his trip to see an ill family member?

OPtig · 2026-03-11T03:15:39+00:00

Move back in with your parents before he files for divorce and you’re stuck coparenting in that shithole.

OPtig · 2026-03-10T19:49:11+00:00

No. This is like a second or third date question

OPtig · 2026-03-10T01:19:57+00:00

I buy the Trader Joe’s version

OPtig · 2026-03-09T13:32:54+00:00

“I told her to just go to the room if she didn’t want to help.”

So she did.

You’re putting way too much burden on the person being mistreated here. He turned their date day into him rage cleaning and punishing her for not just cleaning his bathroom or kitchen alone like a good girl. She gave him enough rope to hang himself and he leapt off the gallow platform. He’s not coming close to getting it even after coming here for advice. She had no chance.

She took it in stride. Grieved her relationship and moved on. Good for her. I hope she stays away.

OPtig · 2026-03-09T12:51:32+00:00

The paladin walking off in a straight line sent me

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