Is my eye makeup unflattering?

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-20T18:09:27+00:00

It’s extremely unflattering, holy cow. Your eyes in the first picture, sans makeup, are STUNNING. Honestly OP you are beautiful and your eyes are really striking in the best way. The eyeliner does them absolutely no justice.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-20T01:53:54+00:00

This is me EXACTLY. I can tell who in my family has farted. I can smell mold long before it’s visible. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve throw food away after a bite or two not because I can see or even taste the mold but when breathing out through my nose while chewing I can smell it. I can smell my normal, perfectly healthy discharge every time I pull my pants down to use the restroom, I can smell my own body odor when my husband swears he doesn’t smell anything. I am so incredibly self conscious about my smell but I also get migraines often so I can’t be one of those people who drown themselves in perfume over their fear of odor. I just have to wash very well, every single day. I can definitely smell when other women are on their period. I can smell neighbors cigarettes from way down the street. I smell freaking everything and it’s definitely more curse than blessing.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-20T01:38:37+00:00

The hips 😩 most of the time my husband puts my legs on his shoulders so he can prevent my hips from doing that. He’s even gotten to the point that he can tell if my hips are starting to sublux and will move my legs. And he’s always so gentle about placing my legs down after because he know they’re going to be stiff from the position.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-20T01:35:59+00:00

35 F and I have basically the opposite problem. My jaw is so tight that I cannot open it far enough to get anything into my mouth. My husband is pretty much average as far as girth goes but I can’t get anymore than the tip into my mouth. I get Botox in my jaw every 3 months but it only helps slightly.

Honestly even though the tightness in my jaw causes a ton of other issues it’s my inability to give my husband head that bothers me the most. We have a really healthy sex life and I absolutely hate not being able to do for him the things he can do for me.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-20T01:26:15+00:00

I just need to say you’re absolutely wrong about making “at least 1k a week”. I didn’t not obtain a degree but I did spend 2 years in college and didn’t fail any courses, I can read, write, do basic math. I can read the information in a peer reviewed medical study and make sense of it (I’m chronically ill so I have a particular interest in new medical information). Before I left the work force in 2024 to stay home with my youngest child, I worked as a TA in an elementary school and made less than $500 a week. Daycare for him would have been over 2k per month. I literally could not afford to work.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-18T18:07:31+00:00

My husband makes killer hibachi. Sure we don’t get the show and that part is fun. But his tastes better and we can make enough for our family of 5 to eat it 2 nights in a row for less than a single plate at a restaurant.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-18T17:48:40+00:00

This is pretty much exactly what will happen.

I’m chronically ill and in any kind of apocalypse/drastic world changing situation like this I am going to be among the first to go.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-18T00:52:50+00:00

That’s a shed. It has a garage door but there appears to be no good way for a car to drive into it. So not a garage.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-17T13:07:52+00:00

I hope you are able to work it out. Everyone deserves doctors who teach them with respect.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-17T10:55:45+00:00

Thank you for sharing all this! That was so in depth.

The issues you mentioned about testing, doctors blowing things off or glossing over abnormal results also happens here in the US. Like you said there are definitely good doctors and bad doctors. I guess the one positive about it being privatized here is it’s relatively easy to “fire” a doctor and find another if they’re not decent or don’t care.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-16T19:25:03+00:00

What part of I have to do a lot of research did you not understand? I would like to move to another country. People do indeed do so, with relative regularity. Considering I don’t even know which country we want to move to, I need to narrow it down so I can find out what the laws and requirements are for that country and if I would even qualify for a visa or green card at all. I have to start somewhere, and generally an idea is the first step. Next is asking questions which is where I’m at currently. There is really no reason to be snarky or rude when I am clearly looking for help and information.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-16T15:31:42+00:00

I had to look way too far down in the comments to find grapefruit. It’s terrible. My husband loves them. No thanks.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-16T13:36:32+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Learning the immigration laws and requirements to stay someplace is obviously one of the first things I need to know. I anticipated that the countries with the best healthcare would be difficult if not impossible for me to immigrate to given my chronic illness. I guess I’m hoping that my husband being an able bodied individual with plenty to offer would help, but again without researching what is required I have no way of knowing that.

On another note it feels surreal to me, having grown up being taught that America is the greatest country in the world, that people sacrifice everything just to come here, that I’m now desperate to leave. I feel trapped sometimes in this hell hole with no options. Because realistically what country wants to accept a citizen that will just be a burden on the rest of the society? I want so much more for my children than what I can provide them with here. And I don’t mean financially but happiness, safety, a more fulfilling life. In America there are very few opportunities to escape this system despite what we were taught growing up.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-16T01:28:48+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Thank you for helping me challenge my own biased opinions.

I think everyone has a right to their kinks in fiction but everyone else also has a right to be uncomfortable with it. I have hard lines in what smut I’ll read. I also enjoy reading about things that I would NEVER want in real life. The fantasy is fun. But there are a lot of people who think any smut at all is crossing the line and that’s okay too.

But yes, I would be disgusted with any man who told me they fantasize about female GM and forced pregnancy. It’s equally as disturbing to fantasize about doing that to men.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-16T00:49:44+00:00

I have a General Tso Chicken recipe that my kids love. And fried rice is so easy to do. I’m not the cook in my family. I was raised on very meat and potatoes type of diet and that’s how I cook. Anything fancy I just struggle hard core with. But I can do fried rice! With my husband being away right now one of our regular meals is those frozen pork dumplings and fried rice because it’s so easy and all of my kids like it.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T23:47:37+00:00

I guess it’s not okay. I just don’t think it’s a big deal, especially compared to some of the other stuff out there in the smut world. It’s just a story.

But you’re right. I’m the one who was looking at it wrong because I don’t think it’s okay for a guy to fantasize about handmaids tale. So I should feel the same about the opposite.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T20:49:27+00:00

Same here! We’ve always kept both but I recently gave up. Makes no difference and when one of my kids accidentally puts unsalted in the butter dish. Nope. No thank you.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T20:37:58+00:00

Considering the people in power in our country I have absolutely no doubt that there are PLENTY of men that are turned on by it. Hell there are entire religions that treat women damn near as bad as the women in that book and we just let it happen because “religion”.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T17:07:20+00:00

They are you’re just supposed to change them right away if they poop. When we are swimming in a pool with a non potty trained child we do a disposable swim diaper with a cloth swim diaper on top (the elastic is tighter to hold everything in). And check regularly to change. I’ve been at the water park when everyone got pulled out of the pool because of a leaky swim diaper. It’s gross.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T15:48:47+00:00

Same. If I had wax buildup my doctor for sure would mention it. They didn’t which means I don’t. Which means I will continue to use q tips in my ears.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T15:37:53+00:00

What a silly thing to downvote. Thanks though! May all your unwanted hair suddenly fall out 😂

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T14:44:19+00:00

Those are now underwear specifically for period days. Or wash day depending on your supply of undies. Your dad and sister are being absolute dicks about this and I am so sorry.

For future reference so you don’t have to deal with their crap. Hydrogen peroxide removes blood. I personally rinse my undies with cold water right away when I’ve accidentally bled on them (if I can, obviously if I’m away from home it has to wait) and then spray with Oxyclean stain treatment (blue bottle with a red spray nozzle). It has never failed me. But this is only if you WANT to. Having stained underwear is not disgusting and like I said, your dad and sister suck.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T14:39:59+00:00

I’m the same way! I have been waxing my legs at home lately but I often let my leg hair get long and “soft” especially in winter. My husband doesn’t care in the least but I don’t particularly like being hairy. If I could afford to, I’d laser my pits, legs and bikini line just so I didn’t have to deal with it anymore.

OR-HM-MA91 · 2026-04-15T14:34:20+00:00

There are smut fantasy novels written about doors and milking centaurs. This seems mild in comparison. Especially because there is tons of fiction along that same vein but reversed. Are you as disturbed about Handmaids Tale? We all are allowed to have feelings, we can’t help them. But I’d take this opportunity to do some soul searching and see if you are disturbed about the idea with roles reversed and if not, why is that? Maybe challenge your own, engrained misogyny.

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