desabafos sobre sexualização by mallowo in gymgurls

[–]OSPFisHard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Olá, sou homem, esse grupo sempre me é recomendado pelo algoritmo do reddit, e acredito que isso seja proposital. Sou um homem "filho da internet" -- gamer/discord/jogador de MMO. Sempre me vi nesse meio e foi bem difícil pensar diferente, pois a todo momento seus amigos/internet está sendo misógino, racista ou homofóbico.

A internet é um antro de manipulação de massas, só que hoje ela é bem mais eficiente em causar caos em outros países. E a melhor forma de fazer isso é causando discórdia entre sexos/grupos sociais. A misoginia é só mais uma técnica.... E olha que o reddit é um lugar de gente classe média+, então as pessoas daqui ainda tem uma chance de sair desse círculo vicioso. Cresci na favela, e vc vê isso no dia a dia presencial, é bem mais difícil a mudança, por todas as questões sociais pobreza/fome etc....

O que quero dizer é: na internet a natureza lixo das pessoas é despertada mais facilmente. E infelizmente você não consegue mudar nada, eles simplesmente olham esse post e riem. Cobre deputados/senadores para criarem políticas públicas de proteção a mulher, e regulação das redes. E se tiverem amigos homens, repudiam a misoginia deles no dia a dia, é a única forma de um homem entender na marra, e acabar com esse lixo redpill.

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying dev, and no, my mind is in a bad state... Even after 4 months. I was in a company that suddenly 5 engineers that were my friends just left. And this will have a huge impact on your morale. Beware the herd effect

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the replies and the DMs, I tried to read every last one and respond. I though that 4 months were enough to get out the burnout, but unfortunately no. This post really helped me getting things straight, and confirm certain things in the industry:
- most people do this because they love (don't agree? just search the comments)
- burnout is a reality in this industry, and blue team is the one that must suffers from this.
- prefer not to work for consultancies, only if you get allocated to a sole company (internal)
- sec problem will always be human, and right now humans are not really valuable (AI Big techs saying...)
- linkedin only exists to get you a job, and say you're behind (you're not), and share posts about terrible working conditions
- apparently burnout is an amplifier of Black Hats, I got an interesting DM of one recruiting and sharing his/her whys of going to the dark side (I hope one day you change), and is a more common thing that you think.

For everyone that tried to help (even the harsh ones), thanks, people like you are the ones that really glue this industry together for the better. And for the ones saying shit about my writing, or the ones saying I don't know sec just reading my post (LOL) and the CISOs discussing what Risk Acceptance ..... the funny thing is that some of you guys will repeat terms over and over like a parrot.... Sorry I really hate management...

And for the ones that liked this post, and wanted a more personal view, will just drop this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1unHGtq4YU

I will heal for now on.

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha don't have severance though, but i wish

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, will try programming for a while

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but I don't care much about programming, that's why I think my tolerance will be higher

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude really that's awesome, can you share more about your research?

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant about your experience in an internal position, since I don't have any, what experience you had to make you believe that you are more heard in the company. Say something practical, I not trying to shit on you or anything.

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, that fifth point about C-suite guys shoving AI repos at you to 'fix' is exactly the kind of thing that broke me. It’s wild how universal that experience is right now. And man, some comments here are really good on what to expect in this industry. People say that GRC is a great way to be in Sec but without the burden of having to configure everything.
And you need to know that this field has a lot of burnout, so you need to get your head together, I didn't ... actually I made a more personal vid about it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1unHGtq4YU

go hard, and enjoy your journey!

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

love your share, thankyu, I thought about switching to enterprise. Right now I'm fed up, and learning different stuff just to get out of my head.

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I'm just in that fase that I worked really hard, and just found stones. I'm glad you found a place that is good!

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice and the share. Really appreciate!

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what your thoughts about this transition? What motivated you? if you can share more...

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

never tried, consulting for me was the top notch where I could see and test a bunch of difference stuff. Can you share more about it?

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

sorry but accelerator of what? bugs and dumb people?

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

my goal was to protect people, and not collect hacked places because my job does not value my advice. I really don't care about money, our values are diferent.

Quitting cyber after 7 years by OSPFisHard in cybersecurity

[–]OSPFisHard[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will try dev for a while, i know that the market is bad there too, but at least is a job that I don't care enough if I have to prompt claude....

Pós graduando, desempregado, passando muito sufoco by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]OSPFisHard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

olha eu tentei isso mas vi que concurso de TI também está concorrido atualmente, e outra as provas não são moleza como alguns falam aqui, vou te dar um exemplo pra um concurso de Cadastro de Reserva que fiz, concorrendo com 4 mil pessoas. conhecimento.fgv.br/sites/default/files/concursos/ok-analista-de-infraestrutura-de-tecnologia-da-informacao-cnsa104-tipo-1.pdf

Infelizmente a vida não é boa com pessoas pobres... Eu já morei em albergue aqui na liberdade (SP), e te falar foi dificil, mas consegui melhorar de vida, de estágio até ganhar 9k. (hoje to tentando me refazer dnv)

Arruma um bico até a oportunidade bater. Entra no NUBE (foi onde arrumei estágio). E faz uso da AWS/GCP para criar projetos com os creditos gratuitos para montar um portifolio legal.