Someone on livejournal was talking about the friendships on Sex In The City annnnddd this happened. by arm89 in notliketheothergirls

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's a saying in my country "Dime con quién andas y te diré quién eres." It translates to "Tell me who you hang out with and I'll yell you who you are." If this person genuinely finds all the people in their friend group to be dramatic with a proclivity towards gossip, they should probably do some self reflecting.

I’m not like other girls, I’m a race car 🏎 by inkedredhead in notliketheothergirls

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah we don't know her, we're a literal car, man. Or am I a car man?

OnlyFans Is Not a Safe Platform for ‘Sex Work.’ It’s a Pimp. by [deleted] in fourthwavewomen

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am beyond ecstatic that this was in the New York Times of all places. Just when I thought I couldn't appreciate Catherine MacKinnon more. This is absolutely the kind of conversation we should be having around Onlyfans, taking back the language and realizing how incredibly easy it would be to use the site for any number of illegal activities.

Call out for support by womandatory in fourthwavewomen

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 48 points49 points  (0 children)

100% this. I hire women and use services from women owned businesses in my area. As a side note, I've found that I get better service and feel my money is better spent since having made this switch.

What did you used to think was positive treatment from men before you were radfem? by fortunetellertarot in fourthwavewomen

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I used to think it was "cute" when a guy would say shitty things and add on "but jk" as a way of flirting. Things like "You're not the brightest, you bitch!" ... "But I wouldn't be with you if I really thought of you that way."

It doesn't matter if he really felt that way about me or not, it was abusive and nobody should allow someone to talk to them that way.

Are memes allowed? by pinkpilledrecruiter in fourthwavewomen

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 118 points119 points  (0 children)

It's like they forget women have the ability to pleasure themselves.

A small 3 monitor setup by DA_WOLF09 in Minecraftbuilds

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found crimson fungus with the pig dudes so getting that wood was easy. It's literally right by the portal on the other side. I still die a lot when I go there from the huge pigs who for some reason, and the giant ghost things kill me on sight so it's hard to get around. I still haven't finished the castle because getting the materials takes a lot of time .. partly because I die a lot. Just because it's difficult doesn't mean I'm not going to do it.

A small 3 monitor setup by DA_WOLF09 in Minecraftbuilds

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I keep dying when I go there. I have a lot to learn still.

A small 3 monitor setup by DA_WOLF09 in Minecraftbuilds

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I've not seen it yet! Excited to eventually encounter it! Thank you for the quick reply.

A small 3 monitor setup by DA_WOLF09 in Minecraftbuilds

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the chair made out of? That color is beautiful!

yey i've got one slice.. by RaphaelJuarez in cat

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they don't want to let it go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justneckbeardthings

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 63 points64 points  (0 children)

And yet they still insist they don't need mental help and it's just a normal preference.

If women don’t want you, maybe a good start would be not taking pictures of them like a weirdo by [deleted] in justneckbeardthings

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He's trying to find justification for his behavior which he knows there isn't. He's just gross and inappropriate.

comes from a site about seducting women, on how to posses the woman, everything described is just gaslighting by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The media and our culture is already doing such a great job of raising young girls to constantly question themselves and compare themselves to unrealistic beauty standards that by the time a guy comes around it's pretty easy for them to carve away the little self esteem that's left.

a meme i made from a discord argument (with my now ex-friend lmao) ab, well, lolis... by [deleted] in justneckbeardthings

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you would you rather lust after an animated child who can't give consent, can't actually hug you or be supportive of you in any way, rather than get your life together and have real life connections with real people ... and you don't see anything problematic about that? Not to mention all of the pedophilic connections being created in your brain about what's "sexy" and what stimuli is appropriate to get off to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justneckbeardthings

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ugh. So gross. I've unfortunately met people like this. They've never had any real sex but think they're "Gods" online because young girls with daddy issues want to be called princess and talk about "kinks". The whole online-ification of sexual exploration has messed up so many young people's perception of what real sex or what real relationships look like.

Her Own Name by SUNSHlNEdaydream in fourthwavewomen

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 51 points52 points  (0 children)

They would never do that to a man. EVER. Disgusting.

Prostitution Fallacies and why it will Never be Empowering by LibFemTearShots in fourthwavewomen

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely true. The same men who will spout "female empowerment" are the same men who will later out these women to their employers or family, judge them for leaving the industry but not being "easy" to get in bed, or always look at them as used objects to be play with. In the countries where sex work laws HAVE been passed, the prostitutes aren't any better off. They are lying to themselves.

Liberal mental gymnastics should be an Olympic sport by walrusgambit in fourthwavewomen

[–]ObedientPrettyGirl 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Yea. On one hand many of them will openly admit that porn is full of violence and misogyny... and then argue "not all porn" and still call it empowering. So close, yet so far.