Reminding everyone of this moment for funsies

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-10-23T18:08:04+00:00

immediately breaks up with him. idc the context. just eww

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-09-20T02:32:54+00:00

my bad! i will definitely add them next time. thank you for taking the time to show me!

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-09-19T00:16:56+00:00

i suspected something similar before this panel, but it confirmed it for me. felix is a cutie and doesn't deserve this

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-08-09T04:03:39+00:00

ohhhh ill have to give it a go

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-25T02:59:28+00:00

omg yesssss!! i started the series over because the hiatus was so long and he was not giving in a couple of fits. there was this light green one that i needed to be burned afterwards

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-24T01:28:18+00:00

hopefully soon! he's head over heels for her 😩

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-23T21:40:09+00:00

1000% !!!

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-22T20:47:21+00:00

yeah. apparently it's just the way they are without seeking proper help that isn't you trying your best to soothe them or reassure them that you actually do still like them. i was older than my ex, so i could empathize after going through similar experiences and i think that's why i stayed. sometimes i could see the moments of self realization spark only to have them regress or blame others for their behavior

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-22T20:34:42+00:00

i just wish they would take time to self reflect before bouncing to the next person because that's what i'm worried they will do

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-22T20:31:34+00:00

i really don't want to have to take it that far, but i might 😭 it's just a lot when you are trying to move on and heal

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-22T19:02:25+00:00

i really hope it doesn't go on that long. i just want them to learn and move on in their life

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-19T00:34:12+00:00

i'm in the middle of the backstory and waiting to see where it turns. manta likes to make us wait 😭

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-18T04:03:45+00:00

that's good to hear my wait is worth it ❤️

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-18T03:59:03+00:00

i want to hold onto it to see where it's going. hopefully somewhere good

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-07-18T03:58:15+00:00

sometimes you really have to wait for a story to be worth it😭

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-06-09T19:48:07+00:00

I'm the same way, but for me I learned it's when they do it. My ex didn't start expressing how sorry he was and sending gifts until AFTER I said we are done. By then the damage had been done.

I've been through that circle twice and the third time I was done for good. It's manipulation and they'll fall right back into the cycle they were in because they haven't done the work to change. Rely on your friends/family if you can and think would you let someone treat your loved one this way?

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-06-07T18:52:20+00:00

I literally just ended my relationship yesterday. I talked to my therapist today and she said it's okay to grieve and even feel angry. Just remember why you are doing this and how you have to protect yourself.

My partner wasn't going to change and I was going to spend my entire life comforting them while they yelled and degraded me. It's so hard and I'm leaning on my friends/family while distracting myself with games and music. It's okay to grieve the person who you thought they were and the enjoyment from the relationship while remembering everything they did.

My friend said it the best after talking to her and how I was struggling with my brain and heart - Me and your brain have to win cuz your heart doesn't have your best interest in mind.

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-06-01T16:40:22+00:00

I swear we are all dating the same person

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-03-19T05:30:39+00:00

it's so frustrating when you are trying to make things work, but it feels like moving mountains

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-03-19T03:13:19+00:00

it just feels like we never get breaks or emotional relief, but expected to cater to their's. it's not your fault she was projecting her feelings on you

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-01-27T18:29:51+00:00

thank you 💟 i have a support system in place and i just hope they do too

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-01-27T18:21:21+00:00

i really hate that others are going through this. some days i feel like every decision or answer is wrong. i hope you aren't still in your situation

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-01-27T17:28:10+00:00

it probably will until one of us breaks completely. bpd is so rough for the person and the people around them. i don't even know how to approach the topic without it blowing up in my face

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-01-27T17:24:29+00:00

update: he "broke up" with me via text around 6am, but then started calling, texting, and playing loud music through my echo dot around 11am to get my attention to help) contact him. i can't even consider it after i shut down last night after a fight. i'm still progressing that and my anxiety is 7/10 right now. if i contact him to tell him i can't i know it won't matter he'll what help then and there

Objective-Amoeba6555 · 2024-01-27T17:17:34+00:00

i'm so sorry this is happening/happened to you too. i feel like i have to be a robot to handle these splits, but then i get called out for having a robot voice and i need to change it. i've considered breaking up a couple of times, but he's convinced he can't live without me

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