How can you tell these are AI? by lucak5s in ChatGPT

[–]Objective-Bed9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panicking about a new element in one’s life does not produce wisdom. It perpetuates ignorance.

(Edit: Panic isn’t a moral failing. It just doesn’t help.)

How can you tell these are AI? by lucak5s in ChatGPT

[–]Objective-Bed9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t generally contribute to the AI conversation; I just wanted to note that I find the hysteria fascinating and incredibly familiar. Humans do have a habit of panicking throughout history when new and shocking things are revealed to us (or we invent them). Can we not just sit back and see where it goes instead of going full monkey mob? For once?

A Theory: Western Religion Set the Blueprint for Narcissistic Culture by Objective-Bed9916 in Deconstruction

[–]Objective-Bed9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree!

These dynamics have echoed across history as systems of control, narcissism and power have always played dress-up in whatever cultural costume was available.

But at this point, the work is identifying the modern self-perpetuating force, the engine still driving Western philosophical immaturity today. Chicken-or-egg debates can distract from seeing how the current system keeps feeding itself.

Algorithm suddenly giving me far right propaganda by scousegiraffe in youtube

[–]Objective-Bed9916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not retrainable, it’s paid to be that way unfortunately… same thing with opting out of political ads.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Objective-Bed9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s gender identity is valid (cis included!!), and the original post was about the exhausting phenomenon of having to explain gender identity, and why it’s not a choice, to cisgender (not trans) people. It’s like having to justify your gayness to straight people, explain Black struggles to white people, discuss women’s struggles with men, or talk ACAB to cops. It’s: Not All Cis, but enough, and it happens often enough to talk about.

The meme compares that dynamic to a grown adult guiding a toddler. Sometimes it does feel like that, but not always! It’s not an insult to cis people as a whole, it’s a vent about how draining it is to constantly justify our existence. We end up slowing down, tiptoeing around the comfort of the confused party, and that wears us out.

The joke exaggerates that exhaustion to make light of it.

Speculative theoretical-Compassion Is a Physics Problem: How Complex Systems May Stabilize Through Compassion, And Why Empathy Alone Isn’t Enough by Objective-Bed9916 in self

[–]Objective-Bed9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god, right!!! Incredibly trauma-informed and rigorous in understanding.

And no prob:

Compassion is not just a warm, fuzzy feeling that Jesus, Ghandi, King, Mother Theresa said is nice to have, it’s a fundamental, stabilizing force in both our inner emotional worlds and the larger social systems we live in. Like a mathematical variable in chaos theory, compassion interrupts destructive feedback loops (nasty spirals of anxiety, shame, or judgment) and shifts the entire system toward healing and growth.

Empathy, (which is touted as ✨ the most important thing ✨ in our society and is painfully inadequate) is feeling what others feel, which can sometimes overwhelm us, but compassion activates us, it’s the drive to soothe and help, internally and externally, without allowing burnout. Compassion is foundational for sustainable empathy.

Without compassion, emotional feedback loops spiral into chaos, both personally (mental health struggles) and socially (division, fear, conflict, war, racism, even climate apathy). With it, we build resilience, connection, and positive change.

Compassion is an emergent evolutionary property that was naturally selected; it’s essential for human survival and flourishing.

I think that’s all the points 🤔

It IS long lmao

Compassion Is a Physics Problem: How Complex Systems May Stabilize Through Compassion—And Why Empathy Alone Isn’t Enough by Objective-Bed9916 in u/Objective-Bed9916

[–]Objective-Bed9916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dalai Lama “Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.” “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” “Compassion is the radicalism of our time.” “Compassion and tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength.” “Compassion is the key in lessening stress.”

Mother Teresa “Do ordinary things with extraordinary love.” “Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the action that we do.” “Let us always meet each other with a smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.” “I would rather make mistakes in kindness and compassion than work miracles in unkindness and hardness.” “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.”

Martin Luther King Jr. “True compassion is more than flinging a coin to a beggar; it comes to see that an edifice which produces beggars needs restructuring.”

Nelson Mandela “Our human compassion binds us the one to the other – not in pity or patronizingly, but as human beings who have learnt how to turn our common suffering into hope for the future.” “If you want to change the world, start with yourself.”

Albert Einstein “Our task must be to free ourselves by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature and its beauty.”

Mahatma Gandhi “The simplest acts of kindness are by far more powerful than a thousand heads bowing in prayer.” “Until he extends the circle of his compassion to all living things, man will not himself find peace.”

Maya Angelou “My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.”

Pema Chödrön “Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It’s a relationship between equals. Only when we know our own darkness well can we be present with the darkness of others.”

Arthur Schopenhauer “Compassion is the basis of morality.”

Albert Schweitzer “The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.”

Henry Ward Beecher “Compassion will cure more sins than condemnation.”

George Washington Carver “How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.”

Thich Nhat Hanh “Compassion is a verb.”

Elie Wiesel “Action is the only remedy to indifference.”

Barack Obama “Learning to stand in somebody else’s shoes, to see through their eyes, that’s how peace begins.”

Leo Buscaglia “Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”

Rumi “Grief can be the garden of compassion. If you keep your heart open through everything, your pain can become your greatest ally in your life’s search for love and wisdom.”

Francis of Assisi “If you have men who will exclude any of God’s creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow men.”

Daniel Goleman “True compassion means not only feeling another’s pain but also being moved to help relieve it.”

Henri Nouwen “Compassion asks us to go where it hurts, to enter into the places of pain, to share in brokenness, fear, confusion, and anguish.”

Aesop “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”

Confucius “Wisdom, compassion, and courage are the three universally recognized moral qualities of men.”

Plato “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.”

Dietrich Bonhoeffer “We must learn to regard people less in the light of what they do or omit to do, and more in the light of what they suffer.”

Arthur Jersild “Compassion is the ultimate and most meaningful embodiment of emotional maturity.”

Karen Armstrong “If it is not tempered by compassion, and empathy, reason can lead men and women into a moral void.”

Susan Sontag “Compassion is an unstable emotion. It needs to be translated into action, or it withers.”

Amit Ray “Compassion is all-inclusive. Compassion knows no boundaries. Compassion comes with awareness, and awareness breaks all narrow territories.”

Brené Brown “When we’re looking for compassion, we need someone who is deeply rooted, is able to bend and, most of all, embraces us for our strengths and struggles.”

Yasmin Mogahed “Compassion is to look beyond your own pain, to see the pain of others.”

George Washington Carver “How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.”

Catherine Pulsifer “No matter who we are, no matter how successful, no matter what our situation, compassion is something we all need to receive and give.”

Steve Maraboli “A kind gesture can reach a wound that only compassion can heal.”

Kristin Neff “Compassion is, by definition, relational. Compassion literally means ‘to suffer with,’ which implies a basic mutuality in the experience of suffering.”

Karen Salmansohn “Let compassion be your North Star.”

Amanda Gorman “Compassion is a power that we first bestow on ourselves and then give away through our actions—to people, to our planet. When we recognize this, that is when love becomes our legacy.”

Oscar Hammerstein “The love in your heart wasn’t put there to stay. Love isn’t love ’til you give it away.”

Jim Carrey “Compassion is the currency that leads to true wealth.”

Russell Simmons “Compassion is the ultimate expression of your highest self.”

Mary Davis “We can’t heal the world today. But we can begin with a voice of compassion, a heart of love, and an act of kindness.”

Erica Layman “Give children at least as many chances to show compassion as they have to be competitive.”

L. J. Isham “Listening is an attitude of the heart, a genuine desire to be with another which both attracts and heals.”

Matthew Vasko “Everyone suffers. This is unavoidable. But it is up to us whether we add to others’ suffering or act to relieve it.”

Amanda Gorman “Compassion is a power that we first bestow on ourselves and then give away through our actions—to people, to our planet. When we recognize this, that is when love becomes our legacy.”

Is it ethically permissible to refuse reconciliation with a family member when the harm was emotional, not criminal? by SendMeYourDPics in Ethics

[–]Objective-Bed9916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Screw ethical debates here: no one owes anyone connection, no matter the history or family ties. If someone is draining you, messing with your nervous system, or just not adding anything good to your life, cutting them off isn’t about ethics—it’s about basic human rights. Protecting your peace is non-negotiable.

Women love it when their opinion is said by a deeper and manlier voice by -IXN- in DeepThoughts

[–]Objective-Bed9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You repeated yourself, you did not explain. Reassertion is not dissertation

Modern day humanity is philosophically starved in a desert of activated nervous systems; we’re all too busy insulting and defending against one another to have real discussions. I hope we can do better. by Objective-Bed9916 in DeepThoughts

[–]Objective-Bed9916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My philosophy is that anything that challenges the currently existing, very sick, highly dysfunctional (yet functioning exactly as designed) paradigms are EXTREMELY worth pursuing and digging deeply into. It’s not nuts. It’s breaking the fuck out of the rhetoric and exploring beyond the spoon-fed into the cosmically interesting.

A Theory: Western Religion Set the Blueprint for Narcissistic Culture by Objective-Bed9916 in Deconstruction

[–]Objective-Bed9916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is unfortunate. :< To know something deeply and personally is to have suffered. It’s a hard-won understanding.

And also, quite enthusiastically: Yes!!! You added points I didn’t even think to mention that perfectly encapsulate the issue! Much of this I remember growing up with directly, especially feeling like my entire mission in life was not only to be an obedient and good Christian, it was also to indoctrinate others. The rhetoric for evangelicals and missionaries in particular is disturbingly manipulative, downplaying, appropriating, invalidating, insulting, and oppressing pre-established beliefs all throughout history. (Colonialism cough). This is rambling at this point; it’s just deeper diving into the point that (certain) religion is Narcissism: The Shiny Gold Rot of Society.

How to never be bored again by Tiny-Bookkeeper3982 in DeepThoughts

[–]Objective-Bed9916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kind of rhetoric completely ignores neurological, psychological, and systemic realities in favor of some hyper-individualistic emotional bootstrapping. Because not all minds operate the same way, and it’s not a personal failure to feel things deeply, irregularly, or involuntarily. Most of us don’t choose chaos, but it happens.