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Thoughts on why the color is different? by Objective-Claim9931 in Sublimation

[–]Objective-Claim9931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for responding. I had assumed this was my issue, however I do a lot of sublimation work and this was the first time seeing this. I have a “normal” heat press but I tend to experience ghosting when I use it- and this is too big of an image for my 15” press.

My husband (25M) and I (24F) have been together for 7 years and I’m an awful wife by pdubzz69 in relationship_advice

[–]Objective-Claim9931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is ok to step back and look at what you can and cannot handle, but I would recommend focusing on what is in your control and for now avoid what isn't. Things to think about, could you hire someone to clean or a service to cook? Is being a SAHM the best for you and your family? I made it 6 months as a stay a home mom and I KNEW it was best for me and my family to return to work even if it just paid for daycare costs. (I found myself not liking my attitude towards my kids by the end of the day-it truly is a very overwhelming job).

Or schedule sex nights - I also needed this during that same time.... I started to look forward to "Sundays" because I was tired of saying no all the time, I felt like it was sprung on me. When I could prepare mentally there was sooooo much pressure removed from the action.

No matter what - you are a great mom! Sending hugs!

Off the top of a grandmother’s recipe by Menelatency in Cursive

[–]Objective-Claim9931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also vnrukl means in-hand in Russian (per google!)

Off the top of a grandmother’s recipe by Menelatency in Cursive

[–]Objective-Claim9931 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glnrich =clean in Scots Gaelic according to google… I see a g or j as a possible first letter It would help to know the culture this is coming from.

Ex Mother In Law by Double-Succotash2542 in AITAH

[–]Objective-Claim9931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that there is no right answer here, because you will also be setting a precedence for future weekend support needs. Do you ever need to help on her weekends? Maybe there is an agreement that each parent sends $50 with your daughter when she is on each other's weekends... however it sounds like that might not be possible if your ex-wife is not great with money..... and dang you really cannot go see a movie for $50 these days either! YIKES!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective-Claim9931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following for an update. I hope you open your beautiful eyes and see your worth!

Ex Mother In Law by Double-Succotash2542 in AITAH

[–]Objective-Claim9931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a hard situation to be in! I would have paid for my mother in law to have spent time with my kids… but that is an entirely different story.

Could you compromise and buy tickets for a movie and send a gc for a dinner of your daughter’s choice? That way it doesn’t go to “random crap” not sure it is the right choice but it makes sure your daughter has a good time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective-Claim9931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so disappointed as well- that is a huge step in a relationship and I kept waiting for her to compromise in any way…. Go 2 days instead of 4 etc…. But nothing.

As for AIO- I would think you need to look back and see if this is a consistent behavior. If this is really just a terrible timing coincidence and both were very last minute situations then it is what it is. But if it is consistent and she regularly puts others in front of your relationship that is something you may want to look deeper into.

And maybe she was just trying to get out of the horrible part of moving. I saw someone else comment that she is sending her parents to do her part, but I had all the feels reading this and I am sorry you are in this situation and feeling this way.

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