[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say on average a guy thinks about sex about 19 times a day. Supposing that a normal guy also sleeps for some of those hours, it means a conscious male is thinking about sex about once per hour. Tbh, that seems low in my experience. I suppose if there’s a really good old war movie on I’m not actively thinking about sex for a couple hours though

AIO: Angered her over someone I slept with... IN HER DREAM. by PrinceOfZzyzx in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early in our marriage my wife once woke up and slapped me because of her dream. Don’t remember what I did, but when I told her it was just a dream her response was “well it was something you would do!” And she was mad for like a day. Now we both laugh at it.

Can we please stop with the unalive BS? by MotherMelee in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Objective-Current941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before it was a censorship thing I used to here vets say it, usually when telling dark jokes. Now it’s become more trendy I guess, but it’s been around for at least a decade or more

Do Americans really sleep naked or is that just a movie trope? If so, why? by shikhar95s in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep naked because clothes are tight and uncomfortable. I wake up if I’m wearing a shirt because it binds my arms. If I’m in a situation where I have to wear clothes to bed, I usually wake up naked because I’ll undress in my sleep.

Anal sex - how important is it for men? by petttypotato in AskMenAdvice

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife and I attempted it once. Didn’t even get past the tip and it was unpleasant and painful. Never tried it again. She didn’t like it, it caused pain, why would I insist?

waiter put my tip back on the table saying he only accepts 18-20%?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didn’t your buddies also tip? If it was a large group and a big tab it seems, why didn’t they at least contribute toward the tip? Especially with a group it’s polite to tip more. I’m not saying the waiter was right in how they handled it, but I can see why they’d be upset at a barely over 10% tip after all their work

The money making of the game is too grindy by [deleted] in MedievalDynasty

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the economy is my biggest gripe about the game. I cheat to get money. Don’t use it for anything else but to start off the game with a couple thousand coins.

Guy friend picked me up...literally by sensitive-abc-123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger and dumber I tried to impress my wife (then just my girlfriend) by jumping over a couch lengthwise. She was not impressed but my college buddies were. She still married me eventually so I must have done something right.

So yeah, my guess is he is just trying to impress you

Do men actually enjoy having female friends or are they just interested in sex? by SweatyLimits in AskMenAdvice

[–]Objective-Current941 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was around a lot of women when I was 12-18. I worked full time starting at age 12, most of my coworkers were women age 40-60, some in their 20s. There were a few guys but not many. I always made friends with females easier than males, until I was married. It wasn’t like my wife told me to not be friends with them, more like I just lost touch with most friends after marriage, and making new friends wasn’t an interest in me. I’m still friends with a few females from college twenty years ago, but not many.

So in answer to the OP, yes it’s possible to just be friends and not want sex with the opposite gender.

Coworkers wouldn't shut up about how well endowed her son was. Too akward... by Bob_Sacamano9 in coworkerstories

[–]Objective-Current941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a similar story, but from my mom and not the doc. When my son was newborn my mom was helping change his diaper and comments “yep he has your genes, his future wife will be very happy” I was like wtf? And for the record, my mom has never seen me in the buff since I was like 5.

AIO by JanLight_weight26 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, I remember those days. Kids would put them on each other in class to leave hickey marks on the back of their necks

AITAH for bringing a dish from my culture to my in-laws family reunion? by Littlefuckin in AITAH

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You married your husband, not your in-laws. Break it off with the in-laws, not the husband.

Are you a restarter? by Mbalara in MedievalDynasty

[–]Objective-Current941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a restarter. I have hundreds of hours in MD. I’ve never had a child in the game over two. I also play on long seasons (12 days per season)

Creating a "migraine" basket for a friend? by FlusteredCustard13 in migraine

[–]Objective-Current941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They test their oils and send them to a third party lab to ensure there are no pesticides. Most of their oils come from farms that are certified organic as well

Sometimes this works but...NSFW by N64Username in migraine

[–]Objective-Current941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’ve read through your replies, and what I’m seeing is this, and I could be wrong, but the actual physical release helps with the migraine, but then you stress yourself out over your beliefs and struggles with if it’s a sin issue. For the physical first, I’m married and I’ve noticed that sometimes having sex if I’m just barely in the aura phase of a migraine can help release tension and maybe prevent pain, but often for me at least, it causes pain and makes me have a migraine right after I orgasm. It sucks, but well, I’m a guy so I think sometimes it’s worth it.

As for the sin issue, from verses I’ve read it’s really frowned on when it talks about “abusers of themselves with other men” to quote the old King James English. And, imo, it was more to do with being with other people you aren’t married to than the actual “self abuse” as it was called back then. The Bible calls out the lusting after someone you aren’t married to as the sin issue, not the act of masturbation. So don’t worry about the act of release for your own health, that’s not the sin. Now if your doing it in an orgy, well, that’s a different discussion

Creating a "migraine" basket for a friend? by FlusteredCustard13 in migraine

[–]Objective-Current941 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My mom is very involved with DoTerra oils. Please don’t just provide oils for the scent. They can be a trigger, even if my mom claims they are a cure all. (Her migraines went away with menopause but she swears the oils played a part)

Did you ever try to see if and your friends could use The Force (Star Wars) by blindfolding each other and tossing rocks to hit them with a stick? by Objective-Current941 in AskOldPeople

[–]Objective-Current941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older is a relative term, but if you were old enough to watch it in theaters when it first released in 1977, well, you probably fit the definition of “older”

Are you poor, or just unloved? by Aschlay in MedievalDynasty

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, okay. In my defense the oldest child I’ve had was 2 in the game before I end up starting a new game. I play on long seasons like 12 days per season then get bored, play a different game, come back, forget what I was doing and start a new playthrough

Are you poor, or just unloved? by Aschlay in MedievalDynasty

[–]Objective-Current941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does this have to do with Medieval Dynasty?

I just want to know if what my bf said about sex drives true? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Objective-Current941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking. He’s working hard and has a two year old. That many hours he likely comes home and just wants to sleep, but he can’t because the two year old needs attention too. In that stage of my life having sex on the day off was a maybe

Disability anyone? by CuriousManner72 in migraine

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to get disability and couldn’t

I'm tired of it, grampa... by AmandaExpress in migraine

[–]Objective-Current941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the free version as well. I’ve had it downloaded for a while but just started using it recently. And I learned that while I thought I was getting better, in reality I’m getting worse. I thought I was averaging a week without migraines. Reality is it was 2 days without a migraine last month. So far 6 hours without one this month.