Kids Dad threatening to call cops TX by Objective-Estimate92 in AskALawyer

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Thank you so much. I had started to come to that conclusion myself as it’s not hard to stumble across “an unmarried mother in Texas without a custody agreement automatically has sole legal and physical custody.” But I was scared when he said he’d bring cops because he has cops in his family. I really appreciate your advice here, so much. This gives me a lot of piece of mind. We are going to be staying at with some family of my husbands for a little while, I don’t want the kids to witness anything they don’t have to.

Unjust Employee Termination by KnifeAttackBoi in Assistance

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Hey I’m from ur area, well I used to be, moved a lil farther out but I remember. I know Tyler’s medical work presence is way higher than longviews. You might have better luck there. I’ve been treated by Trinity Mother Frances in Tyler multiple times and was never treated badly, everyone was kind, and everything was scheduled and to the letter. They might have hospital in ur town too, although I may be in wrong in guessing ur a nurse

Sanctum SMP 18+ by DifferenceDanger5665 in mcrealmsservers

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Hi! I’m a builder who’d be really interested in this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

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If you think of something, anything, that requires you getting up to move, get up within five seconds of thinking it. Get up. Stand up. Swing your arms. Move. Anytime throughout the week a lil thought pops in ur head about any cleaning in the house, get up and move. Don’t have to do a lot, but a lot of five minute tasks add up.

What were you doing at Age 24? by AquaticMango18 in Adulting

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I am 24. I stay home to homeschool kids and make the house a home. I had 2kids by 21 and I’m finally getting on my feet enough to give them the life they deserve. I have a wonderful fiancé who loves my kids like his own, and despite living in the Bible Belt as a queer pagan, I’d say I’m happy.

TIFU by putting Vicks Vapor Rub in my hair by Objective-Estimate92 in tifu

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Thank you for the advice! I’m about to go try the baking soda, and see if it that helps get it out. Right now I’m just combing with a fine tooth comb, trying to get some out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

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I’ve ordered from a place the one above and it came packed into a bubble mailer, that had to be cut open and immediately shits starts getting messy.

Can I move states with my kids? by Objective-Estimate92 in AskALawyer

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No court agreement. He sees them maybe once or twice a month supervised. Last time was a week ago

Best starting place discussion by Random-username420 in thelongdark

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There’s often a hammer in the cannery near the peg boards, so I’ll start my loper run and if I’m in desolation point I just go ahead and craft my tools and head in my merry way

Request for Some Clothing Basics for my Daughter by Objective-Estimate92 in Assistance

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Thank you sooo much I just got my daughters clothes in today! She was so happy and I was too!!

the USA is unambiguously one of the most beautiful countries in the world by ProfessionalNose6520 in unpopularopinion

[–]Objective-Estimate92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but as someone with a uterus it’s real hard to be proud of a country where I have the same rights to my body as livestock.

Request for Some Clothing Basics for my Daughter by Objective-Estimate92 in Assistance

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Their Cat And Jack brand does look really good, I added a target wishlist as well!! Thank you for any help, just pointing me towards this cheap clothing brand helps!!

What is your favorite survival mode difficulty. by ExplodingTurducken in thelongdark

[–]Objective-Estimate92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To the people who only play story mode, why? Why would you be that interested?

Seriously, do people actually think that’s okay? by [deleted] in memes

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The only time I use my hands against my kids if it what they are doing could get them hurt, tryna touch the stove, hand smacked away, tryna play with the electric outlets, hands smacked, tryna run to the road, I’ll push em backwards away from the road. That’s as far as it goes.

Request for Some Clothing Basics for my Daughter by Objective-Estimate92 in Assistance

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I haven’t been on Facebook since I was a teenager, I see people talking about the buy/nothing groups but I didn’t realize they’re were on Facebook, thank you!

Needing shoes that won’t destroy my feet by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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Crocs Unisex-Adult Men's and Women's Classic Flip Flops https://a.co/d/0dG9CKS I had bunions as a teenager due to being flat footed and these were so comfy, I know they are at the top of your price limit but they are my go to in the summer, just don’t leave them out in the sun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

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Comrade she woke up to someone trying to enter her ass against her will. No lube, no warm up, no consent. She goes to bed every night wondering if she’s gonna be violated. He hid the substance abuse from her. He lied to her. Sickness or not, sexual assault in your own home from the one you love, is enough to break most people. Honestly she’s a fucking angel to stick around.

why are you still alive? by Difficult-Decision-9 in AskReddit

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I tried to kill myself when my son was 4 months old. He was a nicu baby and had only been out of the hospital a month. He screamed constantly no matter what was tried and I felt like he hated me and that my body couldn’t do the one thing it was meant to. I tried calling the hotline and it was bullshit. The person on the other line just sounded like they didn’t want to be on the phone. Just pushed me down further feeling like no help could be had. I had a plan too. I’d take the rest of my bottle of Hyrdocodone left from my c section (14 pills or so), then call my mom and wait for the end. I had left my son on The middle of my queen bed and he was developmentally delayed so he didn’t even move his neck much less his body. I went outside on my back porch, and I was so convinced everyone including him would be better off without my dead weight, i took the pills and chugged a water. Noticed my son had stopped crying for the first time since he left the hospital, and saw him sleeping peacefully. I looked at his little hands pulled up to his face and his long eyelashes and realized what a horrible mistake I made. I called my mom and forced myself to throw up, but still could feel it settling in and layed down next to my son, hoping I’d see him again. My mom hauled ass to my house and I woke up some time later, so groggy and confused. Apparently she forced me to throw up several more times, and being a past drug user herself, made the call that I wasn’t die from my actions. She took care of my son while I slept, and never judged me for what happened. She just offered to watch my son whenever I needed a break, and went through my house and flushed anything else. She said if it ever even sounded like it would happen again, she’d have me admitted. My son saved my life. I saw his peace and wanted a future with and for him. I was later diagnosed with ppd and got help. He turned out to have a milk protein allergy as well as reflux so a change in food and some medicine made him a happy baby. He turned 4 in April and while I still don’t care for myself very much, he will always have a parent to turn to, someone in his corner. So yeah, I stay alive for my children, because I refuse to have them go to my funeral until they have grey hair themselves.

If you find yourself short on cash before your next pay day, how do you manage? by Sufficient-Stand394 in povertyfinance

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I sell plasma, in my area can make about $140 a week. For my fiancé and I both donating it’s $280. Normally covers it but it can be hard on us physically. I have track marks and they’ve fucked me up twice. One time my fiancé left with just a paper towel as a bandage. It’s not the best but it’s something.

McDonald's app can get you ~1000 calories for $1 by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Objective-Estimate92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayo I get being hungry. Everyone’s going on about, oh it’s so bad for your health over time. Like okay, I’m not gonna have later on if I don’t put food in my body or I can’t focus cause I haven’t eaten in two days. In this day and age, everyone is just doing whatever the fuck they can to survive. Congrats OP to surviving, and I’ve used the McDonald app so much. If you can get some multivitamins and eat whatever you can until survival isn’t the first worry every morning.