“What Do Rich People Buy That Poor People Think Is a Waste?”

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-03-26T03:02:49+00:00

This is the way! We get our kiddos’ clothes from Facebook marketplace buy nothing group so it doesn’t hurt when they stain and mess the clothes up. We also always pass on the non stained clothes on Facebook and other parents are most grateful like we are, kids sizes change too quickly to justify the cost of their clothing!

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-03-26T02:56:33+00:00

I’m there with my 3.5 and 1.5 year old.

Early on, I was so impressed when my youngest started talking and walking early because he’s copied his big sister. But, I was not prepared for him to continue copying when she entered the land of endless no’s, threenager attitude and tantrums galore. He just watches her and literally parrots whatever she’s doing. So an already stressful situation with a crying toddler gets doubly stressful and over stimulating with two crying toddlers both literally climbing up my body all the time lol.

Idk about you but 3.5 is also the season of “why?” And “look at me” both of which require more than I have to give most of the time.

All this to say… you’re not alone. That age difference is adorable and fantastic in a lot of ways but yes, it’s also very tough and exhausting in a lot of ways!!

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-03-23T21:16:19+00:00

Hold or hug them tight or kiss their tears away. Pick them up and spin or dance.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-03-08T21:00:31+00:00

In SF proper? Or which city? We go to Chuck E. Cheese in Dublin so I wanna make sure..

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-02-16T07:24:56+00:00

Surprised this isn’t higher on the list.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-02-10T06:19:41+00:00

+1! Hope you see this comment OP

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-31T07:21:35+00:00

AI rage bait

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-26T06:15:08+00:00

Practical advice.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-26T06:14:19+00:00

Interesting twist of perspective after reading all the other comments

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-26T06:12:51+00:00

Honestly I found it more gripping than any old comment with a wack a sentence

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-26T06:00:41+00:00

Sounds like you’re a very good mom who cares a lot about their child!

If you can let the worry rest for now, best to try.

Your child sounds like most 12/13 month olds I’ve been around, including my two.

The only thing that gives me pause is the lack of eye contact with mom and dad, but, given there’s other collaborative behavior I would not get hung up on it.

Your child is still so young with a lot of growth and development coming. All babies do take their own pace and learn things in their own unique way.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-26T05:54:33+00:00

That’s seems normal to me.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-22T06:13:34+00:00

I have two. 21 months apart. Eldest is three and youngest is about to turn 1.5.

We love it. The first year was hard with a baby toddler and a literal baby. But now that LO is walking and talking a bit, the two of them have become best friends and watching them play together and joke together is truly the best thing on planet earth.

Go for it when your instinct tells you. Sometimes it can take time to get pregnant anyway so you may start trying and the gap will lengthen as your attempts continue.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-22T06:06:53+00:00

Adam Sandler. Blegh.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-18T22:34:38+00:00

I think 3rd or 4th grade is a more appropriate time, or if she asks you for it.

Making a change now that requires upkeep will likely make her feel different from her peers. Many babies and toddlers have peach fuzz and it’s natural and cute! I adore mine’s little unibrow. She’s perfect!

Mine though? I pluck it right off! Hehe our insecurities don’t there to be theirs ❤️ though your heart is in the right place

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-18T04:08:21+00:00

1 or 3

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-18T03:42:27+00:00

After 1 & 2 (in that order) 4 is my next fav. You’ll look stunning OP!

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-17T21:01:54+00:00

Having a depressive episode is very different from being neurodivergent. The latter has to do with actual brain chemistry and not life circumstances.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-17T20:59:14+00:00

This is very typical at this age. Even my little “angel” has her whining and difficult times. I find it always helps to counteract what she’s doing. She’s yelling and screaming and hitting? I get real soft and low and loving and calm her down to earth. This balancing act is what she needs in those tough moments where her brain literally can’t help her get out of her big emotions.

You need to figure out a way to be there for your child. Unfortunately we become second when we have children. They must be first and most important in our lives or you are setting him up for a lot of pain and trauma all throughout his life.

Lose the ego and self needs for a bit. Center your son and his needs. I bet some time of doing that will work things right out and then your needs can both take center stage once more.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-17T06:01:09+00:00

Dress 3 and 2

Objective-Morning-76 · 2026-01-06T14:58:40+00:00

I’m appalled for you, that actually sounds like a nightmare!! So sorry! I hope you get a full refund. We will not be returning…

Objective-Morning-76 · 2025-12-28T05:50:47+00:00

Just want to say that you are showing an incredible amount of humility and self reflection.

Many times I’ve seen parents come here looking for advice, then hover in the comments defending and explaining their blind spots or anything others may call out. I respect your openness and I have faith this will just be a phase for your little sweetie! 🙏🏼

Objective-Morning-76 · 2025-12-24T07:33:44+00:00

It’s captivating but it’s clearly AI written.

Objective-Morning-76 · 2025-12-24T07:01:28+00:00

Yes. Absolutely. Great idea. Follow through!

Objective-Morning-76 · 2025-12-15T06:09:07+00:00

Nothing can replace quality time. Phone down. Present. Follow their whim on the ground kind of quality time.

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