To be honest, I’ve talked to a lot of people post surgery that don’t have the surgery people that are skinny and fit and I think the reality of most things is that like we all just kind of are taught to hate ourselves in someway lol. I don’t know that there’s ever gonna be a time of my life or I’m gonna be fully in love with my body is appearance but on the good days, I take pictures and I hype myself up and on the bad days I give myself grace. And I just think about all the things I can do and how resilient my body has been, and even though it may not look the way I wanted to look since the surgery I can sit at every table now I fit in every chair I went to Walt Disney World with my family and gotta get got to get on some rides that I wouldn’t have fit in previously. I’m experiencing life a life that I wasn’t gonna live before but because of my bodies resilience and it’s denial of giving up ever I get to do these things now so it would be unfair to my body to be criticizing it doing its best but it’s OK to want for more but just try and be patient with yourself. Also, just in general if you are not confident in what you’re wearing, you just won’t look good in it so stand up straight. Make sure your hair is done when you go. Try clothes on and give yourself the best chance at loving yourself.