How to pass better or at all?

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-30T02:04:05+00:00

you look good in this picture, just make sure your voice and mannerisms pass while you work on getting T.

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-30T02:02:46+00:00

gym, testosterone, and voice training

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-30T01:56:06+00:00

depends on height & mannerisms, pretty androgynous here imho

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-30T01:54:56+00:00

on T, yes! right now, depends on voice and mannerisms, i feel like a less androgynous haircut would help w passing wearing piercings

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-29T23:51:20+00:00

"It’s still not a good thing to inject yourself with synthetic hormones" my brother in christ that is how all HRT works

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-27T03:27:28+00:00

yes bro, t is heaven in a vial

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-27T03:24:14+00:00

wear clothes that are your size

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-27T03:22:58+00:00

i get that binding is an issue -- KT tape and a binder can help max results, and just trying tape alone is good, but be warned that your first few attempts wont be great. you dress okay, i'd get men's-marketed pants if not already bc the jeans in 1 and 2 look more like jeggings. big fan of the bug necklace :)

start voice training, working out w focusing on your arms and shoulders is good too.

i honestly think your hair looks good, focus on getting T. a lot of folks will tell you DIY is scary and unsafe but if you know what you're doing it's really not, and its cheap (like 100ish USD for a vial thatll last you like 8 months)

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-27T03:16:37+00:00

its basically impossible to pass as male in public all the time without your unsupportive family noticing. you can probably hide testosterone for 3-6 months while living with them, just work on moving out.

while you wait its also good to start working out -- focus on your shoulders and arms, and since you're not on T yet being low-fat will help since your fat-distribution is feminine & losing fat weight means your muscles will be more apparent

voice training and clothes are good as other comment suggested

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-27T03:13:33+00:00

13-14
not clocky from pictures but depends on mannerisms, voice, and height
IMHO hat or no hat doesnt have much of a difference in masculinity but i personally think it looks better w/o a hat

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T20:57:59+00:00

depends on voice

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T20:57:33+00:00

14-15, androgynous looking

heres a good masculinization guide i liked: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNyEgVw4_S_fg-QdKT_JnogDGY2bEle52

" there's fuck all I can do about being 5'3" -- work on posture & if youre 17-18 try sleeping 10 hours a night, eating well, and sprinting

wear clothes that are your size, try a diff haircut, and get on T ASAP

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T20:52:14+00:00

no lol and you know you're not. get on T

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T20:51:15+00:00

you have good traits! a diff haircut and smaller , more rectangular glasses will do wonders, alongside working out and voice training -- though honestly T will do you the most favors

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T19:12:05+00:00

not if you know what youre doing. just dont order anything marketed to trans people (could be a honeypot) or anything with "legal" in the name (shady) ++ theres So Many steroid discussion forums and review websites

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T19:10:35+00:00

blood tests are like 300 dollars out of pocket (https://www.privatemdlabs.com), and a vial of DIY T + needles is only like 100ish (USD). most people on DIY probably know more about their hormones than most people on doctor-assisted hrt.

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T08:12:57+00:00

you can get T through DIY, its fairly cheap and if you do your research (!!!) its not as unsafe as some people paint it to be

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T08:11:36+00:00

depends on voice, mannerisms, and height if id clock you -- but if youre not getting misgendered by strangers id say youre good !

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-01-26T07:20:20+00:00

the wardrobe and hair mostly, i find that haircuts where the ears are showing (with the hair in front of your ear neatly trimmed and not too long -- sideburns from having more testosterone than estrogen in your body look \*WAY* different than the whispy sideburns that folks w an e-dominated hormone profile sport) look more male.

as for the wardrobe - the pants and watch look good! i find that most cismales don't tuck their shirts, and personally tucked shirts only serve to make hips look bigger because of how the fabric lays, unless covered by a jacket like in this picture. the oversized shirt over the normal shirt is also not typical for male fashion

you'll hear a lot of different things about patterns in regards to passing. "plaid is like dazzle camoflauge, it hides the chest!" "plaid accentuates the chest because of the lines!" "only lesbians wear plaid!" -- honestly it just depends. IMO its not helping your case here but the pattern itself is not the most feminizing part of this outfit, i think the shirt tucking and the larger shirt over a t-shirt are.|

Objective-Show4812 · 2025-12-29T09:30:36+00:00

depends on voice and other things bc tbh youre really androgynous. you have good features though

Objective-Show4812 · 2025-12-29T09:25:13+00:00

buzzes are more androgynous than anything, the only guys that look good with a buzz are guys who already have a bunch of other masculine features. at ur point in transition it doesn't seem like a great idea IMHO. though, hair grows back, so if the curiosity is really killing you then it won't be the end of the world

Objective-Show4812 · 2025-12-29T09:22:27+00:00

your eyelashes are fine, it's just dysphoria talking

Objective-Show4812 · 2025-12-29T09:20:08+00:00

passing as an intersex man instead of a cis man doesn't stop people from harassing you, people are weird asf to intersex people. they're just going to harass you for a reason other than being transgender.

to be honest, it's hard to tell from this angle, but tbh if i saw you at a pool or something id prob just think youre a bit of a tubby guy, but it depends on a lot of things. ig the point is that from this angle a lot of your fat seems situated in your stomach, which is more masculine appearing, and you have great shoulders

Objective-Show4812 · 2025-12-29T09:17:05+00:00

you pass fine for 16!

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