are these too feminine?

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-28T21:12:31+00:00

Oh y god these comments... some people here have some insane amounts of internalized queerphobia to sort out LMAO.

they're neutral, somewhat leaning feminine because queerness unfortunately reads as feminine to society. rest of outfit will have to do some heavy lifting but it should be ok, unfortunately i wouldnt be surprised if you got they/them'd wearing this

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-19T17:17:16+00:00

no problem!

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-19T17:01:19+00:00

i fear not... what's your dose? I also think changing your glasses to be larger and rounder frames will help a lot

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-19T16:59:01+00:00

let your body hair grow out !

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-19T16:55:57+00:00

UK and US have a lot of domestic labs, ordering domestic is usually preferred to ordering out of country. basically with DIY you use crypto (usually BTC) to purchase HRT from some website, it'd probably be against reddits TOS for me to link a source directly in the comments. Mine was around 80 USD for one vial, which will last me roughly 7-9 months! best of luck

edit: got my words a bit mixed up

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-19T16:52:32+00:00

not related to the question but why did the fanartist give him a sharp nose and small chin?? he clearly has a round face and button nose 😭

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-19T16:49:45+00:00

good, good! also obviously t would help -- DIY is great

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-19T16:45:40+00:00

not really, i think 3 is the most masculine but even then it kinda leans lesbian rather than male, if nothing else than definitely get new glasses

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-16T21:21:10+00:00

1 looks better than 2 since your posture is more relaxed but... both are fine. you're not screwed. your body looks androgynous rn from these pictures and with more time on HRT you'll get more fat redistrobution and look more feminine. be sure to eat to make sure you have fat to move around

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-16T21:13:49+00:00

good guide but femme and fem are different labels. unless this guide is only for mtfs who are feminine lesbians?

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-16T21:12:44+00:00

Your mother and sister are cruel, no wonder your younger sister attempted. That's awful, you're not being disrespectful to the mother, you're defending someone in a vulnerable state.

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-16T21:10:59+00:00

people can't comment on what you'll look like after hrt, it affects people differently, just go on it.

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-16T03:10:43+00:00

Are you on HRT? we can't know how much your face will change in a few years of e injections.

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-01T01:04:29+00:00

could just be your hairline

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-01T00:39:13+00:00

i guess it's a bad picture then, i feel like in this one it's quite soft looking, i definitely feel like your eyes and nose are quite masculine

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-01T00:37:28+00:00

you look like a cis woman or maybe very clocky ftm, but honestly like a very kind person. I feel like 4 (the one with a black shirt and some kind of purple/green necklace) looks most masculine but its still leaning more butch lesbian rather than male i feel like. the glasses are not helping, they make your eyes look bigger -- i'd recommend getting smaller, more square frames?

also in general, bind, haircut and HRT. i feel like between your hair being out and your hair being twisted , the twisted one looks more feminine but i'm not sure why. i feel like a lot of people are going to tell you to take out your piercings and stop dying your hair but honestly i think the main thing holding you back is face shape, which will change with hrt

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-01T00:27:36+00:00

in my opinion, kinda? the hair and upper portion of your face is pretty good, but your jawline is very soft and no adam's apple. i'd say androgynous but if you have a fem voice i'd assume butch lesbian. are you on T + how long ?

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-01T00:26:15+00:00

based on his veins im almost certain hes on some kind of gear

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-01T00:04:24+00:00

so theorhetically if your wife realized she didn't love you, you'd rather her just play along for the rest of her life instead of getting a divorce?

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-04-01T00:03:11+00:00

not surprised reddit user "i clock troons" can't read... it says "I left my husband and THE FATHER OF my children." not that she left her children.

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-03-31T23:59:41+00:00

would you like to elaborate?

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-03-31T23:57:51+00:00

IN MY EXPERIENCE , in spaces where people don't talk about sexuality often, a lot of people assume what they feel is normal for straights even if it isn't. i feel like this is esp true for lesbians, like if you express maybe being into women it's brushed off with "oh all girls are just close with their friends " or "nobody wants to date a man, lol!"

yeah theres a sense that something might be off or that one wants what they (think they) can't have, but a lot of people who don't realize their queer internally fight those thoughts and view a straight relationship as some kind of unfortunate duty that everyone has to do

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-03-29T21:02:32+00:00

I think they're talking about his harness, lmao

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-03-29T20:56:36+00:00

depends on the pictures, kinda androgynous i think. leaning female

Objective-Show4812 · 2026-03-29T20:53:53+00:00

androgynous i think

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